First I am sorry this is happening to you. She is having an emotional affair which is a form of infidelity especially when it makes you uncomfortable. Rule of thumb in relationships is if something you’re doing is something that makes your partner uncomfortable you shouldn’t be doing it & if you have to sneak to do it, it’s cheating. The major thing here is that she is your wife. You’ve made vows to each other. Her pal really doesn’t owe you anything, but she does. Idk if you asking him to back off will do any good as he is already willing to lie for her. Also, the fact that she is willing to risk her family to keep this friend around & it is quite disrespectful to not only you but also your baby.
I can see she's on by my messenger app, which I use for business purposes.
He sounds like a terrible boyfriend. I would leave him and try to find a new one that actually cares about you.
First I am sorry this is happening to you. She is having an emotional affair which is a form of infidelity especially when it makes you uncomfortable. Rule of thumb in relationships is if something you’re doing is something that makes your partner uncomfortable you shouldn’t be doing it & if you have to sneak to do it, it’s cheating. The major thing here is that she is your wife. You’ve made vows to each other. Her pal really doesn’t owe you anything, but she does. Idk if you asking him to back off will do any good as he is already willing to lie for her. Also, the fact that she is willing to risk her family to keep this friend around & it is quite disrespectful to not only you but also your baby.