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Date: October 27, 2022
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na bro she knew what she was doing man. Straight cheating. Doesn't matter if it was a one time thing. She sent 2 things man. It's still fucked for her to do that to u. You ain't need someone who sells nudes.
It hurts me to see so many ladies with this much low self esteem.
Came here to say this. Thank you.
Judging by your comments, I think you should break with her either way. You don't want to be with someone that you think is capable of drugging you. If your results come back saying you have been drugged, report her to the police and if it comes back clean, still break up with her. You said it yourself your thinking about someone else, you deserve to be happy. I hope everything works out for you.
Keep every message text voice-mail all of that is evidence. Never stop fighting for your child. Get a lawyer
He didn’t? He promised her that he stops
I think there are a lot of shitty women out there that say they want men to be vulnerable but then actually don't.
“People continue jumping to conclusions”
Which must be what you want because you’re not supplying the relevant details that would allow people to understand your situation better and be able to give you useful advice.
Are you looking for justification to break up? Because you don’t really need it. If the relationship isn’t working for you, move on. No blame need be assigned to anyone.
Look, I know it's naked (lol) but if you don't like the guy, ouve got to let him go.
Why? Because youre just using him for sex. And at the same time, you're leading him on by not being honest about your feelings (which, YOU DONT EVEN LIKE HIM) so you're kind of wasting his time as well as using him as a human sex toy.
Don't be a lady-fuccboi. Break it off, buy a Magic Wand, and keep looking. OR, be a terrible person: the choice is yours.
My guy, going on about how you won’t know how to date her, that’s a bit too far. It puts pressure on her to give you emotional support, when if you feel bad, it should be you should giving Her support. I get you feel bad, but you show that by just apologizing and not doing it again. Any more than that when she’s not upset, that’s getting into energy vampire territory. Don’t put her in a position to reassure you when you’re the one that overstepped.
Usually that's only for a no fault divorce. If OOP wants to argue infidelity in court he could probably try for an at-fault divorce but OOP already has a lawyer who knows how it works in his state and can give him better advice than anyone on reddit.
She’s an adult and not your responsibility, have some more respect for yourself and your girlfriend and cut this woman that can’t take no as an answer out of your life.
This is why I’m glad I online alone
You're a piece of shit.
My advice is to stop being a piece of shit.
Tell your boyfriend what youve been doing and let him make his own decision about what happens next.
That’s still him lying about who the lingerie is for/belongs to.
Nice fake post OP.
Oh honey
I’ve been with my SO for 21 years. I still feel that way most times. He is so good in the bed I’m always dtf. lol.
Pain pills are not for panic attacks. You need an anti-anxiety med. If you are not experiencing pain, pain meds are only for the high.
He has bodily autonomy too, idk why it's shameful that he's backing out of a potentially permanently altering surgery. You both have the right to not insert or change parts of your body, so obviously just going back to condoms is a sensible move. And yes vasectomies are reversible, but there's never a guarantee it'll work, so you could easily be permanently sterilized. It's just as decisive as all forms of birth control
Did you ask, or are you assuming?
Then why is it brought up when the male is older by more than 3 years no matter the situation?
We have an open relationship, so that’s how she got pregnant.
Wow! That's not how. Plenty of open relationships don't end up with unplanned pregnancies. She's either having unprotected sex or there was a birth control failure. First – I feel like you should first be more concerned about your sexual health (is she having unprotected sex with multiple partners? Is she getting tested regularly? For your health, I would work on some boundaries, here). And second – if you don't want kids and she's having one, and you know this is how it's going to play out – it's better to break up instead of just feeling stuck and resenting her 10 years down the line. You can find new people and make a new life. Don't just resign yourself to doing something you're not into. Unless you're the father, in which case, do the right thing and be a dad, whether that's together or apart.
this isnt about him at all. you need to have trust in your relationship.
This. Because even with IUD, people have still been able to get pregnant with it in.
Pretty sure she just needs to leave.
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Also, when they bring you back into the room, tell the provider you’re being forced/coerced into it. They’ll help you.
This is ultimately your choice. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything.
I am a family lawyer, and I strongly suggest you don't have a kid with this man. This poor baby is only going to suffer. Unwilling parents are the worst for the baby.
But this doesn't mean you have to have an abortion. You can give the baby up for adoption, or you can try to be a single mom. Put him on child support tho if you choose that.
Either way, break up with him. That's not a good man.
Thank you so much, friend ❤️ I spoke to my mom and we are good and on the same page but I still don't know what to do about my sister. She's an adult so it's not like we can punish her, but we can refuse to pay for her shit.
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It seems a little unhinged of her. She’s literally taking her dreams out in you. It’s just so ridiculous. I thought the above was funny, about saying you had a dream, but then you are just feeding into her own bullshit and validating it. I think at this point you just put your foot down and tell her straight up that her behavior is unacceptable and you won’t deal with it anymore. That she needs to realize it’s just a dream and it’s not real and get a hold of herself. It’s gonna be a fight but you need to stand up for yourself.
She's fine to want a threesome. You're fine to want either something equal in return, or also fine to want to break up with someone for wanting a threesome.
Your feelings are valid, don't let her railroad you into something you don't want.
I know at your age it's probably annoying to hear… but you're only 18. You shouldn't have this much sexual drama in a relationship already, you have plenty of time to find a better match.
Ha…effing…wai?
Business trip?
Sweet candid boy did get invited by his boss to a business trip.
Turned out they played chess all night in that one bed they had.
Either is HE stupid. His boss is clearly trying to seduce him.
Or he thinks OP may be stupid.
How dare he think he would get away with that story?
Where she really may be after him but him not after her (benefice of doubt about 0,5 %) that's no reason for lying!
You are old enough to understand that you cannot change people.
I think you and Sami should load up a car and get out of there. You deserve to be happy. These men you've found ain't it.
He says he loves me and would never cheat especially because she's a single mom and he doesn't want to deal with her baggage. He says he doesn't want me to leave yet treats me like this. I'm over it. I'm his wife and I refuse to sit back and be treated like this. I already told him that if he doesn't want to be with me then he needs to tell me.
If he doesn't have time to prioritize our marriage then fine but he needs to let me go yet he won't to the point of trying to prevent me from leaving. I don't understand. If I'm so good for him then why does he treat me like this?
r/thathappened
Let the man move on with his life.
Thank you so much ?
And her excuse “The fantasy was too naked to resist” is really shitty. Wonder what's gonna happen when she starts to fantasize about someone else.
That's good for you. It still doesn't mean you're mature.
Do. Not. Have. Child. With. This. Man. He’s full of it. He can’t call himself an atheist and expect you another atheist, to raise children according to a RELIGIOUS DOCTRINE! That’s insane! Why would you even want to be with someone who is being so controlling as well? These are HUGE, MASSIVE red flags ? ????????
No, it ended in divorce and his parents were on bad terms for a bit. They get along just fine now and are civil, they’ve even travelled together as a family I think. But that was after many years.
Wouldnt you make more than double her salary even as a first year? Anyway, I was just making a joke that her salary makes having a shitty car somewhat likely. We obviously dont actually know either way, she couldve been gifted a lambo recently, its just not as likely as her having an old crappy car.
It's none of his business.
Seriously the thought of snuggling with a female friend weirds me out
I also occasionally puke from PTSD-induced panic. Totally involuntary, although tons of CBT and grounding help… and benzos when all else fails.
This situation sounds beyond the scope of reddit dating advice.
You haven't had sex in 8 months. The relationship was done a few months ago.
Yes, hear her out. That does not mean that he stays in this relationship. It could be great closure for him, and an eye opener. Maybe even allow him to open his heart again to someone else instead of building walls. But only if she’s willing to own up to her BS. I don’t think she’s a good partner for him but he was asking for advice. And without knowing them personally that’s all I could give. I think reactions speak volumes in these situations. I hope she owns her stuff and has her own moment of realization that the way she’s treated this is so far from what a relationship is supposed to be.
I want to respond a little bit point by point but I’ll probably just let it run away from me a bit too.
First I just want to say I appreciate you talking with me and you’ve given me a lot to think about.
I’m gonna start with something you’ll hate but I couldn’t help but think ya know entire societies are still based on your definition of “relationship of convenience.” I’ll spare you the bullshit philosophy essay but if I understand you you’re speaking from a kind of virtue ethics pov and I think you could at least acknowledge that cultural relativism has a thing or two to say about it. You have an absolute definition of what’s right and wrong and if I disagree it’s sort of a nonstarter.
What you say about children I agree so much. I only meant to drive my point about being entangled home all the way but you’re right. It gave me pause because I’ve spent so much effort untangling my own dysfunctional upbringing that maybe I naively thought I’d arrived and could stop having to cope with it in an ongoing way. That’s stupid of me cause it finds a way to manifest always so hopefully it’s not left unattended and hurting people. I’m an asshole just read every sentence I write like that’s the punctuation of it. “I’m an asshole”
I wanted to avoid the word egotistical you’ve mentioned it maybe twice. I avoid it because I’m pretty aware my ego has been in charge of every bad decision I’ve ever made. I at least hope my attempts at self awareness come through in my writing. I work on myself believe it or not. Therapy since I was 8. A couple 12 step programs. A couple psychiatrists. Here’s that ego talkin again but no one can put me down better than I can. I’m so fucking good at it.
All this post really says is X cheated on Y and Reddit says that = you’re a piece of shit squared. Someone commented she should run for the hills. Maybe I sorta wanted internet abuse. And maybe just maybe I’m not sorry I got caught at all. I thought maybe she’d leave when she found out. Figured she would honestly. Maybe I’m the evil cheater. Maybe I’m a dude so beaten down it hurts to breathe. She did used to hit me for whatever that’s worth to internet people who say I’m a piece of shit. I’m not saying she’s Amber Heard and I’m Depp but it’s true I had to tell her if she hit me again it was over. Maybe she just smokes weed all day long but not in the Seth Rogen healthy way. Maybe she’s made me fight to not be isolated entirely from my friends and maybe she’s been using sex as currency. Maybe her insecurities are always always always my fault and my responsibility to attend to. Ugh I’m sorry I wasn’t gonna say all this but I just feel so profoundly misunderstood. That’s Reddit I guess.
Oh and tell the other person? Idk sure it’s just complicated because I was avoiding mentioning we all online in this house he’s literally downstairs. I’m not trying to be the subject of the next Netflix true crime doc.
I know that desperate people will claw there fingernails off on the walls to climb to a happy place and sometimes that gets all twisted. I really appreciate your time Lychee. You’ll probably say I’m just playing the victim now but that’s okay I think I needed to write this to someone and not just in a journal or whatever. One love.
Yeah ok, I don’t believe her lol
But I don’t know her so take from that what you will, the whole thing sounds sus as hell
I’ve had many coworkers crush on me, let me tell you, going on vacation with this is not at the fucking top of my list of things to do. It’s been a couple of decades working professionally so it’s bound to happen
I avoid them when I suspect something like this is up, I make it a point to not be alone with them, I make sure other people are around
It’s not cute, it’s not flattering, it’s outright harassment. Especially when they are being forward about it
I think you have to trust her here. And I agree it is a false equivalency.
This isn’t a normal friend. It’s her childhood best friend. And yeah, I know there’s a semantic argument to be had there, but if this is seriously a lifelong friend, then I don’t think it’s too odd for them to just crash on the same bed after a night of drinking. Sure they’re bi, and the friend might be in an open relationship. Your girlfriend isn’t in an open relationship though. So you have to decide if you trust her enough not to cheat on you.
Now if you have a strong sense that this friend is only here to try and hook up with your girlfriend, and you have evidence beyond her sexuality, then that’s worth a conversation… but as I read it now… I think they’re entitled to the benefit of the doubt.
I think you have to trust her here. And I agree it is a false equivalency.
This isn’t a normal friend. It’s her childhood best friend. And yeah, I know there’s a semantic argument to be had there, but if this is seriously a lifelong friend, then I don’t think it’s too odd for them to just crash on the same bed after a night of drinking. Sure they’re bi, and the friend might be in an open relationship. Your girlfriend isn’t in an open relationship though. So you have to decide if you trust her enough not to cheat on you.
Now if you have a strong sense that this friend is only here to try and hook up with your girlfriend, and you have evidence beyond her sexuality, then that’s worth a conversation… but as I read it now… I think they’re entitled to the benefit of the doubt.
I'm hoping to do that really. But it's getting difficult
This is exactly how stories like this should end. Unless your partner has an STI or something like that, past sexual history shouldn’t matter. You handled this well OP.
You don’t mention your own parents here. This is going to sound a little psychobabble-ish…
I wonder if you are projecting your own feelings about your parents on to their relationship. I’m saying this because you’ve not met the woman and already have all sorts of judgements about her. Some of those might be (and probably are) valid, but you don’t know for sure.
If you’re not close to your parents, seeing a very close parental relationship is going to look strange to you.
Is he sharing too much? Probably.
Just wanted to give you something else to consider.
I dont rem what was said but my daughter (18) got upset and told my boyfriend not to talk to me that way
Tbh….if you're 18 year old daughter feels the need to intervene…it most likely is BAD.
My boyfriend runs up to my daughter and grabs her by her shirt, picks her up and starts shaking her and yelling in her face.
WTH? You shouldn't have thrown the chair, which in itself is a red flag, but why does your bf act this way? He could have simply all kicked you out.
My boyfriend and I ended up staying together and my daughter had to move out.
You're a terrible mother…..get some individual therapy and analyse the dynamic you just described.
Loveisrespect.org, u/ebbie45's compilation of resources and “Why does he do that?” might be helpful too.
Its not her fault, she said no, he is persistent. As a job thing, once she said no, she can go to HR.
Another reason not to date at work
Yeah, nah. He's quite happy to leave you hanging without explanation. Not worth holding on to.
My ex did that. She cheated.
Men flirting with women is expected, but women being flirtatious with a man is rare, he knows he can easily get a womans sexual attention. And this will sound assholish, but you are a 38yo mother of 2 who is aiming to what seems to be a HVM (who I asume, doesnt have kids).
Sorry to tell you this, but you are no longer the most atractive option at his reach. Being fit at 38 is not the same that being fit at 28, specially after two preagnacies. To some men, the fact that you have children is a naked pass, even if you are the only single woman in town. You being a successfull business owner is not something that men find sexually appealing, it doesnt add value because at your age you are expected to be fully independent (AKA a functional adult).
As you can see, I wont pamper your ego like other commenters did. If you dont want to date ever again, do it, but if you want to keep trying, understand than options for a LTR will be far more scarse (in quantity and quality) than years ago.