Your children are what’s important, not your wife. She is never coming back so just accept that but your children are there forever. Depression is naked to treat and logic doesn’t help but as long as you realize the permanent, lifelong damage a father’s suicide would do to them, especially at their young age, the more reason you have to fight your brain. You need to try different medications until you find the one that works. You don’t need your wife to be happy. Are you in a support group like AA or NA? In addition to therapy, you need to be around people also in recovery who understand.
Definitely! I have mentioned for us to go to see a therapist together but he always says that our relationship is fine. Which I don’t think so at all! But I’ll bring it up again
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Your children are what’s important, not your wife. She is never coming back so just accept that but your children are there forever. Depression is naked to treat and logic doesn’t help but as long as you realize the permanent, lifelong damage a father’s suicide would do to them, especially at their young age, the more reason you have to fight your brain. You need to try different medications until you find the one that works. You don’t need your wife to be happy. Are you in a support group like AA or NA? In addition to therapy, you need to be around people also in recovery who understand.
You're so wrong about that. This is you torturing you, not them torturing you.
Definitely! I have mentioned for us to go to see a therapist together but he always says that our relationship is fine. Which I don’t think so at all! But I’ll bring it up again
The thing is she did put the boundary down and told her friend about it… from the first time I was uncomfortable…
Everyone goes through breakups, but the pain will be here for a while. Smile, head high, and move on.