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Date: October 11, 2022
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This is emotional cheating at best.. I’d be highly surprised if nothing physical occurred either.
RemindMe! 3 months
What was wrong with you contacting him? Enough with the mind games.
I want to say it was like 3-4 years ago I believe, my issue isn’t really his presence but rather her reaction to my mention of concern about not being told about it. Had she just acknowledged my concern rather than go in the “you must not trust me if your asking about this” route there would be no problem. That response coupled with the omission of information prior to it are what piqued my interest.
I didn’t see that
Accept the fact that men are attracted to beautiful women and that same instinct drew him to you.
Do you expect for him to see a beautiful woman and close his eyes out of loyalty to you?
Would you look away if you see an attractive man?
I doubt it. Accept the fact that it's in a mans biological nature. Learning about how men think would help you to rationalize these reasons. Judging from how you feel, I think you have alot to learn about men
You do not seriously see anything wrong with leaving 5 months while your relationship is in shambles?
Break it off amicably and move on, address your trauma before you step into another relationship.
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He immigrated from El Salvador and I immigrated from Peru.
I am sorry, but these arent political views, you just want to break up because he is an egocentric and closeminded dick.
You sound so unhappy OP. Time to exit this situation. And as someone who lives in a state with archaic, abortion laws (saving to leave) I can assure you my husband and I pay a ton in income tax. So not only are his views and comments hurting you, they aren't factual. Wishing the very best for you in the days and weeks to come.
she is purposely hitting you in front of others to embarrass you. hitting someone is not okay at all, let one in your face and in front of all your friends. her apology was not sincere, she even blamed you for her decision to hit you! all the “good things” about your relationship are not worth the abuse and embarrassment. it will 100% get worse.
Surely you could google her address and find out her last name. It’s all public info and free. I don’t want to brag but I am very good at finding info out live, if you want to send me her address in a private message.
You can probably go to the county auditors office, or whatever office in your area that keeps official records, and figure out if she even has a kid.
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Maybe you need a new therapist
Oohhh an Asian girl with deep tan is totally perfect for that character.
Tell Kate to stfu, rhe friends who agree with her are being ridiculous. It's not even a black character.
Right!? I immediately had some thoughts of him being a frequent rejector or at least the low libido in this relationship and yet again he rejects and that’s why she had such a sad reaction. We have no idea how OP is with sex in general, definitely lots of missing info. I thought any man would greatly appreciate something like what his wife did…because there’s a lot of women who start rejecting sex down the road. She probably thought her husband would like the kinky surprise. I can see where her heart was, preparing a place for the kids and all. We shouldn’t need to walk on eggshells and have to send texts like “just so you know I sent the kids away so maybe we could have sex. Do I have your permission?” Lmao…what happened to good old surprises?
Honestly, I’m super monogamous. I know that about myself. But I’d be lying if I said that the thought of an open relationship hasn’t crossed my mind from time to time. Because it sounds exciting and new and (if done right) can be a fun way for a couple to grow and explore new things.
Personally, it wouldn’t ever make it past fantasy for me, but I can see why people who are all in in a relationship and have no interest in cheating can be intrigued by the idea.
I know it can feel really upsetting for that topic to come up, but I would encourage you to speak to your partner about it. About why she is interested, why you’re not, if there are missing bits in your relationship you two can work on together. This doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship, so long as you’re both willing and open to honest, vulnerable communication.
Are you serious?
Jesus, don't do this OP. This is terrible advice. Love bombing is abuse. Telling somebody that you love them every night isn't abuse, unless it also comes with a bunch of other red flag behaviours. Google love bombing to learn what they are, but even if there's a match asking someone “why are you abusing me” is never going to go well.
not true. I just started working long hours
You love her ? Let her go. Help her if she ask.
Why would he change you’ve tolerated this for 10 years? Did he want to have kids? How often is he partying and binge drinking?
Being close to 40 is what tripped this whole thing I bet. She has a few wrinkles, a few gray hairs, meanwhile this young hottie with a perfect skin and a friendly disposition has everything.
She is insanely jealous, that is the issue and instead of admitting that she is setting out to ruin this girl's life.
OP I would have a joint counseling session where you sit down with a third party and explain the situation. The counselor will surely tell her that her actions are extremely toxic. If she rejects the counselors words then there is really little to no hope she is going to change.
hugs, you need to leave this POS because he's not going to change, he's going to keep verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusing you because he enjoys it. He can state it's a joke but the reality is that it isn't.
The thing is he was literally just talking to me about my issues like Thursday. So I’m just confused and I know he was going through some stuff too. So I’m not sure if I should just stick around then? He opened my snap chat picture but not the chat part. Could still be ghosting but he sometimes take a while to reply. Like this isnt uncommon and when we talked about it it’s just his text style
I want to add, obviously leaving her is very hot and you can still love her and leave but you owe it to your child to be in a safe environment, they are the innocent party in all of this. Leaving doesn’t have to mean you’re done forever but she needs to get help.
First step? Are you serious? You don’t know how the relationship with Amy will turn out? Still sounds like you’re sympathetic to Amy. Check your own feelings. Maybe you want to keep some connection with Amy because of how she feels about you.
Julia will be destroyed if you try to keep any relationship with Amy. Your wife made it clear how she feels. Is Julia your priority or not?
So, and this could be wrong, based on what you’ve said it seems that you might remain unattached from others in an emotional sense due to the childhood events listed above. And while it sounds like you can talk about those events in your childhood you haven’t worked through them properly. I would honestly recommend therapy of some kind, since those events could be holding you back from emotionally connecting and caring about others.
Of course I could also be off base, but I do hope this gets better because that will strain a relationship and cause problems in the future.
Freezing up is a reaction that is relativley common actually. Most often happens when someone has been taught to never defend themselves, either because it is pointless (learned helplessness) or because it is met with even worse consequences/punishment.
I wonder honestly how many people here have been married with kids over a decade because a lot of these responses seem to be coming from folks who are in the early stages of relationships
Translation: “Nobody in this thread agrees with me, so I'm going to continue gaslighting everyone into thinking they're all wrong and I'm right, because I'm perfect and my hubby should just be happy I do something as basic as cooking. That's enough, yes sir!”
Lady, go put yourself into a straight jacket and sit in a corner quietly. You're embarrassing yourself.
Yeah you gotta buck up. Sorry to say, but you are entirely too subtle. You’re expecting her to intuit that you’re uncomfy with her behavior (as most people would be, to be fair). You gotta tell her you’re not okay with it. And you gotta be direct.
“I’m happy to have you stay the weekend, but I don’t feel comfortable having your boyfriend, whom I barely know, in my apartment. I understand it’s your birthday and you want to have a good time, so let’s find a compromise.” If she’s unwilling to compromise, then you’re well within your rights to cancel the plans.
YTA 100000%. You shouldn’t be “testing” your partner at all, that’s extremely unhealthy to do. She’s lucky you broke up with her now, or else I wonder if she’d be tested on various things for the rest of your relationship.
i alos think sometimes it takes time for friendships to develop to the level of vacations/hunting/hiking.op's husband needs to try to bond with his co-workers or atleast hangout in regular setting.
Say goodbye.
I trust my wife completely and I’d still have suspicions in this case. Might not be the first thing on my mind, but you bet it would be in the top three.
it just really sounds like you need to understand autism better.
it can be hot to live with, especially if you haven't been diagnosed your whole life or know how it affects you. im not saying you HAVE to get a diagnosis if that's not what you want, but knowing how autism affects you would make things easier it seems.
i don't wanna speak too much abt the draining effects of autism as i don't remember them the best right now (and i don't have autism) but please look into it, i feel it would help you understand yourself and how you online your life better. (also btw Asperger's is kind of an outdated term, so when researching i suggest using autism for better results)
Next time he does that, say to him, ” I'm as comfortable with this conversation as I am about your below average bedroom performances. “
Unless she's willing to seek counselling and work on her issues (which will start with her recognising that there's a problem and being fully dedicated to fixing it), then yes, its probably time to end things.
a month is no time do it now before you really waste both of your time
Momma knows!! Then you should listen.
im sorry about the fact that your the scapegoat child
He said he was sorry, that he didn't know I would have such a strong reaction to what he said, that of course he doesn't see me as violent, etc.
To me a lot of it pivots on this.
I think what is important is the 'such a strong reaction' part here. He knew it would have a reaction, he knew it would upset you, It was contrived to upset you, he just assumed it wouldn't be sufficient to have you walk out. After all, in the past you just internalised it.
So he is more or less admitting that this is just about hurting you enough that you feel bad but not enough to provoke you leaving. Perhaps him being tipsy made him less controlled in his approach than he might have liked, but he has made clear he was aware of what he was saying.
He is basically negging you, or just undercutting your self esteem. Breaking you down. Because if you get put in a position where you constantly feel guilty or that you have to earn his forgiveness he can use that against you.
I know that change is scary and you worry about her, but if I'm being honest, she uses the unaliving thing to make you feel guilty and stay.
This woman has pretty much made you feel like you can't leave. She has controlled you so much and constantly tried to make sure YOU didn't cheat, but then goes and has an affair with a friend.
You aren't in love. Being with her hurts you. I think you need to rip the bandaid off and just tell her that it's over. Free yourself from her grip. She can't kick you out of your house, that's a shared place.
Stop letting her threats keep you unhappy. End the marriage and if she says she will take her life, let a family member know she's not stable.
Yeah sounds like YOU have a crush on a married man and are trying to justify it.
Not once have you said what your authentic self is though!
Apparently it’s not racist if it’s true. I don’t even know how to respond to something like that. One guy showed me statistics to prove his point. Why do people go so far to insult him sexually?
Whether is voluntary or involuntary, this sounds like the adult version of a toddler throwing a tantrum.
So I would treat it the same way. Every time she does it just walk away and leave her to it. Rushing to comfort her is exactly the reaction she wants, so don’t give it to her.
This makes no sense. Please use sentences.
I never said the message is a red flag. I’m saying that meeting someone from live can be scary. And talking to that person before can make someone a lot more comfortable meeting in person. Being told they don’t want to talk to you ahead of time can add a weird dynamic to the level of comfort someone has going in. I’m not saying it’s a definite, just a possibility.
Dump the boyfriend. He will only cheat on you again and you don’t need this drama.
Sounds kind of like borderline personality disorder. You should see a psychiatrist.
EXACTLY but also I just feel like it's no point arguing either because in his mind he's always going to be correct and in mine me, ordinarily I would wanna reconcile but I just feel like it's all pointless. But what my biggest problem rn is, is that, I am still salty about this so I get very irritated with him very easily and because for him all's done is done he is taken aback and feels like omg why are you upset what is this issues and it drives me even more mad because how can you not the know the issues, it was never discussed it was put on hold because you kept ruining weeks of my vacation. I just don't know I wish I simply get dumped at this point
You find someone who thinks you are the complete package.
She may tell you that she's getting to settle for you, but the script is flipped here.
Don't be with someone who doesn't know or respect your worth.
Why does it bother you?
You can tell him if he doesn't discuss it with you you'll leave or you can just leave without saying anything and wait until he calls her message as you.
If you two own a house together don't leave.
Alternatively, He's doing this as a manipulation and you can act like nothing is wrong and go about your day. Say to his face “I don't know what's wrong with you, but I'm just gonna go about my life until you figure it out or want to talk about it. My door is open but I'm not going to drag you through it. Come find me when you want to use your words. Byeeeeee!!!” And then go have a fun girls night out.
Do not mope about trying to appease him. Don't make his dinner or do his laundry. Those things are for active participants in a marriage. He's a toddler in a tantrum trying to get his way. It's ridiculous.
My husband and I have our finger prints on each other's phone to unlock it. He said I'm free to check messages whenever, will even offer to show them to me if I'm not liking a situation. Same goes for him.
That being said. I would never go through his messages like this for no particular reason, and I've been cheated on and abused multiple times in the past. That isn't an excuse to break your boundary and be overbearing about it. This is something that needs to be worked on.
She may have not treated him nicely so he might just not give a fuck.
Wouldn’t be unheard of.
Did you organise the trip before her friends came up with their plans?
Its just for me the past is important for some level, iam an arab i dont think you’ll understand how important the past is for an arabian guy so the fact she didn’t tell me annoys me
so it sounds like you need to have a conversation about sex – but go ahead with the civil partnership if you're confident in the relationship
OK so if it makes you feel uncomfortable then leave him, but I have had that friend before. we are still friends 20 years later. she comes over we do tequila shots and smoke weed till we pass out. her husband watches the kids and my wife keeps the kids upstairs.
we do family sleepovers some times and our spouses are always invited, but hers doesn't drink and mine only drinks wine and doesn't smoke weed so they usually just leave us to it. Are you allowed to join in?? because if your not then get out of there. Oh and I never hooked up with her, so its a little different, but we did make out once our freshman year in college (I'm in my 40s now)
Certainly don’t do this for him. That’s the first problem here is you did it for him, not for you. What he wants is the freedom to be with other women and he’s justifying that by also opening it for you too.