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Date: January 24, 2023
Ask for her your money back since you're living precariously right now.
20 and 18 and already engaged? Oof and ready to quickly dump her because there’s no trust from her? Yea bro, get single asap or this nutty behavior will only get worse.
It depends, usually house a day he'll spend time in the bathroom vaping after work. He'll still text me but it feels at arms length. Now that he's sick, yes he's given up those responsibilities but when he isnt, it's hit or miss
Kids cost more than that procedure.
I didn't say she was.
What he is telling her.
How does she feel when he focuses on the abortion option, and won't budge even after a Sonogram.
He's telling her that she'd be trapping him not that he really wants to be there.
I don't think she's trapping him. I feel like he has trapped her in a choice she doesn't want, and is refusing to consider a lot of possibilities.
Moving in together if there is room…kids raise just fine in apartments. (Actually wanna get them out to touch grass FR, there is microorganisms related to depression and, immune system stuff but yeah…they make parks)
But he is going the hole “no until everything is perfect and in perfect order do we have kids”
That'll never come, that'll never happen. She's trapped with this and likely some moving goal post for who knows how long.
Was my wording off? I thought I wrote it well enough to express that. Do you have any recommendations on Grammer changes to prevent other redditors from mistaking my meaning as they come through? (Being serious, to me 8tnreads fine. Not sure if we just have a different way of saying things, you were in a rush, or if you can think of a better way to save me from having to respond to multiple of these. So criticism is welcome)
The thing is, nobody, unless you're ridiculously rich, is ever financially ready for a kid. You kept hammering your point home and made her feel guilty for wanting to keep it for what was YOUR plan in the end here. Yeah, you force her into something she doesn't want, she's going to resent you. I don't blame her for ending it in the slightest. That abortion is going to be SO much more traumatic for her now.
When we tried to get back – I told her it’s getting difficult for me because the way she behaved right after break up. She couldn’t take the fact that her sleeping around with random dudes is something I didn’t find right and that is leading for the relationship to end forever. Then she tried shift the whole blame on me. Don’t get these reactions!
General rule is don’t put your dick in friend’s sisters. The only exception to that is if you are going to have a loving, committed relationship and you’ve gave your friend a heads up first.
There’s 7 billion people in the world, why would you make it awkward or potentially annoy a friend by sleeping with one of the only people related to a friend, who they might feel protective over as a big brother?
This isn't a healthy relationship. He probably is exploring other relationships and doesn't want to “cheat.”
Haha! Fascinating stuff! x
This is straight up bullshit on your husband's part. This woman isn't even interested in him and he's still trying to get her attention? I would tell him he goes to therapy and gets past this unhealthy, disrespectful behavior or he can leave.
Men who do this stuff in a relationship reek of immaturity. I'm not going to tell you to leave him, but I want you to consider how you'd feel if you can't change him, would you still be happy in this relationship if he continued to do it? Because that's a very likely scenario.
I was with a guy who had many red flags for 3 years and I thought I could change him, then I thought of whether or not I'd be happy going forward if this was what I'd have to deal with forever, and I decided I wasn't. And I'm so glad I did because I went off and found someone much better.
Judging from your comments you seem pretty insecure, assuming that you won't find someone better. This is something we all feel, but trust me, if you can land one man you can land another. You won't be alone for long if you put yourself out there. Most relationships in your teens and early 20s will be unsuccessful, and that's okay, because you are learning what your standards are. I do believe that everyone in your life is there for a reason, and perhaps his purpose in your life is to show you what to avoid in your next partner.
What did she say when you asked her about it? Because obviously she’s the only one who can say what is actually going on with her – whatever your past experiences, she’s a unique individual and you don’t have the ability to read her mind. So ask.
Hire a P.I., it is obvious she is lying and it is obvious you need actual proof to make a decision. This will solve the issue
He doesn’t actually need to understand other than he hurt his partners feelings. Period.
The rest isn’t something he will hear from anyone if he doesn’t think he said anything wrong.
It is NOT the responsibility of OP, the victim of his abuse, to “educate” him.
Leave it alone. You said what you needed to. The ball is in his court now. He can either show up and act like a grown up or he can stay home. If he shows up acting like the same old Bob, just say “thank you for proving my point” and walk away.
Problem solved. Enjoy the wedding!
That's just a default username. In reality, they're loaded.
It's true. I've seen their bank account balance.
You're right, it's psychopathic that she thinks it was okay to do it at the time. Her mind works in a way that anything with distance and new environment is a license to be with another guy. She'll do it again if the chance permits. Leave this relationship OP. You don't need heartbreaks everyday of your life. Rip it like a band aid, quick, painful but will benefit you most in the long run.
Everyone I've ever talked to about it said it was the worst decision of their life. My coworker's got embedded in her uterus and she needed surgery. I decided against it because it causes extra heavy periods and worse cramping, and I already suffer a lot from those things without an IUD.
I need you to think about what a 4th grader looks like to a 7th grader.
He was not “a kid too”” in that situation.
You need to have a boundaries conversation with him. How he reacts will be indicative of how he views his relationship with you. If he responds badly, or by gaslighting you, it is a clear sign he is controlling and these behaviors will only escalate. Its up to you where to go from there.
I have NEVER regretted listening to my gut.
Indeed. There is no smoke without a fire and the gut is the best sensor that identifies the red flag even before we realise it.
Yep….other “realistic observations” he could have made was telling her how proud he is of all the nude work she did to reach a healthy weight.
It’s called developing boundaries and realizing people are breaking them. I’m friendly, but if I’m in a relationship and a girl still tries to flirt with me I feel weird about it. You have boundaries around your relationship and when people break them your response is what should happen.
She doesn't want to see you masturbate. You've somehow managed to do it without her noticing for 5 years, which is great. But you've somehow gotten more careless and now she's caught you doing it. It's not unreasonable for her to say she doesn't want to see it. But you need to find a better system. If you have a home office, put a lock on it or some other eat to indicate “do not disturb,” which can easily apply to work situations too.
Yes, it's unreasonable for her to expect you never to do it while she's home, but also? It's unreasonable for her to know what you are doing every waking moment. What she means is she never wants to see you doing that again. You just need to find a more discrete way. The bathroom is usually a safe place if she's home.
could be a scam! not even close to worth it
My mostly useless brother come with me to work once, the Glower Threateningly at my boss as I explained this was my second pay check to bounce. Got paid immediately in cash. One of the few things bro ever did right.
My boyfriend does this too. And it’s clearly obvious when he does it and I’ll be like, what the fuck, and he’s like ??what??
Just tell him it bothers you.. Say if he's that worried about his balls smelling go wash them instead of smelling your fingers. Just assume they smell.
You can say “that’s for the offer but its not something you can take her up on”
Or answer in a jokey way like I have in the past “Thanks for the offer but I’d turn to dust walking through the door which would be no fun for anyone”
Yeah it's over mate
Put the woman aside for the moment. Focus on your husband.
She is not the problem. Your husband is the problem. He is the one who is pulling away from you. Focus on him.
Straight-up ask him if something is wrong between you. Point out the lack of emojis and ‘I love you’s. Ask him directly if something has happened to cause distance between the two of you.
Ask him what he thinks needs to happen to close the gap.
You're suffering from a case of sunk cost fallacy as well.
You've invested so many resources (financial, emotional, and mental resources) into this abusive relationship that you think you're in love, when really you just want what you've invested to be reciprocated.
But sometimes with a bad investment you need to cut your losses to recover. This is not me blaming you by the way. 100% how you're being treated is your (hopefully soon-to-be-ex) boyfriend's fault; he's a piece of shit, and he doesn't deserve someone as patient and caring as you are.
You're still very young. And you will grow and learn from this.
She probably did, but I'm certain she did not cheat…. he's probably the reason for the break up…and yet i can't stop blaming myself
It does! I'm sorry. open and honest communication is the way to go here