Very rarely handsy. She says she doesn’t like doing anything cause her parents room is next door and the sex always hurts too. I don’t think it’s an attraction issue but she seems to be attracted to fictional men more than me sometimes.
The body count bit is less relevant than your overall feeling that you don’t feel like you know who the hell you married. Yes, she lied about body count (understandable), but you say that other things didn’t track and that you feel like she fabricated her social history. She essentially created this past that she thought was palatable that also bears little resemblance to who she was.
I think it’s fair to ask her to answer whatever questions you have honestly or to simply ask what other parts of her past she re-created.
On the one hand, it makes no difference! On the other, though, our partner’s past experiences inform who they are, and we cannot understand them without also understanding their life before us.
It’s really not that crazy, redditors are just so far out of touch with reality that nuance within human relationships is not a thing to them. They just read “X person is uncomfortable with Y person doing A,” and think it just has to be insecurities.
Couples who don’t trust each other
Very rarely handsy. She says she doesn’t like doing anything cause her parents room is next door and the sex always hurts too. I don’t think it’s an attraction issue but she seems to be attracted to fictional men more than me sometimes.
The body count bit is less relevant than your overall feeling that you don’t feel like you know who the hell you married. Yes, she lied about body count (understandable), but you say that other things didn’t track and that you feel like she fabricated her social history. She essentially created this past that she thought was palatable that also bears little resemblance to who she was.
I think it’s fair to ask her to answer whatever questions you have honestly or to simply ask what other parts of her past she re-created.
On the one hand, it makes no difference! On the other, though, our partner’s past experiences inform who they are, and we cannot understand them without also understanding their life before us.
It’s really not that crazy, redditors are just so far out of touch with reality that nuance within human relationships is not a thing to them. They just read “X person is uncomfortable with Y person doing A,” and think it just has to be insecurities.