You're both in very different stages of life. You're nearly 30, divorced, and a father. She’s in school and parties a lot because she doesn't have any responsibilities. Her life is just starting. Honestly, I doubt this is going to last. You’d be better off with someone that matches your emotional maturity instead of trying to keep up with her.
I know this is easy to say from an outside perspective, but you aren't safe in this relationship, leave. This isn't a fair position for you to be in, especially at your age.
Why is going to watch John’s kids on his next deployment?????
You're both in very different stages of life. You're nearly 30, divorced, and a father. She’s in school and parties a lot because she doesn't have any responsibilities. Her life is just starting. Honestly, I doubt this is going to last. You’d be better off with someone that matches your emotional maturity instead of trying to keep up with her.
I know this is easy to say from an outside perspective, but you aren't safe in this relationship, leave. This isn't a fair position for you to be in, especially at your age.
You should communicate with him about it , ask to see his second phone .