I think it’s just the fact that I still think about him after that happened. and I felt a vibe that we were both into each other starting when he first approached me but didn’t want to escalate anything any further and left after a bit. He also told me to come back another time. I’ll probably forget about it soon but I think it’s just kind of eating me up how I think about this guy.
At the end of the day, you will be responsible for this child. What kind of support system do you have? Will your family help out? Do you have a regular job? How will you pay for everything this baby needs? How will you continue school? How will you take care of the baby if they have a disability? If you end up hating being a parent, would you give up parental rights?
Everyone feels quite hopeful when talking about babies but you need to think about yourself and answer these tough questions before you make a decision. At the end of the day, you’ll be primarily responsible for this kid. Even if he and his family are excited for this baby, it does not guarantee that they will help you raise this child. It sounds like you’re only thinking of having this baby out of guilt, but this will be for life. Good luck OP!
According to the DSM-5 it's sexual attraction to children under 13.
I don't think a 20 year old should date or have sex with a 16 year old, but he's young enough that noticing her as attractive and then not acting on it would be entirely normal.
I think it’s just the fact that I still think about him after that happened. and I felt a vibe that we were both into each other starting when he first approached me but didn’t want to escalate anything any further and left after a bit. He also told me to come back another time. I’ll probably forget about it soon but I think it’s just kind of eating me up how I think about this guy.
Men VOLUNTEER. I was coerced. do you not see the difference? smh at your stupidity.
At the end of the day, you will be responsible for this child. What kind of support system do you have? Will your family help out? Do you have a regular job? How will you pay for everything this baby needs? How will you continue school? How will you take care of the baby if they have a disability? If you end up hating being a parent, would you give up parental rights?
Everyone feels quite hopeful when talking about babies but you need to think about yourself and answer these tough questions before you make a decision. At the end of the day, you’ll be primarily responsible for this kid. Even if he and his family are excited for this baby, it does not guarantee that they will help you raise this child. It sounds like you’re only thinking of having this baby out of guilt, but this will be for life. Good luck OP!
According to the DSM-5 it's sexual attraction to children under 13.
I don't think a 20 year old should date or have sex with a 16 year old, but he's young enough that noticing her as attractive and then not acting on it would be entirely normal.
Are you seriously asking Reddit how to move forward in a relationship with your rapist? Like, seriously?!