You are trying to solve a problem you don't have right now, yes, there could be problems in the future ( of any kind) but you are not there yet and you can't prevent them. You can enjoy the ride, if there ar problems you may solve them or not but at the moment you cant do anything besides learn more about your gf and enjoy every step.
Being bisexual doesn’t override a monogamous relationship.
Have you really communicated to your husband how you’re feeling? I see that he’s offered to stop if you ask, but if you don’t feel like you can ask, then that’s another issue in and of itself in your relationship’s communication.
Your husband is allowed to find men attractive. I don’t know about your household, but I’d even say he could be exploring this with porn. I’m not sure why his default was “I need to flirt with men to really figure out who I am.”
Plenty of bisexual people are married and don’t cheat on their spouses, or even ask to step out. It’s great that your husband figured this out about himself and wants to explore it, but he’s also in a committed, monogamous relationship—and that doesn’t change just because he’s bi now.
If you’re not enthusiastic about this (and it sounds like you’re indifferent at best, and terribly distressed at worst), you need to have a conversation with him. Both of you need to be fully involved and supportive of the exploration, otherwise this is going to end badly for everyone.
Ya I hate communicating this way lol. I would much prefer to just ask for the information.
For me, I mean we all knows what’s gonna happen.
He has no intention of changing. I wouldn't even waste more of my life by catering to him or trying to get him to change.
You are trying to solve a problem you don't have right now, yes, there could be problems in the future ( of any kind) but you are not there yet and you can't prevent them. You can enjoy the ride, if there ar problems you may solve them or not but at the moment you cant do anything besides learn more about your gf and enjoy every step.
Being bisexual doesn’t override a monogamous relationship.
Have you really communicated to your husband how you’re feeling? I see that he’s offered to stop if you ask, but if you don’t feel like you can ask, then that’s another issue in and of itself in your relationship’s communication.
Your husband is allowed to find men attractive. I don’t know about your household, but I’d even say he could be exploring this with porn. I’m not sure why his default was “I need to flirt with men to really figure out who I am.”
Plenty of bisexual people are married and don’t cheat on their spouses, or even ask to step out. It’s great that your husband figured this out about himself and wants to explore it, but he’s also in a committed, monogamous relationship—and that doesn’t change just because he’s bi now.
If you’re not enthusiastic about this (and it sounds like you’re indifferent at best, and terribly distressed at worst), you need to have a conversation with him. Both of you need to be fully involved and supportive of the exploration, otherwise this is going to end badly for everyone.
For real lol nonexistent
I don't think I can leave, I'm very attached to him