This is a bad sign, IMO. Bf should've shut her down with a “No thanks, I'm having dinner with OP.” But he weaseled out with a “THINK, maybe, gotta check with OP” lie, indicating that he's afraid to just shut her down. He wants to keep her as a possibility, on the back burner.
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Clearly you've earned the title. Don't over think it. Just continue being bonus Dad.
Read the post history before giving awful advice.
I meant I’d resent it if he’s making me also pay, and manage his air bnb for free while not getting a cut.
This is a bad sign, IMO. Bf should've shut her down with a “No thanks, I'm having dinner with OP.” But he weaseled out with a “THINK, maybe, gotta check with OP” lie, indicating that he's afraid to just shut her down. He wants to keep her as a possibility, on the back burner.