This person is exactly the kind of person who should never be in a relationship at least until they get some therapy for their misogyny and OCD. Those two together are such a toxic mess.
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I was visiting my girlfriend at her parents' house while she was home from university. We were playing a board game when her younger sister (13) tells the room of ~10 people that my girlfriend had a drunken rant about men measuring there members and also the size of my penis. I was very taken back that her whole family was aware of this and very embarrassed too. My girlfriend knows I'm not comfortable being so open with people other than her on this topic. I find it especially strange that this was a conversation with her family (however I'm aware that they are very open). She leaves the room to go upstairs as she was upset at her sister for mentioning it, however, she was the person to tell her family in the first place. I was sat in the kitchen with the rest of the family feeling very uncomfortable before eventually going to find her. She was crying, assuming I was going to be mad at her. I didn't want to make her feel worse, but it did make me upset that she would break my trust like this. Advice?
Legit your brother sounds like an asshole. He purposely insulted you in Spanish which he knows your girlfriend doesn't speak, expecting you to sweep it under the rug.
If he is interested in you, I know it may be nerve wracking but just be yourself. Be engaging in conversations, ask follow up questions, ask questions in general. Don’t be nervous, you got this!
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Her. It's literally the second word.
Woman can also start having babies as young as 10 years old. That’s Mother Nature. Do you also stand by that?
This person is exactly the kind of person who should never be in a relationship at least until they get some therapy for their misogyny and OCD. Those two together are such a toxic mess.
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I was visiting my girlfriend at her parents' house while she was home from university. We were playing a board game when her younger sister (13) tells the room of ~10 people that my girlfriend had a drunken rant about men measuring there members and also the size of my penis. I was very taken back that her whole family was aware of this and very embarrassed too. My girlfriend knows I'm not comfortable being so open with people other than her on this topic. I find it especially strange that this was a conversation with her family (however I'm aware that they are very open). She leaves the room to go upstairs as she was upset at her sister for mentioning it, however, she was the person to tell her family in the first place. I was sat in the kitchen with the rest of the family feeling very uncomfortable before eventually going to find her. She was crying, assuming I was going to be mad at her. I didn't want to make her feel worse, but it did make me upset that she would break my trust like this. Advice?
Legit your brother sounds like an asshole. He purposely insulted you in Spanish which he knows your girlfriend doesn't speak, expecting you to sweep it under the rug.
If he is interested in you, I know it may be nerve wracking but just be yourself. Be engaging in conversations, ask follow up questions, ask questions in general. Don’t be nervous, you got this!