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You're asking a predominately leftist echo chamber about Trump. What answers do you expect. Unfortunately, politics have gotten more bs through recent years. More division has been created to separate us. Like this situation… you need to think about your morales and it they line up with your bf's. I'm not going to say who's right and wrong. That's up to you to choose.
This is really strange. Either he doesn't understand what life insurance/a beneficiary is, or there's more to their relationship. Should be easy to change though.
You want an open relationship to satisfy your sexual needs. But how would you feel if he started seeing other girls, just how you want him to, would you not feel hurt in the end too? Does it mean nothing to you, if he had sex with others?
It’s not too late to end it and go for a manly man. But would you fucking regret it? Most probably.
For me, I clean myself up, put on my nice shirt, and communicate clearly a time I expect to “pick up” my wife. At first I got offended she didn't notice but I realized I was doing it for myself to get in the right headspace. We usually watch a movie, or play video games as that's us. We take turns picking dessert.
It started simple and we have been doing it about 2 years now.
If you said no to penetration and he stuck it in, he raped you.
The only time I can see this as cheating is if either of you is bisexual
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From the headline I was like, “Oh, you’re young, this kind of stupidity happens,” but you’re all in your 30s?? Nooooooo. I’d say reflect on the friendship; I doubt she’s really that good of a friend.
If I were OP I would start planning my exit
“Strange” as in “not your own.”
Yeah any country you're not familiar with is a strange country. 194 countries are strange countries to me.
What I am looking for closure on is this: why would a man clearly not be interested in me, but when confronted, continues to absolutely insist that he’s so lucky to have me and loves me so much?
People would rather be miserable but around something familiar vs. being alone.
You are allowed, a lot of us are just baffled by the fact that you even want a relationship with him. What your father did to you is unforgivable. A lot of us cannot wrap our heads around why you keep wanting to engage with the monster who molested you for so long.
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You don't get to decide that. You don't own the boy, and you can't use him to vet his father's GFs.
I'm sure you're going to do it anyway since there are no consequences.
She isn’t at a point of turning around though, nowhere near it she is growing a baby. The idea that right now she should be making it up to him when she is currently still going through it is ignorant of all the ways pregnancy can mess with a persons hormones and brain function. And if he was going through similar physical and hormonal problems and his wife was posting here insensitive to the stuff he was going through I would say the same thing. When your partner is going through it you just gotta get through it with them sometimes. Then work together afterwards to repair and bridge the gaps and communicate about all of it. When you’re in it for the long haul that’s what you do in situations like this. And you don’t get super dramatic about it during the situation because that doesn’t help anyone, honestly. It alienates the person receiving the dramatic reactions and riles up the person being dramatic about a temporary situation.
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I'd let my wife do whatever she wanted she is her own person
Start beating off with condoms on to get used to the reduced sensation. Happens to all of us, nothing to be ashamed of.
Other than that just put lube on before putting on the condom. Helps with the sensation.
Why do you worry about this?
This has been posted 6 different times on 3 different subs. GIRL GET A GRIP.
Ugh rape and incest fantasies? You can get therapy.
Yeah, this is a huge sign of the quality of her personality and care.
Omg quit wasting your time
You have been with him long enough to know the type of person he is; it isn't likely he will change. You have to decide if this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. If things never get better, are you going to be happy?
If he doesn't let you go anywhere alone, then you need to break up. Don't put up with controlling behavior from a SO.
Except child support nothing, I bought his part of the house and the legal proceedings were free for both of us due to both of us having lawyer friends that didn’t want to charge and our divorce was not malicious. I don’t believe he will want any money, if he does I will pay him but wouldn’t that make the whole reconciliation feel like a transaction
In one of my college psychology classes, we were discussing a study about couples. The number one indicator that they were going to break up was eye rolling. It’s a sign that the person does not respect the other person.
I have a friend who is an escort and shes helped some amazing people find themselves, whilst the spending is excessive I absolutely agree, I think that if he feels comfortable and safe exploring with a sex worker that's completely fine, he may have a kink like suggested above or just feel safer in this controlled environment.
If it's becoming addictive then I feel like therapy would be a good idea
Why pressure of him having a girlfriend?? Does he WANT ONE? It's totally acceptable to be single if he chooses to do so ? it would be tough seeing him alone but if he's happy that way I would just let him be ?
I don't know. I would say I wouldn't want to get back with her, but that could be my “ego”, maybe in like a subconscious way I want to “show her”, as bad as that sounds. I know I do still feel a way about her.
Maybe after visiting the other girl, I would know if it's really something special with my ex or not. So maybe text her now so at least I don't “burn all bridges” so to speak.
No, he doesn't have to cater to her emotions. I was only saying that if he wants to get the comfort he desires, he needs to work on his approach. Communication is more than just telling someone something, it's also how you tell it.
A fish flops around wildly when placed on a bed beside you. I think that's what OP's bf is referring to. He's a fisherman and he knows carp.
How is he your boyfriend then? If he loves her, he doesn’t love you. You deserve to be loved by your partner. Even if he doesn’t talk to her, it won’t make him love you any more.
Ummmmmm. If this is real you need to leave and find an adult boyfriend. Imho this is beyond anger issues and into mental illness.
Normally I would recommend counseling but in this case I'm not sure I would waste anymore time
Could be worse! This guy told you he's not worth being friends with and it didn't actually cost you anything. Block that number, but even worth saying anything, just ghost.
Newsflash: He was never invested in making you feel good. He fingered you a couple times but never went down on you, while expecting you to go down on him to the extent he now shoves your head down to demand it. Gross.
The first one out of the blue
Honestly, no I didn't know that is what you meant. My own interpretation of her writing didn't have a negative tone.
Your bf made a decision, obviously the right one, to go LC/NC wit his parents. As his partner you should respect his decision. Doesn’t matter the reasoning and if you think it’s valid or not. You basically told him he was wrong, and for some reason you think you’ll be the one to fix a problem that has existed for years. That is pretty high opinion of yourself and your abilities to right whatever wrongs his parents did.
However long he needs is how long he needs. You cant push it. As long as you apologize, tell him you were wrong, you’ll would never push him to have contact again that you respect his decision and boundaries, and that you will wait until he is ready to discuss the situation you will give him space that is all you can do.
Saviour complex.
She needs inpatient psychological help. If she doesn't she will get worse. Her family is dropping the ball here.
This is so dumb. Not you, the situation and how your man reacted.
They def broke up for other reasons but he’s blaming the fall out on you. You did absolutely nothing wrong.
This shame/guilt is not yours but he’s making you carry it.
And you just keep listening to him?…
I'm not sure what country you're from, but are there no free mental health services where you are? Or any help lines where he can call and talk to someone?
If those aren't an option, could you maybe buy your boyfriend a journal where he can write down these rants where he can get it out without it dragging you down? Or maybe suggest an on-line support group on FB.
If those things don't work, you might just have to stop him on bad days and say “Babe, I love you. But right now I don't have the mental capacity to help you feel better about this. Could we talk about it another time?”
I'm not sure if any of that helps, but I hope so!
People destroying old photographs and mementos always seemed a bit overeager to me. Sure, it's understandable if there was some trauma involved, but otherwise?
I have an entire photo album of women my dad used to date when he was young. It's honestly amazing. Most people don't look at their past like some awful unpleasant thing they never want to be reminded of. They enjoy their old photos and items, even with their ex partners in them.
We are pretty open. She would have said of it was that. Or even used as an excuse lol
Absolutely valid. Appreciate your honesty.
They are envious you have self discipline and they don't.
honestly, him getting a penile wouldn’t even make much difference to me, but the reasons behind it might?
What's her view on you being NB
Lol no I just actually understand reality and working out. I go to BJJ 3 times a week and I'm fully confident I'm fine against the average man I will find outside.
You are silly
Did you ever offer to stay there and forego your trip to Austin?
Sounds like caretaker fatigue my friend. It’s a very real thing and you should absolutely not feel guilty about being happy when you’re away.
If she really is that immobile, getting disability so that you can get some home health assistance, should be pretty easy since there’s gotta be something on imaging with pain that bad related to an injury.
So you still want to be with him after this?
If your life is in danger and your girlfriend isn’t taking it seriously, yes you should end it and get far away from that family. And go to the police if you haven’t already. A paper trail helps with a restraining order.
If he’s an idiot who just talks like that, and your girlfriend still doesn’t respect your wishes to keep you out of his sight and mind, yea you should break up
If she’s doing nothing to help this situation, she’s not in a place to be a good partner.
7 hours is crazy even if he didn't have kids, but he does.
This dude needs to step up and be a father.
crunch season?
crush season is in the spring when we all get crushes on each other.
Using silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse. Partners in a healthy relationship are able to communicate problems without needing to create a hostile and aggressive fight.
Silent treatment is intended to cause the partner to feel guilty (usually without knowing what they did wrong) and psychologically punishing them to make them just apologize to try to normalize the relationship. When done to children it instills shame and lack of confidence.
The key is recognizing the abuse for what it is and I would suggest that it is not your job to train an immature individual on how to communicate. Nor is it your job to play the role of dancing monkey to apologize for unknown transgressions or seek the approval of a fickle partner. If you are only 4 weeks away from returning home I might just recommend avoiding contact as much as possible and then just leaving.
Marry that man! /s
So he's a great actor too.
Look at the last thing I said lol I tried! Sorry (on my cell)
do NOT let this man near your baby, EVER!!!! jesus christ. he's lying a bout whatever he went to counseling for and was trying to feel out if you were a creep like him.