I was your wife in this situation. Same age gap too at similar ages. I was 19, he was 23. By 29 the whole relationship felt like a bad fit for me. Who I was at 19 and who I was at 29 were just vastly different people. It wasn’t anyone’s fault, it wasn’t something I planned or hoped for but ultimately I had to leave that relationship to be happy. I felt we were both to young to stick with something that I knew would ultimately lead to us both resenting each other.
I know a lot of people are saying she’s already found someone else or friends are adding fuel to the fire of her unhappiness and yeah, sometimes that’s true. But sometimes things are just over because we change.
I truly think the best thing you can do is accept what she’s telling you, separate, divorce and move on. Find someone who wants to enjoy life in the same way you do and be happy again. It’s exactly what my ex-husband did and I’m glad he did because he deserves that and I’m sure you do too.
Oh. Before the edit she said she didn’t have girl friends though?
I was your wife in this situation. Same age gap too at similar ages. I was 19, he was 23. By 29 the whole relationship felt like a bad fit for me. Who I was at 19 and who I was at 29 were just vastly different people. It wasn’t anyone’s fault, it wasn’t something I planned or hoped for but ultimately I had to leave that relationship to be happy. I felt we were both to young to stick with something that I knew would ultimately lead to us both resenting each other.
I know a lot of people are saying she’s already found someone else or friends are adding fuel to the fire of her unhappiness and yeah, sometimes that’s true. But sometimes things are just over because we change.
I truly think the best thing you can do is accept what she’s telling you, separate, divorce and move on. Find someone who wants to enjoy life in the same way you do and be happy again. It’s exactly what my ex-husband did and I’m glad he did because he deserves that and I’m sure you do too.
Your feelings are your and valid but at the same time not your sisters fault and you should try to get over them.
Anything besides “bye” to him is cope.