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How can you believe anything he says. He’s a proven liar. I’m sure it isn’t the first time he cheated.. he cheated on you. Move on girl. Lots of men out there who are faithful and who won’t hurt you.
If my current relationship fails. Im done. At my age going through the motions of courtship is more than terrifying, it debilitating. I wont continue to put myself in harms way and im ok with that.
History of physical abuse that predates the pregnancy. PPD is tough but that’s not the most pressing issue. Her inability to control her physical response when triggered is the point. Maybe dude is a dick. Maybe not. But the baby is innocent. She shakes that child in a moment of frustration, and it’s game over, dead baby. Priorities, my peeps.
Please don’t be offended : You didn’t lose out in the quincenera department , you lost out on the mother department. Your mom sounds like she is very strict on you and you fall below her standards. And if you met them, she would raise them. I don’t know if your mom is being malicious or she truly thinks that being naked on you as a parent will help you later on life. Some parents don’t know how to show affection beyond tough love. She isn’t responsible for your cousin so she is more relaxed around her. I don’t think it has anything to do with you. I think it was how your mom was raised and this is the only thing she knows. Trying to teach that love isn’t supposed to be “earned” by a child’s “good” behavior is like teaching an abuela to apologize (encanto reference). So what that means for you, is that you might lose out on some life’s experiences because of how your mom is. But I think you should have a deeper conversation with your mom about wanting to bond with her and how important those bonding experiences are to you. How you want to go through life with each other by the side. And possibly speak to her why she has such high standards for you. Tell her flat out, how do you display your love for me?
You could be projecting your own feelings. Thinking I didn’t like this gift so she won’t like it but putting it in how you interpret her. Give suggestions but let them figure it out
Navigating the world of thottery is complicated. Your bf has fully normalized following these profiles, he doesn’t even perceive why he does it anymore. That’s the danger of e-thots.
Just have to redraw boundaries and he’ll forget it was ever a thing.
Navigating the world of thottery is complicated. Your bf has fully normalized following these profiles, he doesn’t even perceive why he does it anymore. That’s the danger of e-thots.
Just have to redraw boundaries and he’ll forget it was ever a thing.
You did this to yourself. You acting super inappropriate. How did you love her when you sent those texts to your friends? That's not love. Thats being a disrespectful schmuck.
Do you think she’s possibly in denial about the relationship? When she’s “fixing things” she’s always saying how she keeps trying to force her fiancé to do hobbies with her but he won’t, and stuff like that.
The fact that you keep defending yourself tells me you’re not happy at all. I’ve responded to negative feedback with appreciation and only attacked some trolls. Seriously, good luck guiding others into denial!
There are no magic words…. Understandable, you had a connection that you thought was going to go further and do it's disappointing that it didn't. Definitely you've earned your pint of ice cream and crying in front of a sad movie.
Ahhh, so he is still at the home base with friends and you’re somewhere new? That could be why and this will probably be how it is for a while. But to answer your question, I was LD for maybe a year and everyday was different. It depends, but typically you know what each other is up to except the occasional “sorry everyone at work went to happy hour”. Do you have a bad feeling about it or do you think this is just genuinely how he communicates in a long distance setting
Out of curiosity; do you either of you have any personal relationships outside of each other? As in friendships? Or has her abusive behavior resulted in isolation?
And by personal relationships I don't mean her friends who you're friendly with or your friends who she's friendly with.
So what do you love about him? Because you typed that you love him. But nothing else about your post gives any indication that you love him. Or maybe you have no idea what love it. Girl, you have a job. You’re self-reliant. He doesn’t want to be a partner to you. Cut him off and walk away. You will be much happier.
OP, you can sit down with him, but unless you leave for another job AND go LC/NC with your parents there is no chance he will take you back. No chance in hell
As someone who has many of my extended family fall into addiction, I doubt this is gonna be easy for him to achieve sobriety. My niece got pancreatitis at 26 and her stepdad got cirrhosis (and died). This is going to be a long journey to recovery (if he even gets there), so I just recommend you spare yourself the heartache watching someone self destruct.
I actually feel a lot better about hentai. He once agreed to only watch that, but he quickly broke the promise. It's mostly just having him watch other girls, and the feeling of him going back to the same artist.
IUI is probably not an option if her husband has severe male factor infertility. It was not an option for me and we had to do IVF even though I have no issues.
My tip is: don't, unless you are 120% convinced this is what everyone involved wants (i.e. you're from a culture where this is a thing). If you're not, just ask her directly, otherwise you're in for the very uncomfortable “I'm not my dad's property you have to buy out” conversation with your gf.
You need to find a better guy. This reeks of him being insecure, passive aggressive and emotionally abusive. Did he “love bomb” you? This sometimes happens & then you form a bond that seems once in a lifetime then all of a sudden emotional abuse begins. Sometimes these types of guys will try breaking you via other women. They want to break your self esteem. The best revenge is to genuinely not care. Make that crystal fuckin clear to them right away too. With the guy you're with now, I'd say break up. It sounds like hs a loser. I would begin the process of breaking the addiction and focusing on bettering your life. You attract what you are so if you work super naked and have a good life- you'll attract a good guy who has those same relationship values. Also men who come from divorced parents have a much higher rate of not having successful relationships. So keep in mind if you are aiming for a life partner to look for red flags of a guy who's going to be the type that has a couple gfs when they're in their twenties- and then are losers all alone (or losers hiring escorts) in their older years.
Have you seen the update and the time lime… OP got back with him in October, move together in December, after seeing each other for a month… C’mon on now. You seems to be very naive, please get out of there and block that arse.
Exactly! Manic episodes can be spotted a mile away. Not eating, not sleeping, overindulgence and impulsiveness, purported moments of clarity when the manic person is clearly pinballing between minutiae, ephemera, vaguely-related concepts, and tangents. OP's husband fucked up big time, but he doesn't sound manic.
You both need to get out of your marriage. Do you really want another 40 years of this? You’re both still young and deserve a chance to find a happier path
Yes, I have been seeing the 4 red flags more recently with her. She has become more agitated and destructive in her words and action. First few years of dating her she was so quiet and if I upset her she became silent and cried. But now is just an emotional outburst and destruction of stuff. When I ask her what causes her to be like this she told me I cause it. I make her become so aggressive and filled with hatred. I ask to go seek therapy many times but she denied it and told me she doesn't need it. I got her to marriage therapy last year after a big fight but she became annoying to the therapist for putting thoughts in her mind and for judging her and canceling all our appointment.
Yeah, that edit wasn’t there when I initially commented. Regardless, maybe someone else needs a little push to get help. If therapy is available, I say use it
I've massively oversimplified her beliefs in a few sentences. She thinks I fake things like that when things don't go my way, when in reality it's a response to an awful situation.
I love her unconditionally, and understand why she is upset about all this.
I’m sure you do, don’t you want to explore life before being tied down to a family? At his age that’s what he’s looking for. He also dated a high school girl, give your head a shake he’s clearly looking for young naive girls to control. I bet he doesn’t want to hang with your friends or let you hang with your friends…. Very protective of all aspects of your life? He’s a real wiener
You stalked him. You destroyed his friendships. You destroyed his relationships. You destroyed his reputation. You harassed him. You took everything away from him. You were and still his abuser, bully, and stalker. You continue to be selfish. Contacting him will only traumatize him again.
The only thing you should do with his contact info is to delete it. Never contact him. Get therapy asap.
This so-called teacher is an unethical, unprofessional prick that I wish your husband has the guts the report once he find out. The other students in that course should ask for their money back. We pay good money to receive their professional services not for them to be setting up their next lay. Unbelievable.
She’s a woman. I would cringe to call someone I’m dating a young girl is all. The sneaking around with it was a bad look. I’d say it’s time to part ways.
How can you believe anything he says. He’s a proven liar. I’m sure it isn’t the first time he cheated.. he cheated on you. Move on girl. Lots of men out there who are faithful and who won’t hurt you.
exactly that! once u give the ugly boy a chance, they start treating u like you’re the ugly one
If my current relationship fails. Im done. At my age going through the motions of courtship is more than terrifying, it debilitating. I wont continue to put myself in harms way and im ok with that.
History of physical abuse that predates the pregnancy. PPD is tough but that’s not the most pressing issue. Her inability to control her physical response when triggered is the point. Maybe dude is a dick. Maybe not. But the baby is innocent. She shakes that child in a moment of frustration, and it’s game over, dead baby. Priorities, my peeps.
Please don’t be offended : You didn’t lose out in the quincenera department , you lost out on the mother department. Your mom sounds like she is very strict on you and you fall below her standards. And if you met them, she would raise them. I don’t know if your mom is being malicious or she truly thinks that being naked on you as a parent will help you later on life. Some parents don’t know how to show affection beyond tough love. She isn’t responsible for your cousin so she is more relaxed around her. I don’t think it has anything to do with you. I think it was how your mom was raised and this is the only thing she knows. Trying to teach that love isn’t supposed to be “earned” by a child’s “good” behavior is like teaching an abuela to apologize (encanto reference). So what that means for you, is that you might lose out on some life’s experiences because of how your mom is. But I think you should have a deeper conversation with your mom about wanting to bond with her and how important those bonding experiences are to you. How you want to go through life with each other by the side. And possibly speak to her why she has such high standards for you. Tell her flat out, how do you display your love for me?
Too bad because you need it now dude
Break up!!
You could be projecting your own feelings. Thinking I didn’t like this gift so she won’t like it but putting it in how you interpret her. Give suggestions but let them figure it out
TikTok has become a true addiction, tearing people away from the real world. I’m so sorry
SHE ATTEMPTED TO STRANGLE YOU. IT WAS MORE THAN PUSHING. STOP MINIMIZING THAT YOUR LIFE WAS IN DANGER.
Maybe not for you but its very much her type.
Hugs are fine. I said that. What’s not fine is holding hands and telling girls they are beautiful repeatedly
Navigating the world of thottery is complicated. Your bf has fully normalized following these profiles, he doesn’t even perceive why he does it anymore. That’s the danger of e-thots.
Just have to redraw boundaries and he’ll forget it was ever a thing.
Navigating the world of thottery is complicated. Your bf has fully normalized following these profiles, he doesn’t even perceive why he does it anymore. That’s the danger of e-thots.
Just have to redraw boundaries and he’ll forget it was ever a thing.
You did this to yourself. You acting super inappropriate. How did you love her when you sent those texts to your friends? That's not love. Thats being a disrespectful schmuck.
Right, but the comment I replied to said OP should only drink with female friends.
Get your wife into therapy. Hopefully its just her trauma that is making her act like a poor excuse for a human being.
Do you think she’s possibly in denial about the relationship? When she’s “fixing things” she’s always saying how she keeps trying to force her fiancé to do hobbies with her but he won’t, and stuff like that.
The fact that you keep defending yourself tells me you’re not happy at all. I’ve responded to negative feedback with appreciation and only attacked some trolls. Seriously, good luck guiding others into denial!
There are no magic words…. Understandable, you had a connection that you thought was going to go further and do it's disappointing that it didn't. Definitely you've earned your pint of ice cream and crying in front of a sad movie.
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Ahhh, so he is still at the home base with friends and you’re somewhere new? That could be why and this will probably be how it is for a while. But to answer your question, I was LD for maybe a year and everyday was different. It depends, but typically you know what each other is up to except the occasional “sorry everyone at work went to happy hour”. Do you have a bad feeling about it or do you think this is just genuinely how he communicates in a long distance setting
Out of curiosity; do you either of you have any personal relationships outside of each other? As in friendships? Or has her abusive behavior resulted in isolation?
And by personal relationships I don't mean her friends who you're friendly with or your friends who she's friendly with.
So what do you love about him? Because you typed that you love him. But nothing else about your post gives any indication that you love him. Or maybe you have no idea what love it. Girl, you have a job. You’re self-reliant. He doesn’t want to be a partner to you. Cut him off and walk away. You will be much happier.
OP, you can sit down with him, but unless you leave for another job AND go LC/NC with your parents there is no chance he will take you back. No chance in hell
Middle school ages are from 11-14.
11-14 YEAR OLDS. He's using photos of literal CHILDREN for sexual pleasure. Why are you still with someone like that?
That in itself is enough to divorce that absolute sicko.
None of this is normal. Get out of there. If not for yourself, do it for your children.
As someone who has many of my extended family fall into addiction, I doubt this is gonna be easy for him to achieve sobriety. My niece got pancreatitis at 26 and her stepdad got cirrhosis (and died). This is going to be a long journey to recovery (if he even gets there), so I just recommend you spare yourself the heartache watching someone self destruct.
I have no advice. I just want to wish you luck.
I'm nit 100 percent happy living by myself. There are pros, but many more cons. Yes, living with him is something I think of often, despite all this.
i genuinely believe she’d never cheat on me
Oh you sweet summer child.
I actually feel a lot better about hentai. He once agreed to only watch that, but he quickly broke the promise. It's mostly just having him watch other girls, and the feeling of him going back to the same artist.
IUI is probably not an option if her husband has severe male factor infertility. It was not an option for me and we had to do IVF even though I have no issues.
He’s done it once and he’ll do it again. Let her know so she can make an informed decision about her relationship.
My tip is: don't, unless you are 120% convinced this is what everyone involved wants (i.e. you're from a culture where this is a thing). If you're not, just ask her directly, otherwise you're in for the very uncomfortable “I'm not my dad's property you have to buy out” conversation with your gf.
You need to find a better guy. This reeks of him being insecure, passive aggressive and emotionally abusive. Did he “love bomb” you? This sometimes happens & then you form a bond that seems once in a lifetime then all of a sudden emotional abuse begins. Sometimes these types of guys will try breaking you via other women. They want to break your self esteem. The best revenge is to genuinely not care. Make that crystal fuckin clear to them right away too. With the guy you're with now, I'd say break up. It sounds like hs a loser. I would begin the process of breaking the addiction and focusing on bettering your life. You attract what you are so if you work super naked and have a good life- you'll attract a good guy who has those same relationship values. Also men who come from divorced parents have a much higher rate of not having successful relationships. So keep in mind if you are aiming for a life partner to look for red flags of a guy who's going to be the type that has a couple gfs when they're in their twenties- and then are losers all alone (or losers hiring escorts) in their older years.
Have you seen the update and the time lime… OP got back with him in October, move together in December, after seeing each other for a month… C’mon on now. You seems to be very naive, please get out of there and block that arse.
Definitely a negative in Alice that she accepts someone that can do that.
Exactly! Manic episodes can be spotted a mile away. Not eating, not sleeping, overindulgence and impulsiveness, purported moments of clarity when the manic person is clearly pinballing between minutiae, ephemera, vaguely-related concepts, and tangents. OP's husband fucked up big time, but he doesn't sound manic.
No keys that I know of, but I didn’t know much apparently. I’m probably gonna go back to my father’s for a bit, it’ll feel nicer I think idk
Let her be mad. She’s being reckless and that method isn’t foolproof.
You both need to get out of your marriage. Do you really want another 40 years of this? You’re both still young and deserve a chance to find a happier path
Yes, I have been seeing the 4 red flags more recently with her. She has become more agitated and destructive in her words and action. First few years of dating her she was so quiet and if I upset her she became silent and cried. But now is just an emotional outburst and destruction of stuff. When I ask her what causes her to be like this she told me I cause it. I make her become so aggressive and filled with hatred. I ask to go seek therapy many times but she denied it and told me she doesn't need it. I got her to marriage therapy last year after a big fight but she became annoying to the therapist for putting thoughts in her mind and for judging her and canceling all our appointment.
Yeah, that edit wasn’t there when I initially commented. Regardless, maybe someone else needs a little push to get help. If therapy is available, I say use it
Everyone wants to burn him. Why not confront him and tell him you know. Then take the next steps.
Delete. Block and move on
Send him A screenshot of the pic and say “bye”
Youre right.
The only thing you've said that makes sense.
This may go against your girl power narrative
I double dog dare you to go post this from the exs perspective on legaladvice and report back, king.
Oh shit I didn’t even see this! This is even worse. She’s just a horrible person in every way
And why should you care about that if you broke up? You can find an far better man that is respectful of your boundaries and treats you amazingly.
I've massively oversimplified her beliefs in a few sentences. She thinks I fake things like that when things don't go my way, when in reality it's a response to an awful situation.
I love her unconditionally, and understand why she is upset about all this.
I’m sure you do, don’t you want to explore life before being tied down to a family? At his age that’s what he’s looking for. He also dated a high school girl, give your head a shake he’s clearly looking for young naive girls to control. I bet he doesn’t want to hang with your friends or let you hang with your friends…. Very protective of all aspects of your life? He’s a real wiener
The book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has some good advice about how to give compliments.
That said, why don't you ask your wife if she feels overly complimented? Spark a discussion about what makes you both feel loved and appreciated.
You stalked him. You destroyed his friendships. You destroyed his relationships. You destroyed his reputation. You harassed him. You took everything away from him. You were and still his abuser, bully, and stalker. You continue to be selfish. Contacting him will only traumatize him again.
The only thing you should do with his contact info is to delete it. Never contact him. Get therapy asap.
Oh absolutely 🙂
This so-called teacher is an unethical, unprofessional prick that I wish your husband has the guts the report once he find out. The other students in that course should ask for their money back. We pay good money to receive their professional services not for them to be setting up their next lay. Unbelievable.
She’s a woman. I would cringe to call someone I’m dating a young girl is all. The sneaking around with it was a bad look. I’d say it’s time to part ways.
That's sounds crazy and it would make all the alarmbells go off in my head. Run