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Model from: fr
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Birth Date: 1977-12-01
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Date: October 22, 2022
There are tons of alternatives to watching porn with minors or sending them porn. You can explain that porn isn’t realistic without watching it together. You can explain about consent without watching porn. You don’t need to get into explicit sexual detail to explain that pornography is meant as entertainment rather than a tutorial and people shouldn’t expect real life sex to go the same way.
It also doesn’t necessarily sound like the uncle was explaining all that stuff anyhow.
Much more likely, he was sending the kid porn to get him comfortable with sexual stuff with his uncle. That’s a classic grooming technique. It’s also illegal for a good reason.
Yeah he needs to not be a friend. He's trash.
It’s not your call to make that decision tho. You should have given him the money but also let him know that he shouldn’t be enabling his sister by withholding the money you made him realise he is financially vulnerable. Either ways, it’s not wrong for him to have his own money and you should be supportive of that. He wants to do nursing and he’d probably make as much as you probably even more after a couple of years. Regardless this is just a typical situation that happens when roles are reversed too. Be supportive if he wants to start a career he’s supported you for so long now you both can figure out childcare etc.
Oof, there's a lot here. Yes you need to bring it up and stand up for yourself. Acknowledge that yes, maybe some of these insecurities are a YOU thing. You will need to say how getting made fun of or told “jokes” about some insecurity you're struggling with is making you feel. To use that as fuel for comedy appears to me as cruel or belittling. He may need to really express his emotions surrounding your jealousy or when you unloaded on him, too. So you guys need to just have this direct talk and lay shit out.
The last time I commmented on such a sensitive topic I got huge backlash so I'm hesitant. But as I'm reading this it is apparant you genuinly like him and he is honest about it. Talk to your doctor about the risks and preventive measures you could possibly take.
This happens to me a lot. It was really bad while I was in college and it didn’t help that I was really naive about boys since I went to an all girl high school. I struggled with loneliness my first 2 years and just when I thought I finally made a friend they had to confess their feelings to me. It made me feel bad about myself bc once I rejected them they’d ghost me. I understand why they did but it still hurt. I’m a little older than you so my only advice is to always make it known that you want a platonic friendship. While you can’t control how they feel, they can’t say they didn’t know since that boundary was established in the first place. I do wish to have some male friends but I’ve accepted that it’s probably never going to happen.
There is so much wrong here. The whataboutism is absolutely unacceptable IMO. The discussion was about the chores and your son, but your husband completely turned it on its head to insult you and close it. Did the chores thing ever get properly talked about? I'm guessing, no. Whataboutism is a manipulation tactic, and an insidious one. Please do not let him derail the conversation from what needs to be talked about, go back to the chores and son thing.
Second, the fact that he is not okay with discussing things but instead gets offensive and hostile is a problem. That I think also needs a discussion of it's own.
And his comment, in general, was awful! You say you don't know how you could forget it – well, you shouldn't. When someone says something hurtful it's IMO not useful to forget about it, it's useful to talk about it. I'm not saying “always angst over it and never let go” but… What I am saying is: he needs to explain this. And understand how hurtful and unfair this random insult was. And that it's not okay. And he should apologize, because that comment was absolutely not in any way similar to what you said to him – you had a reasonable expectation and stated it. In turn, he closed the conversation completely, derailed it, and offended you. I think all of this needs a serious – calm but firm – talk.
Honestly, end the relationship and cut contact. You can't go backwards in a relationship like that. She can't expect you to wait around while she explores her other options. That's not fair to you and she's not respecting your feelings.
Going no contact will give you the chance to move on and find someone who's ready to commit NOW/
Her main focus is herself finding out the truth when it does not even involve her. A lot of people couod be hurt from her insistence. Let sleeping dogs lie.
I'm not sure about this. It's true you don't get addicted in the same way you would on opiates etc but ime people do use it as a crutch and it can feel well out of control and be a priority in their life
I think you are downplaying how much you were pressuring him. The amount of women here saying you did nothing wrong and its him is disgusting.
Maybe not jail time but I don't know why you were downvoted, you're not wrong. I just said the same thing basically. If the tables were turned, they would be calling him an attempted rapist and telling her to leave him.
It's okay for her to pressure him though because apparently men can't be victims. He's probably fed up with her shit. He's probably tired of her trying to manipulate him.
I understand that people cry when they're stressed out but some people do this to manipulate the other person into giving them what they want. I can't say whether or not she was actually doing that but if the tables were turned, they would be telling her to get the hell out because he's abusive.
Why is it that she said nothing wrong with her statement because she's a woman? I can guarantee you that if he had said that, they would all be calling him an abuser and telling her to leave.
let’s get drinks sometime
This isn’t a habit of hers, and she usually is very good and supportive when I am busy. Which is why I don’t want to be mad at her, but yes this was a rough moment for sure
I am just having doubts if love would be enough in the long run?
Ask again when – if – you reach the point of loving him. You (and your mother) have a fantasy about what kind of man you should be dating, and that man doesn't exist for you right now. If this man cares for and respects you, and you him, his job shouldn't matter. He may determine later that he wants to pursue higher education and a new career but, right now, he is who he is.
Would you date & marry a man who makes double your income? If you answer “yes” without any other qualifications, your concerns are more materialistic and you should end this relationship so you and mommy can go for that lifestyle, happily ever after or not.
Honestly, the way you talk to him sounds like you’re talking to a child. Is that something you impose that seems condescending and frustrating to him, or is that because he acts like a child and that’s the tone you need to use to get through to him? My two cents are on both.
His behavior is unacceptable, but if he’s going to learn how to handle that, he needs to understand where those emotions come from and how to communicate effectively before those emotions turn into rage. Like every single post on this sub, a little therapy will go a long way.
Fuck this sub. “Walked in on my husband having sex with my second cousins daddy.” Red flag?
The second a one person in the relationship cheats its ruined nothing you can do to the relationship she already hasn't.
Communicate to him that if he’s insecure that you two can work through trying new things. He may even come to enjoy these new things. I didn’t like the idea of going down on someone until I tried it, now it’s almost my favorite part. If you’ve cleared that up and you’re sure it’s not insecurity or it still is and he won’t budge, I’m sorry but he’s just being lazy and or selfish.
The problem I am having is even though I love her I never feel satisfied or even really desired anymore. I am struggling to find a point in trying anymore as it feels pointless more than not. I really love this girl and want it to work but I also am getting incredibly depressed thinking about this.
You certainly implied it, because no way does someone who wants to have sex spend their entire life with someone who doesn't.
It's easy enough to say, “Honey, I think your birth control is messing with your body and your libido, and I hate to see you unhappy. Let's go back to the doctor and see if there's something else we can do.”
This lady needs to get off hormonal birth control stat. Either don't have penetrative sex, get condoms, or get a vasectomy and give her body a break. Or do you not like condoms either?
I mean, the options for her are not unlimited. Birth control pills or patches, depo provera shots (which will likely kill her libido even more), an IUD. But these are all invasive and some women just cannot tolerate them.
So… condoms.
You are already checked out of the relationship if you are falling in love with someone else. So much as we’ll end things so you can be with the other guy.
I wouldn’t date this woman. She’s not relationship material.
This seems fake to me. This well to do woman couldn’t afford a hotel room or her place? That’s why this whole thing seems made up.
First off having a personal preference doesn’t make you sexist. If you’re not into women that dress like street walkers then thats what’s called standards. Which is why he explained that it’s not the type of person he would take to meet the parents. The crying thing is something that is pushed onto most men In most cultures. To the point that even a lot of women that claim they would love to be with a man that can cry then turn around and break up with said man because they are weak. As for the trans thing it is his right to think how ever he wants to think. If he’s being respectful about it all what difference does it make if he cares about pronouns or not. Why can’t you respect him and his beliefs as much as he respects you and yours.
I hear you, 100%. That why I came to Reddit because I know something is not right. I guess knowing what I know about people, when they are suffering they take it out on the people closest to them. For my husband, I know he’s having a tough time with everything and if we can get him through this he could become the man he used to be. I’m not ready to give up on him yet…it may be foolish on part, but I believe the man I married is still in there…