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I’ve made friends with a guy who was already taken but ended up leaving her because he wanted to be with me even though I told him beforehand I dont want to date anyone for a while. He ignored my desires and acted upon them without even talking about it with me first. Now his ex hates me when it’s not my fault.
No. I'm in my 40s and have always had male platonic friends, and have always known how to respect boundaries while in a relationship.
OP and the girl have been close friends for over a decade before becoming a couple, so he would probably have heard of this guy before if he was such a “good friend”.
If this guy is treating her to a NFL game, he's definitely interested. Her attending indicates she's interested, as well.
This is shady. He should just put how he feels out on the table and ask her how she feels about the state of their relationship.
agree 1000%
I am so sorry to hear that. Honestly, you deserve someone who wants to spend quality time with you. Its true we should have time for ourselves without our partner, its natural and healthy. But you should also feel supported, heard, and appreciated. You should never be in a relationship where you're the only one chasing and feeling invalidated. I hope you will be able to heal and move on to someone who will treat you like you deserve!
This can't be real.. someone else had the same crap come up and I was blown away reading that.
If this is legit then he needs therapy and you need to disinfect your home and all your clothing.
You can't cheat on someone you aren't in a relationship with.
spoken to a lot of girl friends and we have all been able to climax, but it's more of a once every 20 sessions type of thing.
I think this explains the orgasm deficit. Women are just willing to settle. Men who never just accept an orgasm 1 out of 20 times.
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I see a lot of stickiness involved with this. He wants to be a father, and will likely view this child as more than just his cousin’s child, but his own. It’s only natural to feel that way, especially watching them grow up in front of you. He will see his face in him, his features, maybe his personality. The child will want to know who their father is, then what? What if they want a deeper connection with them? To live with them? What if something happens to the couple? Death? Divorce? Who will be turned to in those situations, because it could likely be him. And not unwillingly either, because he may feel a moral responsibility to take care of his biological child if things go wrong. What if they want child support someday and go against their word? People have sued donors over this very topic.
And as someone who does not want to be a father, I find this future to be a little disconcerting, especially him making such a huge decision without even speaking with his life partner.
That’s the trouble I have with this.
But it’s my fault that they’re assholes because I’m the one who needs to prove myself according to them. I need to earn their kindness according to them but no matter what I do it’s not enough to earn it? Why?
lol your friend sounds like he needs some class
Huh?
I agree with others that communication is very important in a healthy relationship. Don't hide your feelings. There is also a difference between saying things in a way that is judgemental vs saying things in a way that expresses how you feel. I was always taught to try to say things in a certain way, use “I feel” and “I” statements vs accusatory statements like “you did xyz” “your parents xyz”. Something like “I feel a bit uncomfortable at your parents' house, it is different than I am used to.” “I really loved your parents and would enjoy seeing them again.”
It isn't an easy topic, but I also feel that being vulnerable and sharing/communicating with your spouse/partner is important. Be careful and pay attention to their bodily and vocal responses. It could be a sensitive subject and you don't want to push too naked too fast. Another option is carefully asking questions. Asking things like “how do you feel?”. I know I am not covering all the situations here, I am sure others have a lot more insight. The one thing I can't stress enough is how important communication is. Hiding things, or parts of yourself, won't work well in the long run.
you make some great points, thank you