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Date: November 4, 2022

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  1. Don’t have to be the cool girlfriend, I wouldn’t want him to go either. Would he be fine with you going to a magic Mike type strip club?

    I do see some dancers in the comments as well which is so cool! From my perspective, I’m not at ALL worried about a lady that works there trying anything, I just don’t want my partner enjoying other tittties or booties period. It’s so weird how dudes in relationships can’t just say no.

  2. because he’s using you. You keep letting him walk all over you by putting up with this multiple times, he isn’t going to change when you’re giving him exactly what he wants

  3. I know and I'm being brutally honest here. Don't settle for him because if he really loved you, he would have brought you into his life properly to share everything with you and I mean everything and also to back you up with his folks and not be petulant to not talk to your folks because he's have been nasty to you. The worst part was having people over and not telling them to clean up after themselves but leaving all the job to you. You're not a slave or a maid. Do yourself a a favour and think really really hard if he brought a ring today and asked you to marry him.

  4. I think you need to find the joy in the small things that are around you. Shared experiences with your husband. Go hiking, picnics in remote places etc. I'm not sure the party scene will do anything to make you feel fulfilled.

  5. The WAY she said it and the fact that after that conversation with him being in the room to hear it that he refuses to sleep in the same bed, smh. She's being incredibly insensitive to the fact that she could be the cause of that problem that her partner doesn't want to be next to her for implying he'd hurt/coerce her.

  6. She was ignoring boundaries and refusing to accept she didn’t have consent. Major red flags. It’s not ok just bc she’s the aggressor and your male. Sounds like she’s trying to baby trap my friend. Be very careful and think very hard before continuing in this relationship.

  7. Don’t sell the flat/apartment.

    We have family trusts in the US, not sure if they are available in your country. But you could put the apartment in such an entity, and you could dictate who gets it.

    You can tell your girlfriend that due to past experiences you intend to keep this flat for the long term and will be for your future children’s use, to make it more palpable to her.

    I have a family friend who was in business with his wife’s father and brother and they (husband and wife) emigrated to the US. The wife forced the husband to sell the real estate that was part of the business to her brother without doing an appraisal. The brother turned around and sold the property at 2-3 times what he bought it for from his brother in law (family friend of mine) a few years later. This family friend was never the same after that, he got into a depression and kind of gave up on life. He felt betrayed by his wife and in-laws. For the first 30-40 years of his life he was very entrepreneurial and tried to hustle to get ahead, now he does the bare minimum to get by.

    If you don’t want to turn into my family friend, some relationship counseling from a professional is needed in order to see where you and girlfriend stand on the financials, and also what the expectations are going forward. Please make you financial boundaries clear from the start.

  8. Have you asked her if she is OK with you getting your needs met somewhere else (even if you don't have any intention of doing this)?

  9. Op that poster sounds like an immature child with the “sound insecure” bs. That's just manipulative and toxic expecting people to read your mind and react to things the way you want them to. There's better advice here.

    Definitely be clear and upfront. You don't kiss other people (irregardless of gender) when in a monogamous relationship. You're not wrong for feeling bad about it. Your feelings are perfectly valid and your wife should have known better. Talk to her. It's up to her to ask for your forgiveness and make reparations on the damage she did to your relationship. Be it couples therapy or whatever will make you feel secure in your relationship again.

  10. “I was so naive, I thought my wife would like me bonding with her friends by giving them all massages while hard. I thought it was a two birds one stone kind of deal. Why is she angry about me being nude with them?”

  11. I’ve had a guy do say something negative as a joke and it made me feel so insecure around him that I finally had to end it with him. Thank god I did because he was super immature and every guy I’ve been with since has LOVED my girly bits. If your self esteem is diminished around this person then it’s best that you break it off so you are not constantly thinking about it and worrying about it.

  12. I feel that you can handle that at your level of maturity and experience. The problem is that she doesn't have that. This is where the dynamic would be problematic. There is a possibility she might, “catch feelings”

  13. Not gonna come at you like the other comments are. I don’t know where their holier than thou attitude is coming from lol, this is a very normal feeling.

    I don’t know how long you have been together, but I think on some level, it is normal for your relationship to lose some form of passion over time. Yeah, you lose the burning passionate fire of “I need to have you right here, right now” all the time, and you have to deal with real stuff together that comes with mundane life. But I’m exchange you get security, longevity, a person to call home, someone to always pick up when you call, someone to love and cherish, someone that pushes you to be better, someone to devote your time into and build with you.

    If you’re happy, and the relationship is going well, I think in the long run, you will feel more fulfilled by improving your relationship than seeking out excitement somewhere else. Sure, you may feel good having a random hookup, but where are you the next day? When the excitement wears off, and you go home alone, and you don’t have that person to call – will you miss him? Will you truly feel happier or more excited then? Prolly not.

    No one is 100% an exact perfect match for us because we are all different people. Finding someone who makes you happy and works well with you is something to cherish, for sure.

    My advice to you is to have a conversation with him about the passion, and find ways to improve on that. Spicing up the bedroom, new date ideas, reading relationship books together.

    But that being said, you’re young and have time to make mistakes. If you don’t think now is the time to devote to working on your relationship, do what feels right. I hope this helped

  14. The healthiest thing is generally to work through your feelings first so that you can communicate clearly.

    Try writing a letter to her stating your feelings and perceptions and keep drafting it until you feel that you’ve communicated your honest thoughts about your relationship. What she meant to you, how you feel BtB is affected you, what you want going forward.

    I’m adding an example with no details because only you know the details of your relationship with her.

    Like: I have long seen you as my best friend, and believed the secrets of my heart were safe with you. Now that I know you’ve been hiding things you knew would hurt me while still acting caring to my face, I’ve lost that trust and feel deeply pained and saddened.

    It’s clear to me that you prioritize your relationship with this man over our friendship, which is your choice. My choice going forward will be to separate from you and him to heal my hurts and develop new relationships where I can share confidences in trust again.

  15. Kindly, how are you taking care of you? Solely from your OP, you sound stressed, anxious, confused, and depressed. What self care are you indulging in?

    I feel for your gf; I can’t imagine how tough it is to be unable to be who one truly is. But she is taking out her frustrations on you, and leaning on you alone. As you wrote, her negativity is making you both miserable.

    I truly hope you are in or are seeking therapy. You are bearing a huge mental load in providing care for your adult gf. When is the last time you did something that brought you joy?

    I urge you to read what you’ve written here and think about what advice you would give as if this were written by someone else. You are setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. With regard to your anxiety, your OP reads as if your gf is contributing to your anxiety. If your only escape is to look for an apartment for only yourself, that speaks volumes.

    No one can tell you what to do. If you leave and she spirals down, you will feel guilty. If you stay you will continue to be unhappy. What if you leave and nothing happens? What if you leave and that’s the push for her to seek professional help? You can’t know what will happen. You also should not feel guilty for taking care of yourself.

    Please, get therapy. Have a professional guide you. Have a professional help you with your anxiety. Have a professional provide you support.

  16. A bit personal, but I am in intensive trauma therapy and part of my treatment has been talking about attachment styles.

    It's been a very helpful framework for me to understand where my feelings come from, how to inspect them, how to apply mindfulness to them and how to avoid them sabotaging my relationships.

    Funnily enough, dismissive-avoidant attachment style was the specific one we've been speaking about in my therapy, so I feel pretty strongly about this “love doctor” giving a bogus diagnosis that only serves to hinder this man's self improvement.

    The way it's used here, it's definitely a cop out, but I think the concept has some real uses when actually used in a clinical setting.

  17. I know this sounds super exaggerated but she knows that my bf and her ex talk about shit at work so she does SPECIFICALLY ask me if I heard anything and asks me no word of a lie dozens of super specific questions per hour. I have a hard time talking to her about anything other than this. Her and my bf are also relatively close and he doesn’t even wanna be around her bc she puts him on the spot and literally won’t shut up about it. She says she just wants answers so she has closure which I understand… but like you guys said I also agree that now she’s single it’s none of her business. I guess for my own sake I only have the urge to tell her to try and get her to get over the convos about him regretting it and coming back like she thinks he will. It almost sounds selfish on my behalf now that I’m typing it but Idek anymore lol

  18. Let's just say that what he is telling you is 100% the truth. That doesn't make this situation any better.

    If you think something won't work out, you don't put in the effort you should. If he truly did that “just in case” y'all didn't work out. Why be with someone who has so little faith in your relationship?

    Just to be clear, I think he is lying. You are right, cheating isn't logical.

  19. What would be a good idea if possible is you both rent an appartment next to each other. He manages to get assistance and you can help him out when needed but you both keep your independance.

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