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Date: October 25, 2022
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Well as I'm on reddit now I might as well update here, we broke up. I got tired of being ignored for weeks straight so we broke up. I broke it off and we have not spoken since. I think it was better for both of us and I am started to go out with other people again. Thanks for all the advice guys.
Vindictive? They are or were family friends. I know his wife and she is a nice lady and I consider her a friend. If he wants her he can have her, The damage is already done.
Sounds like its gonna be a bumpy ride.
On a serious note, if it was a gift to her she should be the one to say if she wants/can take care of the pony. If she's not able to provide then you should take him. But she should take precedence.
23 and 18 is not bad at all. You have some weird issues in your life if you think that’s bad.
have my free award too.
i’m pretty chill in regards to these things – i’ve both asked my bf and friends to text me when they get home, and they’ve asked me. i’ve received texts and haven’t, and i’ve also sent texts and sometimes forgotten. but it doesn’t particularly matter to me. i think if my bf or friend started an argument if i forgot, i’d be annoyed too, especially if they made it a big deal on promising that i’d text.
however, i do understand that she has had a traumatic event in relation to this event. perhaps a more compatible bf would find accomodating for this less infringing.
but i don’t think this all is about “texting when he got home”. she started panicking at 11pm. i literally will not check my phone all day if i’m out day drinking. thats getting closer to “keeping tabs” than, “let me know you’re home safe”. basically, the guy can’t have a day out without her getting super worried. idk but i agree that’s a her problem, and something that may be assisted either with therapy or finding someone on the same wavelength.
It could definitely have something to do with childhood trauma (especially the bathing together being encouraged either by parents or by, like you said, him not stopping it) but regardless. The signs are there.
Even if it is related to trauma you do not have to stay with him. He probably won't want therapy. He doesn't want to address it.
You don’t really have good examples of her having a lack of motivation, like I said she’s in school and working part time, wtf else is she supposed to do? Manual labor is not the only kind of work, and certainly is not all you need to raise a family.
Great example. I love your confidence and I love his confidence. Maybe confidence isn't the right word — maybe, complete comfort? Like “yes, I love what I have…don't disturb that. ever.” It is a really great thing to see. Not easy to build. Takes an enormous amount of respect and love and trust between you two.
Just cause you’re not Durant mean he isn’t
I wouldn’t take the wife or the kid as they are animal abusers. Do the animals a favor and make an anonymous abuse tip to the SPCA so they can rescue these animals from a lazy, neglectful household.
Regardless if it’s a man or woman, I would ask if they’re depressed in this case, or any scenario where their partner is exhibiting symptoms of mental illness or depression and could be struggling, especially when children are involved.
You’re right, men are expected to suffer in silence and alone. This doesn’t mean OP should shy away from communicating with his wife about his feelings and issues that need to change and be discussed in detail. Shutting down and “treating this like if she was a man”, isn’t productive or healthy.
I said she’s the only one who can decide to get help – that is not on OP. I never said he should just take being miserable and overwhelmed for the sake of her feelings.
I said he needs to figure out what he wants to do next if she doesn’t take responsibility for her inactions.
“Women are never accountable for their actions and always need help.” How so? This is a nonsensical statement.
That’s exactly what i though as well
Do NOT ditch your own graduation. Period.
Oh she knows she’s wrong, but she doesn’t give a damn. I think we just practice so she figures out how to spin it to the rest of the general public tbh.
That’s why she lied and said she would give him her number for “emergencies”. Why bother with the lie? I mean if it’s okay to fuck him because “technically”, then surly it’s okay to give him your number so you can make your move.
She’s just a horrible person
I know you care very much about your girlfriend and her health, but you have to accept that she is an adult capable of making her own decisions. If she doesn't choose to prioritize her eye health, that's her prerogative. You just gotta let her take care of herself (or not, as the case may be).
You’re right that I should have approached him about it when I saw the messages. I have no evidence that he stayed over there other than his coat smell.
She said she wanted time for herself. Is hooking up with the same guy for mulitple weeks sound like that is time for herself? People who say they need time for themselves do not go and find people to be with. If they did then that defeats the time for themselves.
I am not saying her hooking up withsome while they were not together is bad. I am saying that her stating she needed time to be by herself and not doing so is a lie. That she did not use that time how she said she was going to do so.
We’ve been together about 7 months. My plan was to say the things you’ve outlined here. Just wanted some additional perspective to make sure I’m just not being old fashioned.
It is a fun addition but don’t get to a point where you’d rather use toys to pleasure yourself than your partner. I’ve seen many posts where either the guy or girl would rather watch porn and masturbate than have sex.
You’re right. Adding on, I think a few couples often fall for the idea of an ideal marriage which falls apart once they online together and the day to day drudgery kicks in. After which they realise how different they are from one another.
I really wish people would see when it's not working out
Jealousy
I'd say put some distance between you and your “friend” before she gaslights you further into ending your stable relationship! She needs therapy and it's not your issue
Yeah I was thinking this too. I guess maybe I should have phrased my question what could lead to such a change in values instead of what would cause him to cheat.
He’s told me that he thinks if I have this baby I’ll likely end up being a single parent
So right now, he's telling you what's going to happen. You can choose not to believe him or you can prepare yourself for single motherhood.
Eh. If he goes to bars to chill with friends frequently, it’ll be annoying not being able to bring his gf or feel pressured to stay home with her.
Also a lot of people go wild as soon as they can go to bars, so it’s also fair for him to want to be with someone who already had that experience and he knows isn’t going to be a mess.
I think he’s being reasonable. Age gaps matter less when we are older and have more life experience. She’s maybe a year out of Highschool.
I had four wisdom teeth removed and then right after got dry socket in two of them and STILL didn’t need around the clock care. I went back to work!
i already did
Not wanting to sugar coat it, anal is a thing for quite a lot of guys, not all, maybe not even most, but many guys want to try it at least once.
Oral is another thing, I think most guys want oral to be a part of their sex life.
If you don't want to do stuff, you shouldn't do it, but you're probably right that many guys would find it dissatisfying and maybe boring.
There are guys out there though that are maybe nearer the asexual end of the spectrum or just not that bothered about anything other than PIV.
Younger guys are more likely to want a more interesting sex life though.
I'm not for a moment saying you should do anything you're uncomfortable with, but it likely will cause some problems later down the line, especially the oral thing.
Lord, I'm sorry that your father and his wife never cared for your feelings. They never cared in10 years, and they will never care.
Op if he is willing to make out with someone in a relationship then I feel he will have no problem doing the same. You’re not jealous you have a gut feeling and my advice would be to trust that.