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I was in a similar situation. File a police report and get out. After 7 years of living in a sexually abusive marriage I am completely messed up from any kind of physical contact. RUN!
If he'll hit a wall/fridge//steel beam near you, it's only time before he hits you. Because that is ultimately what he WANTS to do, but he uses a surrogate … For now. It's abuse.
Sounds like you got attached. Big mistake.
Move on. He's not even your boyfriend.
and I was incredibly vulnerable with him
This is why FWB rarely works.
As a parent (and a divorced parent at that) I just want to say most parents don’t actually sleep much on Christmas night. We usually are building toys and cursing Santa until 4 or 5am. It’s very possible that he will be helping her set things up most of the night and that’s why he wants to be there over night.
You're NOT marrying their family. The family just needs to give their respect to the marriage by being nice to the partner and that's it. It might be important to you but it's clearly not important to her.
I'm Latina and my family likes to go to Mexican parties, go to Church and whatnot since they are immigrants from Mexico and that is their culture. I personally don't care about those things because I grew up here in America and am more in tune with an American culture, so I would get with someone who grew up in America who I have a good relationship with. And my parents know that and support that. I've dated many men before and everything my parent, as well as extended family, have been very accommodating and respectful. My family goes out of their ways to introduce my partners to iur events, food, etc. What matters to my parents is that I'm happy and that my partner treats me well, that's literally it. Why? Because my family is reasonable, unlike you.
And guess what? At the end of the day is matters what she decides to do, not you. Again, you're not sleeping with this guy. She is. You have to realize that the more you butt heads with your daughter on this, the more she will distance herself from you. She's a grown woman and she can decide what she wants to do with her life, who to date, etc. You seem controlling. No wonder your daughter has said that you've traumatized her.
I suggest a Copper Iud its non hormonal and can last for 10 yrs you can also remove at anytime (please ask to go under for the procedure though) talk to your partner
You're his lifeline and it's time for him to sink or swim. He's not 'thinking it over', he's afraid of change.
You're enabling him by driving him everywhere. You're letting him use his excuses as to not get a driver's license or find ways to better himself. If any of you continue to enable him it's only going to slow his progress. I think it's past time you start setting some boundaries with him.
“I will only drive you to help you practice driving and to our dates”. Not to work. Not to the store. Not for anything in particular that he needs to do. You taxiing him around should be a mutual benefit for both of you. He's not your responsibility.
As for the job, I think he's just comfortable and doesn't want to change. Maybe he feels like entering any kind of school is a commitment and he's not ready to commit to 1 craft. That's understandable to an extent, but it's also ridiculous. I find the 'trick' to get people more motivated is to emphasize “getting your foot in the door”. Do something to give yourself options, because right now you don't have jack shit. If you start a in a trade school to be a mechanic, it'll expose you to a wide range of skills from welding, mechanist, piping… But it'll also expose you to how to use tools, maybe how to read diagrams, maybe even how you read drawings (shout-out to all my designer brothers/sisters). You have to sell it to him so the tunnel isn't so dark for him.
Bottom line, I think he's scared to move forward in life. Maybe this life is the only one be knows and he's comfortable with it. He has to change though because life isn't going to wait for him forever… And neither should you.
I don't think that's the lesson to take from this, she didn't fuck anything up within the friend group she just has feelings for him and it hurts her, you can fix all this with good communication, your advice is on point, I agree time and distance will sort it out.
We take risks with any form of intimacy
Usually? Apparently, on Reddit.
The rest of us wonder how the fuck these gross people have anyone interested.
I don't know if this is honestly real. The amount of guys who truly slept with 50+ is astronomical. Let alone 100. But as usual I'm pretty sure most posts on here are completely fake.
Alas, for the advice. I've had hook ups, but more unintentional.
If you'd like to give him my advice go ahead. I break most norms in the US. I lost my virginity at 16, we had sex well over 200 times before I hit 17… even if I hit that. I then met my high school sweetheart, same exact deal 100%. It wasn't until after the second relationship did I ever watch porn.
That being said, tell him who cares, you're not a number. I'd tread very lightly on a guy who really gets embarrassed over 20 vs 100. I could see if you were like this third, versus twenty.
I (23f) was that same way with duloxetine when my doctor and I were trying it out. She put me on 30 days of it so see how I did and how I felt. I had the same reaction. Now I am currently taking Lexapro and have had 1 1/2 years of therapy, and have never felt better.
I'm not saying that route is perfect for her, but maybe she just is not on the right treatment plan.
Now she has a college degree, she can get a job and her own place. Learn to budget, make it happen. It’s time.
This is honestly so sad I want to believe it’s fake. Like what the fuck dude. Leave him. He’s obviously thinking about fucking other girls and if you don’t like that then don’t stay with him. Simple.
If someone is going to cheat of you, they will do it with anyone, they don't need an ex.
Honestly I don't really remember whether it was mutual, I just don't remember any bad feelings on my side. And presumably if they had any towards me it wasnt significant.
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That I don't care about someone's opinion being imposed on me?
Yes I am very much of that opinion. I won't smoke weed in your property and you don't tell me what I can and can't do in my property.
If you don't like that I'm high then don't have me over.
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Lol other people get upvoted for saying they don’t understand how people have open relationships, you get downvoted for saying you don’t understand how people do monogamy. What an echo chamber.
Air b&b your house?
Were you having sex on the living room sofa or something?
Your boyfriend was right and didn't say anything wrong. Your dad's response is also not a surprise, as it may be very hot for him for him to not feel personally attacked, even though your bf's criticisms are of a system and not your dad personally.
If I were in your position, I would defend your boyfriend voicing this opinion to your dad, and I would suggest to your dad that criticizing the police generally, and especially acts of police brutality specifically, shouldn't be taken as a personal attack by him. I would also suggest to your dad that your boyfriend's experience with the police as a person of color may be very different than his own, and that is a perspective worth hearing.
A lot of comments are suggesting that your bf should not have voiced this opinion to your cop dad. I don't think asking people of color to be quiet about police violence against people of color for the sake of white people's comfort is reasonable. This may result in your dad not liking your boyfriend, and that sucks, but your boyfriend should not have to be quiet about this.
You’re not in a rough patch your marriage is over.
To put it plainly he doesn’t want you but he loves knowing you still want him.
Why are you putting the decisions in his hands? Just take back your life and file for divorce yourself.
Do you honestly enjoy being treated this way? Is this what you’re prepared to put up with?
Have some self respect.
If he wants an entire room for his own man cave (which is totally good and fine imho), then he should be willing to pay extra money for a room that he would almost exclusively be benefiting from.
Nobody can deny how you feel. Suggest you to break up with her. Dont push yourself too much if you cannot forget the fact that she slept with your friend eventhough you both were flirting together the whole time. People may have differing opinions about this whether it is justified for you to even feel anything who she gave her virginity to since she is not your property.
Who knows maybe sometime in the future whwn you both have matured enough, you will cross path again and then see how you feel at that time.
But if we conclude that it’s over, wouldn’t it be better to spend the last 7 months free to do whatever, and sort of “gradually break up”
They hadn't. He was the one who thought for himself: “We are still married.” and acted accordingly. There was no agreement about that. If there had been there would have been no reason for their therapist to even ask if anyone of them had dated anyone else.
OP assumed something they never really talked about. That's how such situation with BS breaks come to term.
Maybe don't mention stuff to him unless you are sure you're going to do it. He doesn't need to know where you are at every waking hour
Breathtakingly naive you say? Hm interesting that you feel this way. Wish you the best to get out of your mindset!
Anxiety (and to a lesser extent) depression meds can help ease paranoia or fear of harm/stealing. It can also maybe help reduce behaviors like the stalking you mention. So discuss with his doctor his symptoms to see if meds could help or even just discuss with his doctor anxiety relieving supplement options like magnesium, vitamin c, gaba, b complex, and so forth. This may help with those behaviors and thus open up more options to you.
Though you can hire a person or place him in a nursing home, home care professionals and nursing homes are often use to dealing with that kind of anxiety, so don’t let it stop you from finding a solution that works better for you. Additionally, you can also tell him that he either accepts in home help or nursing care, because you can’t keep helping him as much as you are. His needs matter but so do yours, so he needs to work with you to find a balance. Or else he risks burning out the one person who’s actually helping him.
Do you have an old school friend you could ask? I would go to my own graduation. I find very hot to believe they didn’t know when booking the date. Oh a congratulations on becoming a doctor! Is a huge accomplishment, celebrate it.
I'll admit you sound like a douche
I told her to be out by 4/1 I will keep you all posted
If she asks me what I think, though, do I just say that? She’d sniff me out for sure.
I do not know why, but reddit does not show me the ten comments it says there are. I can only see one which i've responded to. But I still want to thank everyone who took the time to answer me, I wish I could answer you back too.
I do not know why, but reddit does not show me the ten comments it says there are. I can only see one which i've responded to. But I still want to thank everyone who took the time to answer me, I wish I could answer you back too.
As someone who is similar to the disposition you described, you feel nothing because everything you thought you had with him was destroyed. You supported him through a very very hot time, probably to your detriment, and he had no problem betraying you. So, you body, psyche, and emotions have decided they are done giving to him.
I’m sorry you are going through this.
Leave
Then you're the common denominator, it's not normal.
I agree the age difference at this stage is huge. At 20 I was definitely not taking dating this seriously and would get scared off by guys that were. This isn’t true for all 20 year olds but I was definitely still in my partying phase and when I’d date older guys who had careers etc it didn’t really mesh as I wasnt trying to settle down and stay in weeknights that most understandably were.
Also I think even now I’d be a little turned off by a guy falling so very hot so quickly. It’d put up a little red flag for me like, is he just this interested in everyone he meets? Maybe in the moment she was enjoying herself but when she got home she thought it over and felt uncomfortable with it? It sucks to be ghosted but it was just one date so it shouldn’t be that difficult to move on from and just say she wasn’t the one, on to the next. OP should prob date someone closer to his age most people do a lot of growing between 20 and 26.
How unfortunate for you. I myself sadly am stuck in a 12 year relationship with a man i married who simply supports me the horror i know!
He dares to tell me i can achieve things! And gives me.. i can't even utter it.. but i will..
emotional support!!!
I failed to find a man who thinks the sun rises and sets with him. Maybe we both will be so lucky in our next lives!
I guess it all stems from the fact he disappears every two days. Not joking every two days he just go ghost. He’ll text normally.. ask me to call him. I call he doesn’t answer then he disappears for two days and comes back like nothing. I think the universe gave me the sign I needed. I did not go into the group thinking I’d even see him in it … but I did