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And if they have longer I’d advise you to never leave your children alone with them. She told you she’s going to abuse (spank) them.
Definitely rage bait
This makes 100% logical sense in order to piece then, and yet they had never once crossed my mind ?
Depends on the person/ couple. 6 months seems way to long though.
Omfg that ending was great lmao now I want a parrot just to argue with ???
Don’t set yourself up for failure.
I know I should 🙁 but I feel like since it is very difficult for me to have an O, they just kinda give up, maybe it’s rough on their ego or idk but yeah 🙁 anyway I’ve always been more of a giver so I’m not bothered too too much, even tho I’d be nice lmao
It is a silly use of that money.
But it is his money and he can use it how he likes.
He wants to give her something to remember him by when he is gone.
Your focusing on the $$. He is focusing on trying to provide a thoughtful gift that she can keep forever to know that he loved her.
Ad the end of the day – you don’t have a say. Just teach your daughter to appreciate a gift is always about the thought and never about the $$.
That’s a rlly difficult situation. I love my cats very much and I wouldn’t be comfortable giving them away to strangers. I would need to visit them once in awhile just to see that they are doing okay. I’m so sorry, maybe you can give it to your friends/family to take care of, and you can still visit.
OP that’s not good enough, you should come clean to your bf and give him the option of staying or leaving. Cause god forbid Sean or his gf go directly to Bob…he’s 100% gone. Use your brain. Have some decency.
She already is. BF is the one refusing proper communication with “idk”.
You already ruined your relationship with the porn addiction. Like you said -she told you that she felt that your addiction is cheating on her. But you still have the addiction problem. So she never recovered from your cheating hence why your advances were rejected. Your addiction was before her toy and it didn’t remedy the problem that you have. Therefore your marriage has been dead and hasn’t recovered from it. You both should have been in therapy years ago. Now she trying this outlet in lieu of a divorce. You let it go too far for too long. You’re still not over your addiction. You have to decide if you are ready to divorce now and get therapy later or therapy now and divorce later.
Sounds like you have no problem buying her out, so buy her out and then give her notice to move out of your house.
But don't tell her you're going to kick her out. Those will be some cards you're going to hold close to you without revealing it to her.
Sounds like you have no problem buying her out, so buy her out and then give her notice to move out of your house.
But don't tell her you're going to kick her out. Those will be some cards you're going to hold close to you without revealing it to her.
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Is not your baggage their mental health. You have your own issues, in a larger context both issues are important, but in your context, yours come first. Your health and integrity (mental, physical and spiritual) are or should be priority no matter the situation.
Is not your responsibility anymore, is not the person you married and is not the person you want to have anymore, both of you are no longer compatible, you can just leave.
Get out of that relationship asap
I don’t think it’s a big deal especially because both of those photos are a part of multiple pictures where it’s just in one of the slides. Besides, both posts are about events such as her prom and some party. It’s possible that she wants those posts up just as a memory and her ex just happens to be in one of them. It really does not sound like a big deal and even though you both seem interested in each other, it hasn’t escalated into a relationship yet and I feel like expecting her to take down those photos may be a bit too soon. I think you should trust what she says.
I'm looking at it as MAYBE could be a different issue here. For example, if I was eating melons and someone said, “You seem to be hungry today,” and I said, “Does that annoy you. People whom this annoys tend to be racist.” It maybe a deflection or counter attack to the inciting matter not a declaration of fact that I know about the person. Maybe, …(NOTE: Maybe), the insecurity is responsible for interpreting it as a direct reference to what she knows about your situation.
P.S. That is not what is considered small.
there’s a difference between having love for someone and being in love with someone. it sounds like he’s ex was an important person in her life who she’ll always love and care about. but she’s in love with you. lots of people have that one ex who they’ll always love. that doesn’t make you a second option.
Is it not normal to leave the tag on in case the clothing item doesn't fit so the person you're giving it to can exchange it for the right size?
I'm stuck on how leaving the tag on was interpreted as this horribly lazy thing.
So you guys been together for 4yrs. You should know by now if you want to marry her or not. If not, break up. If you do, what’s stopping you from taking the next step? If aren’t ready for marriage after 4yrs and you want different things. Leave.
EXACTLY! I’m not asking for much. I know footsteps, kettles boiling etc. is non-negotiable. But the freaking doors???? That I explicitly explained the nature of to her previously (being weighted so she needs to guide them)
And I really appreciate that feedback. Thank you!
He sounds like a repeat offender of not making you feel appreciated and being selfish with his time, effort and money. I'd start looking to move out and find someone who makes you feel good every day of the year
Glad he put a stop to it, but I'd still keep my eye on both of them if I were you. In my experience, women flirt with men who are receptive to their flirting. At no point was their “work marriage” one-sided.
Gez mate you need to be single. Let her free to find a guy that won't spy and disrespect her by breaking her privacy. People see people during the super early stages. I saw 2 women for the first 3 weeks untill I decided who I was going to become official with. It's fine. Let her go be with someone who respects her.
Yeah the responses are stressing me out,
I’m not sure who started it, they were both into it but no one got hurt it was all just shoving no punches
This is a great way of phrasing the concern! I’m both depressed and sensitive to criticism but if my husband approached me in this way I would have an easier time with it.
No matter how you phrase it, anyone would feel embarrassed having this convo but I think this is the best you can get.
He told you he won't have pets. You are not the brightest bulb, huh?
You don’t need to like dogs, similarly you don’t need to like anything.
I mean. It is assault. If a man did this to a woman and then “Just wait, it feels really good”, everyone would be up in arms. You did not consent to that happening. It made you very uncomfortable.
Did you finally get her to stop so you could put the condom on? Or did you just stop altogether because you were so uncomfortable with the situation?
I mean. It is assault. If a man did this to a woman and then “Just wait, it feels really good”, everyone would be up in arms. You did not consent to that happening. It made you very uncomfortable.
Did you finally get her to stop so you could put the condom on? Or did you just stop altogether because you were so uncomfortable with the situation?
At 5’ 4” and 145, you are not even slightly “big”. If you weighed 35 lbs less when you met him you were likely bordering on being underweight. Your size has nothing to do with your migraines OR your snoring. Your husband is a jerk.
I have communicated that the situation doesn't work for me. But it caused her to have a panic attack. To be honest, it's very difficult to prioritize anything that hurts her. But I think what you've said is the correct course of action.
Lmao hope you’re joking. This was 10 years ago, when I was 20 years old.
On the flip side you can have those emotions because you might want to get back with that person one day. I think everyone is just being overly sensitive to her side and thinking she can’t be in the wrong at all. If she got annoyed or angry I would agree but to really start crying etc. That’s is a massive red flag. Maybe she isn’t into him but she is emotionally immature then to still be hung up on why wasn’t I good enough years later.
If he’s not trying to dictate the time, then it sounds like he is just trying to do a nice small thing for you. Sounds like you found a winner!
Makes me mad I can't see all the comments, it only shows me the first 2
Girl, if he breaks up with you because he couldn't handle being told he needs to fix his stinky feet, then let him go. You can't protect him from participating in a world where other people exist and have opinions about how he affects them. Nor should you.
He will eventually learn that nobody wants to date Mr. Stink.
No it wouldn’t. I think most straight women would not want their male partner to have a vagina. Typically straight people aren’t attracted to the same sexual organs as themselves.
You should leave. Settling because you're in a bad place will hurt both of you in the long run.
Does she go silent with everyone or just you? For some people, vacation means vacation from everyone and everything, and that might be what she needs in order to completely relax.
I guess my question is, why are you friends with a sociopath?
You have two options here.
Tell him your boundaries stand firm and if someone else can cause him to want to end things, he was never invested in the relationship himself. He will either respect your boundaries or leave.
You leave him. Tell him you won't come second in a relationship to anyone.
He is calling you controlling to make you feel like a normal boundary is crazy. That's manipulative and cruel to someone you supposedly love. He is 7 years older than you pining after a woman who is in a relationship. He finds it funny he makes her current bf uncomfortable. That doesn't seem like a red flag to you? Him taunting another man with his “friendship” with his gf seems like a red flag to me. You deserve better than a man who wants for something else.
A month is nowhere long enough to really change. Just leave things as they are.
Your aloud too feel hurt because he did hide it from you and it’s wrong of him to hide it from you
He hid it from you because he was afraid too lose you People walk away from you, people end relationships when you tell them
Worst of all no one thinks you can be faithful like people see bisexual and instantly think is always horny will fuck anything as soon as
This is exactly why I always recommend living with someone prior to getting engaged/married. The person you see on dates/ sleepovers may well not be the same person who you on-line with.
If it is new then there may be a small adjustment period and maybe some residual stress, but if you think you are actually seeing the real him for the first time then it is probably a sign of incompatibility.
Keep in mind that he is having the same experience living with you for the first time and may have discovered some things about you that he didn’t realise and doesn’t like, which are leading to the poor attitude and behaviour. Doesn’t excuse it and the result is the same however.
Treat this time as a test of your compatibility and if it isn’t good enough, act on it. This is exactly why we date in the first place, but too many of us have ignored and tolerated the small but obvious issues that only get worse over time and lead to the same result, just in a much more difficult way.
If it is a big enough issue that you are on reddit asking for advice, it is not a small issue, unless you genuinely believe it is out of character and temporary. Be wary with that line of thought though because temporary very easily morphs into permanent.
When I split from my ex, I promised myself to never cohabit with anyone ever again. I've since come to realise that it was him and me together that was the problem, not just the fact that we were cohabiting. That said, my current bf and I have been together for 7+ years, and we still on-line apart. It's great to have your own space, and then to meet up because you both choose to make time for each other, rather than being forced upon each other because neither of you can afford to move away, or you're both so ground down by routine that you can't think clearly any more.
Why did she get drunk and miss the last train? She has money to get drunk but not to take an Uber?
I understand this , certainly from the fathers perspective , having experienced a similar event with my second child. (Partial , abruptio placentae). He is in pain, he is worried about OP. She is adrift in a sea of misery. His concern and pain are being expressed as anger. He’s not really angry about the texts. He is worried she won’t be there when he gets home ( self harm). My wife shut down totally, for most of a year. I continued to work and care for my daughter f2 during this time. I didn’t have time to grieve. On the good side , I have an exceptionally close relationship with my oldest child as a result.
She is moving on , shrme is not ready for love but she ready for tinder.
If she’s going on an overnight trip with you then she already likes you. There’s no pressure. So make a move and try to kiss her at some point. Try and figure out a situation where you can sit on a couch together or something and then lean in when it feels right
I dont know what I am doing and why am I not breaking up…
You already know the answer to this.
but what if i still love him lol