Yup gg. People with BPD who don't treat it, are a danger to society. Unfortunately they have little to no control over when they have a manic episode. The problem is you can only ever blame the disease not the person potentially being manipulative.
It is a horrible disease even for those who do successfully manage to online a full life with it.
Update: Thanks for the kick in the pants guys, I needed it. Today I expressed to him how I felt pressured and he was extremely offended. Said I’m an adult, I could have said yes or no, and that I needed to own up to my actions. He said he wanted to break up so I blocked him on everything and had a glass of rosé. I stayed with him for so long because I really liked him, but also because I felt like I’d never amount to anything without him since he’s so successful/smart and he promised to take care of me. But at least now I don’t have to be miserable. I’ll find my way on my own.
Yup gg. People with BPD who don't treat it, are a danger to society. Unfortunately they have little to no control over when they have a manic episode. The problem is you can only ever blame the disease not the person potentially being manipulative.
It is a horrible disease even for those who do successfully manage to online a full life with it.
Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Communication is a huge aspect of a healthy relationship.
If you're going to break up with him, then don't waste your breath, but if you're on the fence you should sit down and have a discussion about it
Update: Thanks for the kick in the pants guys, I needed it. Today I expressed to him how I felt pressured and he was extremely offended. Said I’m an adult, I could have said yes or no, and that I needed to own up to my actions. He said he wanted to break up so I blocked him on everything and had a glass of rosé. I stayed with him for so long because I really liked him, but also because I felt like I’d never amount to anything without him since he’s so successful/smart and he promised to take care of me. But at least now I don’t have to be miserable. I’ll find my way on my own.