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Yeah chances are they will realize it and think you guys have just bought the same rug. Especially if you’ve cleaned it and it looks different
All childish games. Decide if you want to grow up or not and end these games.
All childish games. Decide if you want to grow up or not and end these games.
All childish games. Decide if you want to grow up or not and end these games.
Why? What’s wrong about what they’re doing? I understand that the rule is there for things to not get unethical, but there is nothing unethical going on right now. There is just a woman threatening their partner to ruin their friends life for a nothing burger. That’s what’s irrational, and I’d even say unethical.
How many of them had a history of cheating going in?
Nah she’s well studied. She’s a systems therapist by training. Her work is studied at masters level programs in my country.
Either way if I could be bothered I could find plenty of other more academic references for ya, it’s simply not correct to say couples therapists recommend zero contact with exes.
You have very bad relationship issues and need to seek relationship counselling or stick to your guns and call it
Honestly, many small things always feel more fun to receive than one bigger thing. Look for things like Lindt Truffles (my go-to), Powerade or electrolyte drinks, Bland(ish) snacks like OG Pringles or pretzels (less nasty to puke back up than BBQ Lays if she gets nauseous lmao), some Midol or Advil if she needs pain relief, a pair of cute fuzzy fluffy socks, a small bottle of bubble bath or a small bath bomb, a little activity like a cute coloring book & crayons (highly recommend, get Lisa Frank to quell any PMS nostalgia feels + get bonus points), something practical like more tampons or pads, bobby pins or ponytails (can never have too many), a stuffed plushie of her/your favorite animal, and a sweet, handwritten note. Literally ALL of that can be found in a Dollar Tree, along with baskets to hold all the stuff. It’s be cute to write her a little survey of how she liked each item so she can “review” your period package service AND you’ll get insight for what to get next time. Mention in the note that you asked the court of public option for ideas to find the best ones. It’s really cute how much you want to get this right! As long as you don’t fill a box with shitty, generic chocolate, a bunch of Midol, a stack of Depend diapers, and call it a day- she’ll find the effort and thought you put into the gift to be the best part of it. Sorry for the long reply, but the saying “If he wanted to, he would” gets said when guys can’t/won’t do the bare minimum acts of service their partners desire. You wanted to, you did, AND you did your research! That alone makes you a better partner than a good chunk of em!
Turning implies present tense. It should be has turned and you should stop being in denial. Its not ok and it will get worse.
The problem is really, you’re not ready to move out from your moms. If you were, you would already be doing that. She’s over bearing absolutely she has issues absolutely. But it is never OK for someone to go into her house and start talking to her like that either. But we both know these are not the real issues are they
You need to get your life in order so that you can move out as quickly as possible and it should’ve probably already been going on. The fully developed part as an adult. It is time for you to take responsibility and get a place of your own, or move in with your boyfriend. It is not OK for him to come your mother’s house and stand up for you like a child. So just do that it will resolve the overbearing mother part and it will bring a whole bunch of new set of issues.
I have worked in the domestic violence field for years, and just as I have seen male survivors be disbelieved and jailed as the “aggressor,” I have also seen women who were strangled, tortured, and beaten within an inch of their lives by their male partner be jailed in his place.
Then you admit to being part of the problem. My kid's mom literally threatened to murder our then 8 month old child and myself with a .38 her dad had given her for self-defense. I called all over this town and the ONLY domestic violence agencies that would even talk to me told me that there ZERO resources for fathers and children, only mothers and children, and that they had counseling programs for men to teach us how to control our anger. Excuse me? Control MY anger? I had to laugh because I had been controlling my anger, the ex even later testified in court that I never even yelled at her, much less raised a hand to her, after recordings came out showing she had outright lied about incidents where she had previously claimed I was an aggressor.
So yeah, you're the problem. You're a GIANT problem, women commit HALF of domestic violence and are more likely to use a weapon than a man, yet only make up 3% of domestic violence convictions. And leaving children with these violent women are how you end up with dead kids. Stats show that the individual most likely to KILL a child is that child's own mother. I have to wonder how many children your “help” has caused to be left with an abusive mother.
Oh yeah, my mom literally broke bones in my body and never faced a single consequence, not even a harsh word.
This is all hypothetical, I’m not a professional or speculating on any definitive diagnosis he has or doesn’t have, just opining on what information you have provided.
Even if one is able to consciously suppress the physical manifestations of OCD for a period of time, that doesn’t necessarily mean that the intrusive/distorted thought patterns that may have led to the original behaviors are automatically suppressed. That’s where time, treatment, and effort come in.
My concern in your shoes would be the potential for future cycles, and I might consider a refusal to seek mental and physical health treatment to identify triggers and gain tools to both prevent and prepare for the event of any potential future episodes (based on this seeming to be at least the second major behavioral shift you’ve experienced with him) a dealbreaker.
Enjoy your freedom!
Then she doesn't want a relationship. You do right? U don't want to just be a hookup and have her also see other men?
If thats the case u two just want different things and are better off not pursuing each other.
And that is your fiancé. You are not even married yet. It will get worse than this, and as hot as it is, run now, while you don’t have kids together. That is abuse and he is not treating you with respect. You should feel at peace at home, it should be your safe space and shelter and happy place, not a place where you are dreading going to. I am telling you this, experienced the same things myself. It does get better. You are not alone. Just have a little faith and courage, follow your heart and don’t let people walk over you like that. Good luck!
This guy is a whole field of red flags. Still referring to his ex as his “future” is super weird. He’s not over her and needs to spend some time figuring himself out before jumping into a serious relationship. And absolutely under no circumstances should you move into that house. He and his mom have an unhealthy dynamic and you don’t need that. Why are you two in such a rush to move in? You’ve only been dating 6 months. Just get your own apartment and take things slow, revisit it in a year. It kinda sounds like he was expecting to get married and then that relationship fell through and he’s just speeding up this relationship to meet that goal. Just take a step back and figure out if your lives are compatible before making any big decisions
Well I don’t think tinder is the issue here , a lot of couples meet on tinder nowadays..
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I feel like an idiot writing this but I am jealous of a dog (!).
Basically my boyfriend (29m) and me (27f) have been together for 6 months. We online about an hour and half away from each other so only see each other currently at weekends.
He has a dog, a Pomeranian, that he adores. To be honest I like dogs as well. But I feel like this dog is ruining our relationship.
This dog comes everywhere with him and a consideration has to be made when we go out about whether the places we’re going are dog friendly or not.
We never get any space from the dog. It follows him by his feet EVERYWHERE. It sleeps in his bed. When we hold hands it actually comes over to break our hands up so my bf can stroke it. One time we were having sex and it kept jumping on us trying to interfere. It also tries to eat food off the table and one time I cooked myself an omelette, went over to get some pepper and it had jumped on the table and snaffled half of it.
My bf treats it like it can do no wrong though and that I am a jealous crazy person for feeling this way.
If I am please tell me as I genuinely don’t think I can carry on this relationship with this dog involved.
EDIT: Thanks everyone for your advice, it was really helpful and mostly good to know I’m not a jealous crazy person. I spoke to my bf this afternoon about it and he wouldn’t budge on anything. He said the dog is the only thing that has ever shown him unconditional love and he wouldn’t give that up for anyone. I (sort of) get it because human love is conditional and a dog’s isn’t. I think like many of you suggested he needs to find someone just as into dogs as him. I do like dogs! I just don’t want one that takes over my life in every aspect and comes everywhere with me. Anyway long story short we broke up. He is blowing up my phone saying he can change but at this point I’m kind of over it. I don’t really want to make him change as he got super sad over the thought of not having his dog with him all the time. Anyway thanks everyone for your advice. I think when the dust settles he’ll realise it’s for the best and we can move on with more compatible people in the future.