It’s him, not you. I had a partner like this too, telling me my boundaries around sex (also due to sex related trauma) meant I didn’t love him enough. He wanted to do it his way and not doing that meant I was just being controlling. But I tell you- there are guys out there who won’t do that. This is someone who does not have empathy. Take it from me who only learned years later that it will never change.
That’s so true ok I’m going to be like; hey I like you a lot I understand you might be going through a lot but I need are communication to improve and I really want to be with you.
It’s him, not you. I had a partner like this too, telling me my boundaries around sex (also due to sex related trauma) meant I didn’t love him enough. He wanted to do it his way and not doing that meant I was just being controlling. But I tell you- there are guys out there who won’t do that. This is someone who does not have empathy. Take it from me who only learned years later that it will never change.
That’s so true ok I’m going to be like; hey I like you a lot I understand you might be going through a lot but I need are communication to improve and I really want to be with you.