Strangulation is the #1 sign that an abusive relationship with turn deadly. He has clearly demonstrated his ability and his willingness to kill you. The fact that it took a few drinks to release those desires means nothing.
I’m not sure this is real, but really it’s a surprise to you? You have an open marriage, and you were ok with them doing drugs alone together, yeah that’s not going to lead to something happening ??♀️. I’m thinking something more than cuddling happened, and maybe someone in your friend group was going to tell you what they know, so your wife decided to tell the “truth”.Plus it sounds like you want out of the marriage anyway. You care more about the friend group, then your marriage, so just end it and move on. You might end up losing some, or all of the friend group in the progress, but thats just how it goes sometimes. I feel bad for J’s new wife, she’s recently married and her husband is already cheating. And she’s mixed up in this friend group, that doesn’t seem to have much respect for her.
This is dumb. If you're constantly breaking up and getting back together what's the point of being in a relationship?
Are you in therapy? On your own?
Strangulation is the #1 sign that an abusive relationship with turn deadly. He has clearly demonstrated his ability and his willingness to kill you. The fact that it took a few drinks to release those desires means nothing.
I’m not sure this is real, but really it’s a surprise to you? You have an open marriage, and you were ok with them doing drugs alone together, yeah that’s not going to lead to something happening ??♀️. I’m thinking something more than cuddling happened, and maybe someone in your friend group was going to tell you what they know, so your wife decided to tell the “truth”.Plus it sounds like you want out of the marriage anyway. You care more about the friend group, then your marriage, so just end it and move on. You might end up losing some, or all of the friend group in the progress, but thats just how it goes sometimes. I feel bad for J’s new wife, she’s recently married and her husband is already cheating. And she’s mixed up in this friend group, that doesn’t seem to have much respect for her.