She's blaming you (blaming the relationship) which makes her thought process high risk to eventually cheat with him or someone else next year.
You are in the same relationship- but you didn't reach out to another woman.
She crossed serious boundaries complaining about you over a period of time to convert a work relationship to a personal connection that threatens you.
Fortunately you don't have kids with her so you are not stuck.
Definitely notify his wife (don't warn your GF).
He backed off temporarily because your GF felt guilty. However, feelings don't turn off like a switch. In time they'll reconnect.
Surveys find couples break up for a loss of trust as often as infidelity.
Dating is a test run. This should be the easy stage. If she was reaching out to another man because she's unhappy with you, she failed the life partner test.
Find a partner that is a better match. Don't drag kids into this.
OP: Listen to this. You need to establish a very hot boundary, with consequences.
It will create an awkward situation at first for sure, but it will pay off. If you're not used to sticking up for yourself, people will usually react badly as it will change the relationship dynamic to where they're no longer a clear superior to you.
But, people realise you're not fucking around when you deliver on consequences. Multiple times in the past people have pushed my buttons, I've told them to stop and when they didn't, I immediately stopped talking to them. I left group chats, discord groups, and just told them I'm not going to sit there and take shit. For weeks, sometimes even months. They eventually realise you were serious and come crawling back to apologise.
There is basically nothing in life you can't drop if you need to. Family included. Don't waste your time on people who don't respect you, who care more for enigmatic strangers than a loved one's feelings. And do not let yourself be manipulated by this cunt. How do you deal with a tumour? You cut it out of body, and you take measures to make sure it doesn't return.
The important thing is you stick to your guns. You have to deliver on your promise. Explain your position. Explain your boundaries. Explain the consequences for breaking those boundaries. Explain that cutting her out of your life would be the only way to regain your trust if they break it. Follow through on consequences or they will repeatedly take the piss.
Your dad is not worthy of respect. Tell him you guys broke up, let him pay for your education, and then go no contact when you graduate. It’s what he deserves.
She's 25yo so don't make excuses for her.
She's blaming you (blaming the relationship) which makes her thought process high risk to eventually cheat with him or someone else next year.
You are in the same relationship- but you didn't reach out to another woman.
She crossed serious boundaries complaining about you over a period of time to convert a work relationship to a personal connection that threatens you.
Fortunately you don't have kids with her so you are not stuck.
Definitely notify his wife (don't warn your GF).
He backed off temporarily because your GF felt guilty. However, feelings don't turn off like a switch. In time they'll reconnect.
Surveys find couples break up for a loss of trust as often as infidelity.
Dating is a test run. This should be the easy stage. If she was reaching out to another man because she's unhappy with you, she failed the life partner test.
Find a partner that is a better match. Don't drag kids into this.
OP: Listen to this. You need to establish a very hot boundary, with consequences.
It will create an awkward situation at first for sure, but it will pay off. If you're not used to sticking up for yourself, people will usually react badly as it will change the relationship dynamic to where they're no longer a clear superior to you.
But, people realise you're not fucking around when you deliver on consequences. Multiple times in the past people have pushed my buttons, I've told them to stop and when they didn't, I immediately stopped talking to them. I left group chats, discord groups, and just told them I'm not going to sit there and take shit. For weeks, sometimes even months. They eventually realise you were serious and come crawling back to apologise.
There is basically nothing in life you can't drop if you need to. Family included. Don't waste your time on people who don't respect you, who care more for enigmatic strangers than a loved one's feelings. And do not let yourself be manipulated by this cunt. How do you deal with a tumour? You cut it out of body, and you take measures to make sure it doesn't return.
The important thing is you stick to your guns. You have to deliver on your promise. Explain your position. Explain your boundaries. Explain the consequences for breaking those boundaries. Explain that cutting her out of your life would be the only way to regain your trust if they break it. Follow through on consequences or they will repeatedly take the piss.
Your dad is not worthy of respect. Tell him you guys broke up, let him pay for your education, and then go no contact when you graduate. It’s what he deserves.
Honestly, might not seem like it yet – but major bullet dodged. This woman is definitely off