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Date: October 26, 2022
Yah … your partner’s middle name is “Ridiculous.” Time for you to keep the cats and get a new boyfriend who’s cat friendly.
If you really trust him it shouldnt be a problem to be around people having sex because he wouldnt do anything. It might cross boundaries but you would still know he didnt do anything. But YOU dont trust him. Thats why you hop on reddit to have strangers jump on the distrust train. Nobody here knows you or your partner or your history. The fact you are suggesting midnight curfew and you are snooping around on his phone and finances shows a great level of distrust. On that I as a partner would never tolerate.
He sounds like he is immature. He lies about where he is going, says he will change. Sorry, but he is who he is. If you go into a relationship trying to change someone, you will end up disappointed.
You aren't some old nag for asking him to be honest with you. He is the problem with his lies and behavior.
Just save yourself wasted time and break up. This is irrational and a major red flag – things will get crazier. Don't be that person who sits down one day and realizes they lost their best years to the worst situation.
The fact that she has 2 kids and doesn't know how to interact with a baby is VERY alarming IMO. That makes yiir story way worse.
I mean everybody stated the obvious already. Have private conversations in private. So dumb to even want to have a serious conversation with somebody while their on the phone muted or otherwise. There’s nothing you can do at this point and I’m scared to give you advice because you would most likely exercise it in the middle of mass or an office party or something ridiculous like that.
Was that a typo in the title, and you meant ex-bf?
Be honest. You just want a boys night to catch up.
Can you specify his behavior? Alot of people jump the gun on him without knowing anything.
If his supposed misogyny is jokes,he is not misogynistic. If he wants a wife who cookes and cleans he is not misogynistic. If he holds open the door for you he is not misogynistic.
I've had some really odd things happen on my phone.. nanny cams would probably be a better bet.?
I’m 27 female. He was my first boyfriend as men have only ever wanted me for sex, and then ghosted me. I feel like something must be wrong with me, I always wanted a boyfriend and set out to be my focus to find one for the last 5 years. And then I put so much effort into this one.
Now every guy around me seem to be the leftovers, they are really creepy and inappropriate and socially awkward. Not my type. I’m very confident and charismatic and need the charisma and confidence in a man other wise I don’t get turned on. I tried sleeping with men who didn’t have this and I had to tell them to stop mid sex and I felt disgusted
If I was cheating I wouldn’t want my wife meeting my girlfriend either.
IMO, it takes awhile to find a good rhythm and go tos with a new partner. It’s less like a puzzle piece fitting perfectly the first time right out of the box and more like having half of the pieces look like sky so you are jabbing random blue pieces together until one finally fits, and then once you know that piece fits, you can start slowly working on the whole picture.
I’ve had ‘smaller’ partners who I enjoyed sex with. For the feeling, I preferred more ‘rough’ sex where there was a lot more aggressive thrusting. You could try that.
As long as you tell her that you want to improve for her, and that you are looking for open communication and open mindedness in the bedroom, then things should improve
She's 27 now? 28?
In general, Men value purity and don't want a woman with a high body count.
Lay out your priorities and expectations in a partner and ask where he stands. If he keeps waffling, then that's the end.
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Also “shitty advice from women on reddit”
Weirdly sexist take, too.
you literally do. genuinely. you need to grow some balls and set boundaries with your parents or cut them off. you cannot let them meddle in your relationships and the life of your partners. that is absolutely not okay and your future relationships will never survive if you continue allowing this behavior.
Right? Gee I wonder why OP went from “maybe kids” to “nope definitely no kids” over the course of this relationship. Homeboy could put a Duggar off the concept.
Don’t stick your pickle in crazy
Hahaha ikr…. I was waiting for the father and nothing happened
This is about control. They are upset that they not only lost control of you but that you stand up to them as well. They are sulking. Let them sulk. If they can’t be proud of you and the life you’ve chosen to on-line for yourself, let them be miserable in silence
It's over, separate and move far far far far far far far far far far far far far far far away.
This gives me “if I can't have you, nobody will” vibes.
Be politic, arrange and go separate ways.
I suspect that won't work, so get the hell outta Dodge.
It is 100% real and I don't know how to handle this it's not even like a rodent it's like a dog
Sorry. But glad to hear she still thinks of me.
She’s put on significant weight in 2 years. Do you notice her eating more; eating more junk; drinking more alcohol; getting significantly less sleep; stopping regular exercise?
If there’s no logical explanation for her weight gain, she needs to keep going to doctors until she figures it out.
If, on the other hand, it’s really clear that she’s eating fast food, drinking a lot, and has stopped exercising, then it’s fair for you to try to help her.
You don’t need to tell her she’s not as attractive as she was: she knows. She’s self conscious about her body; she tries to avoid eating in front of you; you exercise together.
You mention that she’s being treated for anxiety. It’s possible that she binge eats at work. If this is the case, there’s medication that can help.
You’re currently doing all the right things. You can talk to her about what she thinks is going on bc the weight gain is negatively affecting so much of her life.
Frame your conversation as concern for her mental (not physical) well-being, and really don’t bring your attraction into it.
Play the long game. No confrontation. The relationship is over. Set them up. Most bussineses have no relationship policies. When your ready to go inform their hr. Start saving in a seperate acc. Get the dna test. Then leave and dont look back.
I don’t think it’s wrong to not want to rip ass in front of your partner. Obviously it happens but me personally I don’t intentionally fart or burp loudly near my wife because it’s kind of a turn off. I’d be super turned off if she was intentionally farting obnoxiously all the time haha.
You are too young to get married. Wait until you are both at least 25 years old before you even consider getting married. I would like you been together for five years and lived together for over three, which is definitely a good thing. However, statistically speaking, you will vastly improve the chances of your marriage surviving if you wait another couple years before tying the knot.
If you are right for each other now, then you’ll be right for each other in two years. There is no rush. I do think however, that you should talk to him about whether he at least wants to get married eventually. He doesn’t see marriage with you in his future at all, then you should reconsider this relationship if marriage is important to you. But if he does want to get married to you, simply not quite yet, I think that’s worth waiting for. Good luck to both of you.
Yeah, she knows. Four weeks after she broke the news I suggested marriage councelling and she was not impressed. I told the marriage councellor who told me that both need to be willing. So I dropped that idead. My wife knows I love her and that I am hopeful. She however says, she’s given up and is unable to change how she feels. I get that and it’s on me to invest to even have a chance. I’ve also come to realize that there’s no silver bullet and I’ll need to figure this one out myself in the end. Maybe it’s just my narrow view of the world, but I feel that if she truly hated me – which she says she does not – things would be horribly different. That gives me hope.
You check her location? There is more happening here then a gpa being wrong. You having to check her daily gps on Google is only the start of the issues. You can’t stop her from cheating. If you don’t believe she's faithful then leave for the both of your mental health.
she really needed help with rent and food so I would always help her no questions asked
Maybe she used you for this?
It's very hot to say. Are you currently getting zero communication from her?
This does not answer the question. 3 weeks and she met your kid? WTF dude?
Updateme!
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I 27F have been with Eric 32M since college. We have a house together in the middle of nowhere texas.
For the most part, we’re sexually active and we have sex almost every day. The problem is that he’s not able to come or stay very hot during real sex unless it’s the back door. The back door is extremely painful and I’ve gotten a UTI once before because of it and at that point I said no more of this. It’s been 4 years since then and sex was normal. It was until he complained that he wasn’t able to finish since the start of our relationship, and I was getting too loose too fast. He got mad and told me how fed up he was. He said it was like going in the hallway. I’ve tried everything possible to try to fix it. I’ve tried kegels, tightening creams, even made an appointment to the doctor.
He has continued to pressure me into going the other way and at one point did it without my knowledge and I didn’t notice until it hurt. I had to scream at him to stop. He told me to get tighter so he wouldn’t have to go the other way.
A week later I’m showing symptoms reminiscent to the last UTI I had. Now I have to see a doctor. I’m both sad and pissed.
Is there any way to fix this so he doesn’t do this anymore?
TL:DR He said I wasn’t tight and went the other way and gave me a UTI.
Yes indeed, and we've seen enough stories here of people doing the ethically and morally correct thing, because Reddit said so, and having their lives ruined because of it.
Selling a gift for booze money ? If she doesn't understand it how can you explain it to her ? If I gifted a car to a girl and she sold it for money that would be an immediate deal braker and probably even a lawsuit ?
No incentive for her to change if she knows you’ll come crawling back to her in under three hours.
Regardless of whether he is emotionally abusing you or not, he is gaslighting you and being a worthless partner. Your life will improve dramatically when you dump him. Si his reaction to being told you feel emotionally abused is to check out of the relationship?
No, this guy doesn't give a shit about you or the relationship. Fuck that. You deserve better.
Why are you letting your dad dictate so much of your life? He sounds like a controlling bully and you'd probably benefit from allowing him less influence over you.
Well, While I get where do you come from ( as I have never got involved with anyone too drunk to consent, nerver ever, no matter how the girl in question tried to ), dont you find the concept that they both assaulted each other… at least a bit weird? So both shuld go to gail or get charges pressed or whatever it should be done? I dont think this is a black or white situation, there are gray areas in between adn the situation cant be addressed that simply.
This question is far too low. After a hysterectomy hormone levels are the most common reason for lack of libido
You should absolutely leave her alone. She broke up with you for violating her trust and space and you’re asking if you should continue to do that by not respecting her ending the relationship.
You are just 19 ~ just break up and on-line your life lmao
I’m so glad you said this!!! I’ve been feeling this a lot and noticing it more recently that most of my friends are single and will just tell me to be young and dumb and single too! My closest friends are amazing friends with my boyfriend so they definitely give me different advice but my outsider friends who don’t know him or our relationship as a whole very well usually just tell me to break it off! Great advice!!
In my 40’s. It’s happened exactly once, I immediately knew, and immediately stopped at “just the tip.” Anybody that makes full penetration and says it’s an accident is lying.
ffs I just hope you are a troll
Like wtf? you just wanna get triggered?
Okay for the slow people:
I'm living alone. I'm single. I just stated how I do my laundry and at what point for what reasons I check my pockets I wanted to pitch in FOR OP ASKING how or when other people check their pockets
Sis – lets flip this. You are reluctant to burst his bubble but the fact is your husband is actively manipulating you and your housemate into doing something you have specifically said you do not want to do.
His behavior is INCREDIBLY disrespectful of you, your marriage vows and his friend. His behavior is incredibly selfish and potentially dangerous to you.
I'm sorry Sis, but him pressuring you and trying to orchestrate this whole liason behind the scenes when you have explicitly said no, that is WRONG on every level. Like, in my book, divorce grounds.
Please value yourself enough to put a VERY HOT stop to this and leave while you figure out if you want to stay with a man who is this manipulative and disrespectful to your boundaries and feelings.
Sis, let me put it this way – it could be something as simple as oral sex. If a partner says NO, it means NO. It doesn't mean brow beat them into it and then try to manipulate them into a situation where they can't say no. If a partner says no, it means no.
Your busband is bad news.
He’s being unreasonable and you’re enabling him. Box up all his games and throw them in there and see how he reacts.
Perfect example of why you don’t marry someone just because you love each other.
Loving anyone doesn’t mean you will work together in life perfectly. Perhaps you should’ve given it another year.
What you need to realize right now is, the time you’ve put into this person and the marriage does not equate to you having to be miserable. Because I hate to tell you, it’s not getting any better. For him, this is a pattern that he doesn’t have to change because he has done the same thing four times over now. For you, this was your second times a charm hoping that this would go much better than your last, which is totally understandable. But you need to remember that energy and feel that right now, you still deserve to be happy. Leave him. Because he will not change.
Being aware you're really known and then someone being attracted to you matters.
Someone being attracted to how I look when they don't really know me doesn't do anything to turn me on. If you don't know me, you don't know what makes me feel safe and valued. I might as well be on a screen and an object.
Also hydration matters.
OP said that early in the relationship they discussed sexual pasts. That was her opportunity to fess up that she slept with some of her male friends. She didn't have to get into specifics but it's common courtesy to tell him if you're going to still hang out with these men.
Yep, he got comfortable. He let his true self out. Recommendation- move on. You got married way too young anyways. Like your brain doesn’t even stop growing till you’re 25. Go out have fun. There are better fish in the sea.
Why do you want to leave your parents place?
Mosque*
Hope you limbered up for that stretch.
Hey it's not flirting texts, I'm so sorry for the confusion i play chess and video games that's the topic of the conversation i should've clarified this more. I use Omegle when men knew that I'm male they skip me so most of the time i talk with girls i don't have any bad intention but Omegle has very bad reputation so she told me not to use it. Which i agreed not to use but i still do, (so i think it's my mistake I'm sorry for not including this on the post i thought it's irrelevant )
Great, except forget the waffling, as in, “I am not sure I can be friends with someone…”
Change it to, “I will not be friends with someone…”
Then cut that toxic ex-friend out of your life!
If he chooses to not give you a reason, he has a reason but knows he is in the wrong here. shutting down and hiding his real reason is unacceptable. You at the very least deserve to know why
If he is not willing to talk to you about this, than maybe its time you to to protect yourself and get a lawyer. Give him more than he asks for. Divorce him and move on.
Well it would be nice if they apologize, and they may still do that at some point. But even if they do not, just let this go. If your wife decides she wants nothing to do with them because of this, it will very likely impact your friendship with your two friends.
People can be disappointing some times. It's not always necessary to cut people out of our lives because of it. Sometimes we just show some grace and move on, while at the same time deciding we do not have to invest so much in that friendship anymore.
I think you mean your ex boyfriend.
From USA living in a big city and he claims to be Christian but I doubt it at this point