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I did a bit of a deep dive into your post history, OP, and I don’t think you’re incorrect about what your father’s sigh means.
It appears your GM tried to tuck in your shirt at work by pushing your shirt into your pants with their hand. You reported your GM, who was eventually fired, and you filed a police report for sexual assault. It seems there’s been some gossip and drama at your work around this, and I imagine that’s been hurtful and that you have a strong need to feel heard and understood.
Your father might not agree with you, but he’s not saying anything about it. If a passive aggressive sigh is all it is, maybe you can move on from that. It’s really up to you how this impacts your relationship with your father. Ideally, how would you want him to respond?
I’m not reading all that. Leave her
Put up a spy cam. Don’t tell him. Why? He might have trouble falling asleep if he knows about it. So what if he gets mad about it, this is serious. One of you needs medical help. I have 4 different sleeping disorders, and 3 clinical sleep studies under my belt. It could be either one of you. I can swear I didn’t sleep last night when in fact I got got caught trying to kill the cat. Every frickin night. Been caught. Taking pills. In therapy, blah blah. Take my word for it. Set up a camera.
If it's that much of a “drawback”, why's he dating you?
HAVE HER GET A LAWYER. Write up the contract. The contract must be notarized.
It must stipulate you are severing all parental responsibility including CHILD SUPPORT. NO COLLEGE HELP OR WEDDING HELP FOR THAT CHILD EITHER. NO MEDICAL HELP EITHER. SHE'S ON HER OWN HERE.
YOU must get a lawyer to look it up, make sure ITS IRON CLAD SO IT DOESN'T BITE YOUR ? LATER. Have him/her approve the contract.
No judgement here. But do this intelligently. If in doubt, the insemination can be administered in a doctors office with the contract STILL STIPULATING YOU HAVE SEVERED ALL PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY. THAT SHE IS 100% FINANCIALLY AND EMOTIONALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD.
GET A LAWYER. ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️
Zero tolerance with that behaviour. If you respect your partner you don't talk with your ex anymore, not even to say happy birthday. When my ex tried to contact me i didn't even reply, i automatically block her because i respect my fiance.
Then find out why that bothers you so much. Do you get repulsed by the idea that another dick has been inside your vagina as well? Your view of sex is absurd and your jealousy is out of control. Your relationships aren’t gonna last unless you work on yourself.
*and legal
What kind of garbage is this? Yikes on bikes man.
that's pretty silly
Thank you!
Don’t respond. Doing so might encourage them.
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To be honest, then, it sounds like there really isn’t a lot going on here to be suspicious of.
Of course, you never know for sure. And you’re never going to know for sure, even if you isolate him from every friend he’s ever made. And I know you know that; I’m just making the point that feeling a little uneasy from time to time is probably normal and harmless.
What you want to look out for are signs that they are becoming emotionally entangled. Like, if you guys have a conflict, does he go to her to vent about it? When he comes home stressed at the end of the day, is he talking to you or her? Is he investing energy into you and your future and plans together, or is he pouring it into her?
Because even if you can’t know everything he’s doing or thinking, you can know his behavior around you for sure.
And that is when you never have to speak to the scumbag again.
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Go to therapy dude. You need it. It will help you process all of this.
You’ve missed some truly “wtf did I get myself into” moments that the first few months bring. A lot of parents won’t ever say that, but it’s true. The absolute shock of going from independent adult to newborn parent is staggering to the nth degree. Your life isn’t over but it’s changed forever in fundamental ways that I could list but you wouldn’t realize until it happened and you figure it out. Simply going to the grocery store is more complicated, or cooking at home (the baby is crying? Then someone must attend to him… you’re alone? Get creative, that kinda thing).
Wanting to be a good parent is 75% of the battle. Your caution of not wanting to overwhelm your girlfriend is good, she can split at any time with no legal recompense. Then it’s all you. If she’s even sorta entertaining this, then she must he committed. You’ll both be in situations where it’s a fork in the road of decisions and you’ll start to see how people can become negligent or abusive parents, it’s much easier to be a dirtbag parent. This boy didn’t ask to be born at all, so give him a life that’s worth having.
Good luck!
Remember, each phase of the kid is temporary. It’ll feel like they do things for ages but it was really a few months. Then they’ll never do that silly thing again.
Got a suggestion to give some basics, it hardly covers the situation but I’ll try :
Me and him had a really good thing going on, we were both pretty sure it was endgame as we’ve both been in serious relationships in the past and knew how this “clicked”. Got to know a neighbor in the middle of this year, opposite personalities, she loves to party, is into casual dating and sex (no judgment at all) whereas im more of a homebody, not good with social cues, not fond of clubbing, only drink with close friends, and casual stuff is a no for me (im demi). She introduces me to her ex, we have a drinking plan and they wanna drink in the car at an empty parking lot, it sounds shady so i suggest my place to be safer instead. I’ve drank with her couple times before this, and those times she didn’t do anything shady, and looked out for me. So after im visibly tipsy, she calls another guy over, i am hesitant but she says hes like her brother etc, and im not actively involved in the “party” in the first place, and am just sitting on the couch listening to music and drinking, playing with my dog, so I don’t say anything further.
Ok Ur stepdad is a dick and a traditionalist women are seen not heard as a modern day woman being called an alpha female CAN be a compliment in THIS situation I want you to embrace it and get this through his head. YOU AS THE DAUGHTER ARE THE PRIORITY you are your mother's blood so unless you have literally publicly humiliated this man to where his balls are dangling for the world to see fuck him.
” What ever you and my mother's dynamic is is between you. My relationship with my mother is not going to be hindered becuse you can't get over that I call you out for your behaviour. Don't want me to do it? Treat my mother better” do NOT GO HOME STAY and do NOT behave as if your a guest to your own mother if you do you will set the standard of treatment towards you. If he wants to do the whole my house my rules book a hotel for you and mom and YES she WILL have to choose but make sure she understands she has ONE daughter and her husband IS replaceable YOU are not
At the first year we worked amazing together. After the second years our communication worsened and no matter how much I tried to fix it I just couldn’t
This is good. If you each brought in the other girl secretly on the others proposal, could be a pretty nifty memory for the sisters and essentially get a unique 2 in 1. Could also turn into a gong show of logistics.
I am confused about how this ever came up to start. Also, you stop being attracted to her? Or does she go from being like a 5 to a 3? What do you mean that she's less attractive from different angles? Do you mean that some angles are more flattering than others? If so, why are you framing it like this? Further, you say you don't initiate saying these comments, but do you make faces or act differently? I sure as heck wouldn't have “passionate sex” with someone who felt the need to share things like this. I would actually find it extremely unbecoming.
No I don't agree. There is a lot of trust. If he didn't trust her, he'd be gone already, there is a part of him that wants to believe. Her the same, she would not be here on this sub, if she didn't believe there was a way to solve it. So they both love each other, they both want to be with each other, therefore this could be just a bump in the road. But sure Reddit says everyone must be sad and alone
Do not have another child just so the first one can have a sibling. Siblings don’t always get along and that is a disaster for both of them. And siblings fight a lot even if they are friends. If you want another child for yourself, that is one thing, but stop with your child needs a sibling. Only children statistically do better in life. They have friends in school and in the neighborhood and aren’t lonely. And your wife isn’t coping well with one so you said you would have to have a baby with another woman. So that means you leave her and see your first child occasionally to give them a half sibling that they won’t even live! with. You’re logic is seriously flawed. Get your wife help to deal with her stress and stop thinking of ways to leave her and your child.
You don’t want him to suffer but you are suffering by worrying about him? You obviously cannot prevent him for doing his crimes so step back and let him get caught… that might be the only thing that’ll make him stop. I doubt it but stay outmoded it.
Yeah I already asked about him being with someone else. I def suspect the asexuality. Not the gay only because ive asked him about that too and he denies it and says he 100% prefers women. I wouldnt mind trying to keep the relationship going even if he is asexual as its perfectly healthy. Hes supportive and caring of my emotions, etc etc all the cliche shit. I simply am not getting the physical intimacy i want and feel selfish with my resentment kicking in.
The money spent on living alone would be better used for creating a future for you and your family. Having a child means putting them first. Still, you can regale your child with stories of the blissful sensation you experienced not having to come home to him and his mother. Sure he love to hear that as he gets older.
You’re kind of kidding yourself if you thinks there’s ever a perfect time to have a baby…because while it’s better if you’re financially secure things change. No one can guarantee that they’re going to continue being financially secure, or stay married to their co-parent or even be able to afford their own home if circumstances change and they can change in an instant.
I don’t think you’re wrong in how you feel about this unplanned pregnancy and maybe during previous discussions you were both on the same page but discussing something in theory and then when it’s a reality are two different things.
I feel like if your gf goes through with an abortion she’ll regret and eventually resent you for feeling like she has to make this decision and that’s if your relationship can survive this. On the other hand maybe you’ll resent her if she doesn’t and you become a father before you’re ready. Again most people are never really “ready” when they become parents but the difference is they usually want to be parents even if they’re a bit nervous about it.
Bottom line; if you don’t feel like you’re going to get onboard and be as excited as your gf about this pregnancy and your gf doesn’t really want an abortion than you’re both at an impasse and this relationship is terminal. But a point to consider…if your gf doesn’t get an abortion and u guys break up you’re still going to be a parent – nothings going to change that.
“Babe, no offense, but you smell like Shrek’s swamp”
Nothing is wrong with a “traditional” woman. Remember that equality is about being able to do whatever you want. She wants to do those things so let her. And when she needs you to do something do it.
Op please listen to this! Breaking your possessions on purpose is a really gross abusive thing to do. I love gardening and one of the early red flags I ignored from my abusive ex was destroying my gardening stuff. It went on to me more control of me and my time and isolation from friends and family and then escalated to physical abuse. This is a HUGE red flag.
The only way to get past this is she needs to realize that what she did was abusive and controlling and apologize and work on herself to make sure she doesn’t escalate further- but even then I wouldn’t personally ever let my guard down and be able to stay.
Let’s say for one hypothetical second you were playing too much, and she did want you to do more housework, more time with your child whatever- let’s pretend whatever her justification is is 100% true- even her being right about you needing to step up or whatever more doesn’t justify destroying your possessions in an attempt To control and isolate you! Even if she’s correct- she needs to address that one adult To another with respect. This isn’t respect.
You are sending a big sign to your partner that you aren't ready to invest in a future with your partner. And that's fine – that is where you are. And clearly, she thought you were headed to something serious. But you'll probably break up soon.
Stop thinking about it and focus on the present. No one can help you but you. If she's with you, she wants you. Not them.
So first he’s controlling, inconsiderate, probably toxic as well.
So you should definitely look at leaving him.
And yes, it should not have been an issue for him to take a few seconds out of his time to send you a text to say that he’s still partying, and likely will be very late.
It is not wrong to want updates, or to be worried.
The only thing that you possibly could have done better, was to actually ask him when he was going to be back when he was going out, instead of assuming that he’d be back at a late, but reasonable time as you both had class the next day.
My in-laws and my family make up a great village for us as well. I’m extremely grateful for all they do and how much they truly help us and the time they give. I wish I would have realized that sooner. Thank you
I've known her for almost 4 years so we have quite the history, I care for her and want her to be happy. I've discussed with her that if I were in a relationship that I wouldn't like having an emotional partner and a seperate sexual partner. She and her bf are not quite sure yet on what to do. He experienced those sexual frustrations before but she haven't so that makes her more unsure.. I told her that I'm willing to help but not at the cost of people getting hurt and losing our friendship.
Needing professional help has nothing to do with being 30 and living with your parents.
I don’t want her to think I’m rejecting her because she’s trans
You are not rejecting her because she’s trans, you are rejecting her because you have no romantic attraction for same sex, and when you entered this relationship, it was with a male.
There is no easy way to break up with anyone. But be honest and straight forward about it because kiddie gloves and waffling around can feel patronizing.
That isn't a thing
I think the word “Diss” has a couple different meanings when used in a sentence or situation. It can mean like a roast or it also means to treat someone with disrespect. So like in this case I think I’m getting “dissed” and “ignored” because I’m the only one in my friends group that is dating. If that makes sense??
But yes, I think you’re so right though about the natural drifting apart. My bf had said the same thing where it’s like you start dating, you sort of begin to see who you’re real friends are. It just sucks because it’s like we’ve been friends since like 7th /8th grade and we never ever had boys come between us.
Getting together with them has always been tough, it’s like no one really follows through with plans and either someone cancels last minute or someone “forgets” about it. It’s weird cause they say they want to do stuff like travel etc but then when there’s an opportunity for it, they don’t pursue it like I do and it’s frustrating cause it’s like “uhh u say you want to do it, we have the chance to so what’s the issue?”
I’ll try not to waste any time on it and just let it be. I don’t want it to get to that as these are basically my sisters from a diff mister but damn the way I thought it would be like back then is sooo different compared to how it’s going now. And maybe it’s for the better like you said.
Really appreciate your intake ❤️
So proud of your wife for realizing her worth and doing what is best for her!! This takes so much courage and strength. She is amazing and should be celebrated! I hope she finds this thread and sees how happy everyone is for her! She will find someone who will transform her life for the better!
Cool story, what relationship are you wanting advice on bot?
He needs to make sure you continue looking like a very young girl. No point in dating a woman ten years younger if she can pass as an adult.
No, he is cheating on you. Loyalty, respect and fidelity start way outside of the bedroom.
You can’t approach this without nagging. You don’t trust him. That’s very clear. You can’t handle him going out without you. Truly, that would be the only solution outside of giving him a curfew which is obviously unreasonable. Therefore, he’s not your forever person. Without trust there is no solid relationship. You said it. You are seeing his true colors. Maybe. Maybe not. You do believe he’s going to cheat. Time to move on.
You are the idiot who ignored context so yeah.
Tbh I think he’s just trying to scare you or make you feel guilty or gaslight you into making this your fault. Save the texts. Don’t say anything threatening or incriminating. Save the texts, only text your truth and the way you saw it happen. If he presses charges, get a lawyer.
Yep I was clearly missing the whole picture (rent, bills etc). Makes way more sense now. OP has walked all over her daughter. It feels like she resents the daughter due to relationship with daughters father and blames everything on this. When really, she's just been horribly unfair.
Hopefully OP opens her eyes and actually sees how nude her daughter has been trying. This was just too much for her daughter, and it's very understandable.
You've known him since he was 8 and you were 13. You saw him like a little brother and then 15 years later you slept with him. Do you not see how your friend has a problem with this?
I didn’t realize that I learned that information outside of this post until you asked that question. I’m not sure how to link to it but if you click their profile, it’s there 🙂
He's wrong. Boyfriend and girlfriend and fiance do not have to spend every second together. Not sure what his reasons are. But you're not wrong. You need space and time to yourself. And if he can't respect that, that's a very big red flag . And I would halt your engagement right there and then.
Thanks for the extensive comment, I appreciate it. And for what it's worth, I am doing my best to deal with things in life putting this aspect to the background. I'm ding very well career-wise, socalising when I have time and energy, working on my mental and physical wellbeing, and doing reasonably well on my savings for my “contingency plan”. I hope I haven't given the impression that I'm sat in my room sighing wistfully after a man who's chosen to ignore me 😀
After a great deal of bad experiences I felt like I'd finally found someone worth my time and effort only to be made to feel like I'm not worth theirs. I needed some outside perspective instead of spiralling down various rabbit holes. What you have written is close to what my intentions (and most of my actions) are focused on, I appreciate the affirmation 🙂
let him stay gone. It's not worth it. Lose the dead weight. To be honest expecting instant replies to texts would annoy me more than the other stuff. It's a bad sign.
Demanding and using you, no doubt she has several men on the go like this too.
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