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Date: October 18, 2022
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In what way is something wrong?
Her husband has said the sister staying with them three times in two years of marriage plus however long they dated is reason for divorce. Maybe if these stays are months at a time, but I'm getting the impression of days to maybe a couple weeks. Maybe I'm misreading it. If you have more info, let me know.
You're not the one that threw away a 3 year relationship. He is.
Thank your lucky stars you got your money back.
The problem isn’t because he’s an introvert. The problem is he’s selfish and bit of a jerk.
Unless they start out with giving you feedback on what they'd like (like a “go easy on me” or something) then play your normal chess for the first game and then change or not based on their reaction. Don't be a dick about winning, obviously.
But you'd also be better off trying to arrange the date so that it isn't _just_ chess, if that isn't a big interest of theirs. Be sure there's also something else to do or talk about or eat or drink or _something_ when you do get together.
I don't know why you got downvoted. It's a good reason to do it, and I think it's awesome. And the marriage license is kinda comical in an endearing way.
I'm not sure how long ago that was, or what area. I just know that mine and some others quit acknowledging common law when I was a kid. It was a big topic in the family because of my aunt and uncle.
Honestly neither of you are handling this well. It’s entirely possible he’s being shady but it’s also possible he thought it was going to be just the firefighters or that he wanted to hang out with his friends without you, which is OKAY. You guys should have your own friend groups that you spend time with without the other, that is healthy. He certainly isn’t communicating well if that’s what he’s trying to do, don’t get me wrong, it’s just not automatically “well if he doesn’t want me there it’s because he’s cheating.” (The stuff about the girl on Instagram is BS though)
Also it’s one thing to tell your partner you’re upset and need some time to process, that can be healthy. That’s not what you’re doing though. You’re giving him the silent treatment without explanation, that’s definitely more toxic.
You both sound immature and you both really need to work on your communication. This relationship is going to be miserable otherwise.
To be fair, there was that attack on a furrycon with chlorine gas
This is shitty and in the end comes down to if you can handle thinking about that. Time heals wounds, it sounds like your GF was truly not aware you weren't into it and would have stopped if she had known, so I wouldn't blame her for anything. But sometimes you simply can't get past something, and won't be able to think/look at her the same way. Good luck, give it time, work on yourself. Be there for her too. It's unfortunate to see how opening a relationship/ adding others (threesomes, etc) can fuck things up, sorry man.
Would leaving him now make you look stupid,
Or would staying make you look even stupider?
break up with him. thats really the only advice i can give
thank you! this is the way I looked at it as well. I understand casually dating, but I felt as though after a certain amount of time with someone then there wouldn’t be desire to see someone else. I don’t view dating as shopping in a grocery store, but I guess that’s a minority of thought
Oh. OK. So hes just a coward.
Trust your gut.
See what happens if you want to employ an open phone policy.
Good luck
Sex educator chiming in: There is no correlation between gender and sex drive or desired frequency. Everyone is different.
That said, yours is extremely low. Your boyfriend has a higher sex drive and is more inclined towards physical affection as a priority for giving and receiving love and affection than you are. You two are completely incompatible and absolutely need ti break up or he will always feel neglected and you will always feel pressured sexually. He needs to find someone who has a sex drive closer to his and so do you.
I would also recommend you both look into The 5 Love Languages to see how you prioritize giving and receiving affection and know to look for similar priorities in any potential relationship.
I agreed until the last part. Hot disagree.
Ewwww man, being an almost 40 and going for an 18 year old, just predatory. However u wanna sugarcoat it, what you did was so disgusting, I am embarrassed for your son.
That's true. I guess I am not really good at waiting and want a quick fix… Which sounds like a me problem lol
Then you stay home…
Whilst I understand your intention, this is certainly not the way to do this. I had a friend who was exactly like your gf, and because she studied martial arts, she was incredibly confident in her strength. That is until she was attacked. We all told her to be careful and she didn’t listen. Luckily she was not hurt too badly but it was a horrible experience for her.
I am not sure your gf should forgive you, as you clearly traumatized her. I wonder why you felt the need to take it so far. Give that some serious thought because it is not normal to make a point so harshly.
Ah! Missed that part. Amending my answer.
Break up