The problem is not marriage, but the long-term viability of the relationship. Getting married under these circumstances would definitely compound the problem, but it doesn’t sound like just not getting married is any kind of solution, even regardless of the (imo weird) pressure from OP’s surroundings.
Abort this relationship
The problem is not marriage, but the long-term viability of the relationship. Getting married under these circumstances would definitely compound the problem, but it doesn’t sound like just not getting married is any kind of solution, even regardless of the (imo weird) pressure from OP’s surroundings.
I guess it kind of depends on where you fish.