0 views
Welcome to me!! Send me a lot of love! / PVT open/ I love C2C / Follow me now! [69 tokens remaining]
Date: October 31, 2022
The ad code is not a valid HTML code.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
To be blunt, and I apologize, Break up, that is immature behavior.
I can send you far too many articles showing it. I'm sorry. Alexander grace has many videos. I wish it were different. By numbers, trying to lower a man is the easiest way to make a man datable. Women date up, but also are jealous of men with more power. Statistically, yes. Hitting you is hitting on you. Men peak at 50, women at 18. Women use tactics far better than men. Negging is more used by females. ECT ECT. ECT.
Celebrity crushes are for the most part fine but sometimes people take it a little too far. Yelling “f*** me” in front of your boyfriend is a bit much. Most guys would be at least a little bothered by that. How about just toning it down around him rather than acting like he should be cool with it.
But for glossing over the documented history of her physical abuse, I’d be right there with you. But if she can’t control her body while triggered, that baby is in danger regardless of how empathetic OP gets.
Do some reading about attachment styles and healthy relationships. That will help put your feelings into perspective and give you some clarity on what an equal partnership is supposed to look like.
Dude she belongs to the streets. Time to lawyer up and dump this ho.
Honey, the baby isn’t even here and you’re already saying their relationship is too much. You really think he’s going to spend less time with her once the baby is actually here? Please save yourself the heartache and drama, you’re still so young. Don’t wrap yourself up in this dumpster fire. It will absolutely only get worse from here. He’s not a bad dude or anything. It’s just definitely not a good idea. Your jealousy is going to eat you alive.
Could be that she approached them, and she thinks that doing so would be perceived as going behind her husband’s back, so she tweaked that part of the story?
It’s not as deep as you think it is, or as you want it to be. You’re in a shitty relationship that isn’t meeting your needs.
Hello /u/huhubels1,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
This says more about your incompatibility sexually than it does about getting your BLT.
If my wife did that I’d be all over her. I’m lucky for a leg rub once every six months!!!
What do you do? You divorce his ass. He continuously cheat on you. He tells you you’re the problem. You keep letting it happen, because while you say ’i know what you’re doing’ and ’please stop’ you still stay with him, so he knows you have no backbone and he can keep walking all over you. He also doesn’t do anything in the household, i doubt he is acting like a father too? Why are you with him? He clearly doesn’t love you or has any respect for you.
Great. I tend to overthink things sometimes so I appreciate the perspective!
First off, I’m so sorry you had to endure that, let alone from someone you love and trusted. You both have done some really shitty things to each other, everything points to you not belonging together. But nothing compares to what he has done to you. I understand why you may think you want him back, but you’re better off without him. This vicious toxic cycle isn’t going to ever end, and you will always resent him for what he’s done and rightfully so. If he could do that to you, imagine what else he’s capable of. Please don’t stick around to find out.
Do you really want to get back together with someone who hits you, might be cheating and is incredibly rude to you? A part of me tells me that there might possibly be better people out there than abusive assholes
Nah, he's gotta ask anyone (on reddit) but her about a timeline for marriage. xD
This is child abuse.
How can your parents be ok with this?!
I don’t know the law where you are however where I’m from doing something like that would be completely illegal and going to prison would be the outcome.
As an outsider I view your sisters behavior as despicable, she’s an absolute monster of a human. She drugs kids and then deflects by shaming you, what an actual piece of shit. I can’t imagine how conflicted you must feel as she’s your sibling, I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Please for the safety of your child do not leave her alone with your family members.
I found it weird when I gotta sweater from an old roommate and my now wife wore it. I didn't mention it cause it was 100% in my head as it was mine in her mind, but I knew it wasn't mine so made me a little irked. I can only imagine the oddness of daughters BF.
According to her, they were already fighting and weren’t happily married. A co-worker started saying that they were having lunch together in his truck (I know this isn’t true because she facetimes me almost every day during her lunch break) and that was the final straw to his wife and he supposedly already wanted a divorce for a while so he didn’t try to stop it.
I’m still not sure why she started calling him by his other name but everything else I have pretty much figured out and they weren’t friends and didn’t really talk that much at all before all this started.
You're a fool if you believe his bullshit.
She just played you my dude! Don't go tit for tat but let's see her actions.
36 and…19? Good god. Horrifying.
My partner doesn’t want to be involved in the kids life, he feels no connection because he had no choice and no knowledge of it.
If only that were a legitimate defense in family court… He did have a choice. He chose wrong.
I was about to make an issue about this guy being a possible dead-beat dad and warning you away from him, then I saw this:
If this was an ex partner then I would 100% tell him to be involved in the child’s life. But I think it is unfair to spring a pregnancy on a one night stand
Sounds like you two are a match made in heaven. Carry on.
The 2 of you are co-dependent. And, just because you've been together since you were 14 doesn't mean you have to stay together forever. It is time for you to stop parenting her and make a plan for moving on without her.
It will. I have had the same and my ex is happy with kids now and i am happy without them.
Almost 10 years of IUDs before that happened. For the planned pregnancy, the month it was removed, I got pregnant. So it was working, just nothing is 100% effective. There's always a chance.
It means you dodged a bullet
Wow only six months together and you don't use condoms??? Are you ready for the worst????
You’re all adults, talk to them. They’re probably somewhat shameful due to them hiding their relationship. They seemingly bounded due the the loss of a loved one, a divorce and the fact they work together. This changes your relationship with them but they’re still your parents. Have a adult conversation with them and air your grievances.
This is not the guy for you. His emotional intimacy is with another woman, he's dismissive and disrespectful of you (your feelings are unnecessary? But he wants cuddles!) and he's a liar.
Well. I'm sure everyone would have advised you to break up with someone who blatantly disregards your health, and puts you in danger like that.
I'm so sorry she did that to you. What a disgusting person.
Talk to your physician about what happened. They will know what protocol to follow.
My best friend was not exclusive with a guy, they were dating to get to know eachother. First evening they were going to kiss, he's leaning in and as he's trying to get in her mouth (as she described it) he tells her he's got HPV. Then sticks his tongue down her throat. Vomit!
I can't stand people like this.
I will leave it at this comment : how is a relationship based in a lie any kind of relationship???
The reason for the lie doesn't make the lie any less palatable. THAT'S the truth.
Dark humor and looking at objectively sick shit and finding it funny are two whole different things.
Sounds like she is acting a bit borderline.
Just accept her as an acquaintance. Do not bother more about her. Be kind and polite and not more – be clear on not being with her alone. Just be friendly when you meet – she will not be anything more if you ensure keeping a metre away..
This can't be real ??
Absolutely not. Get him a pair of superhero socks and tell him to dress like an adult for this adult occasion.
You need to do what is best for you.
Nobody wants to take the medicine, but it’s that or screw up your life. Do you understand how your grain processes information? Stores and retrieves memories? The chemical changes when we are stressed? The signs of mental illness, childhood trauma, etc? No? So trust the people that do.
Here's another interpretation of the call. He asks if skanky is going to be there, immediately says no (out of respect to you, no?). The answer as to why not, he's keeping his home (you) happy. This is all good. Skanky isn't controlling anything. He shut it all down immediately. Smile about it and reward your guy.
Glad to hear it. You need to put your son before your new (less than ideal) husband. I wanted to use a stronger term for your new husband, but I don't want to get banned.
Get a psychotherapist.
The amount of times I’ve heard minor girls refer to sexual bdsm terms is staggering (I was an educator). Then they feel bad if they don’t want to be hit/ choked and are shamed for their “vanilla” tendencies. People are so desensitized to this nowadays, so I completely agree.
Thanks for the extensive comment, I appreciate it. And for what it's worth, I am doing my best to deal with things in life putting this aspect to the background. I'm ding very well career-wise, socalising when I have time and energy, working on my mental and physical wellbeing, and doing reasonably well on my savings for my “contingency plan”. I hope I haven't given the impression that I'm sat in my room sighing wistfully after a man who's chosen to ignore me 😀
After a great deal of bad experiences I felt like I'd finally found someone worth my time and effort only to be made to feel like I'm not worth theirs. I needed some outside perspective instead of spiralling down various rabbit holes. What you have written is close to what my intentions (and most of my actions) are focused on, I appreciate the affirmation 🙂