He's lovebombing you and it's working. This AirTag business is a deliberate attempt to prove to you that he's working on fixing himself AND keep track of your location. As soon as he's lured you back into the relationship, the verbal and emotional abuse will start again. Maybe you'll flee again, and he'll come crying to your doorstep, “Baby I'm so sorry, I know I did you wrong, please come back, I love you, you're the only one.” And you'll think, ok, he's got flaws, but he's trying to do better, and the good times are so good. But that's just it. You catch flies with honey, right? Well, Ms. Fly…here's the honey. Sure it seems so sweet and good, but it's tainted to its atoms with arsenic.
Ever wonder why on average abuse victims make seven attempts to leave before they leave for good? This is why. Don't be a statistic. Get out on the first try.
You have to remind yourself constantly that your friends, who are female, are actually still just friends..
“My god, she’s hanging out with me, this must mean.. oh, no, wait, friends hang out, we’re friends, remember. Thanks brain, that was a close call.”
You’re 30, get a grip man.
Another crappy bot.
Your feelings are valid and you should be able to express them. Once is an accident, multiple times it feels like he's avoiding you.
Leave him.
He's lovebombing you and it's working. This AirTag business is a deliberate attempt to prove to you that he's working on fixing himself AND keep track of your location. As soon as he's lured you back into the relationship, the verbal and emotional abuse will start again. Maybe you'll flee again, and he'll come crying to your doorstep, “Baby I'm so sorry, I know I did you wrong, please come back, I love you, you're the only one.” And you'll think, ok, he's got flaws, but he's trying to do better, and the good times are so good. But that's just it. You catch flies with honey, right? Well, Ms. Fly…here's the honey. Sure it seems so sweet and good, but it's tainted to its atoms with arsenic.
Ever wonder why on average abuse victims make seven attempts to leave before they leave for good? This is why. Don't be a statistic. Get out on the first try.
I’m a woman and had the same reaction ? didn’t know this