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Date: October 25, 2022
Helena_Hope, 30 y.o.
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I will lead with your emotions and how you feel towards her are completely valid. She overreacted, didn't believe you and made you miss the birth of your child. The least she can do is change the baby's last name, out you on the birth certificate. It's your child.
While I am a firm believer that hormones only go so far excuse wise, I'm also here to point out that you guys are two vastly different ages (which I hate having to say as it's this subreddits favorite excuse), but you got a woman six years younger than you pregnant, then get pissed when she doesn't know how to emotionally act like a rational adult when she thinks you've been actively cheating on her when she's 9 months pregnant.
You need to go talk to a therapist. Now. This contempt and anger you have for her is going to poison any chance you have with her when it goes away, and intentional or not, will have negative effects on how you interact with your child. You are a father, you have an obligation to that child to fix your shit and get it together before it becomes an issue. This sort of shit is always taken out on the kid in some form or another. So go get some coping skills, talk through your anger and pent up frustrations in a healthy way and get better for this kid.
Time to nut up or shut up.
I think counseling is your best bet. You have issues, time to resolve them
Worrying about her calling it off, will only make you reek of desperation, low standards & respect. You need to be the one that calls it off. Sure what happened to her is unfortunate & does sound like grooming, but she lied regardless, same with your “friend”. I would cut him off
Do not give hints be open and upfront
ok? he doesn’t love you or your baby, a baby that is statically more likely to becoming a sociopath
No worries. And I mean it- give yourself a bit more credit. Life really can be this good, let yourself enjoy it! Focus on the good life and future that you share together 🙂
She is just now waking up. I doubt she’s completely sober but she is already talking about how she doesn’t know exactly what she said but she knows she’s an asshole. I’m kinda leaving her on read in real life at the moment because I don’t want to say anything stupid.