It sounds like you guys either need counseling to work through your issues, or call it quits because there’s clearly a lot going on that you haven’t been able to overcome in your time together.
From what you’ve said, you both have trust issues with each other. You could also be coming across as kind of controlling. It’s not good that your GF is lying about things, but you seem to come across as a bit controlling perhaps.
Talking things through, look into therapy if you think the relationship is worth saving.
Oh sorry I totally misread that.
This dude sucks
It sounds like you guys either need counseling to work through your issues, or call it quits because there’s clearly a lot going on that you haven’t been able to overcome in your time together.
From what you’ve said, you both have trust issues with each other. You could also be coming across as kind of controlling. It’s not good that your GF is lying about things, but you seem to come across as a bit controlling perhaps.
Talking things through, look into therapy if you think the relationship is worth saving.