I know it sounds weird that we didn’t know each others last names but it was something a bit more casual. I could tell you his favourite foods, or worst memory as a kid or favourite country he visited, but for some reason last names never came up for either of us. I am not sure why. I guess I realized how weird it was once I saw it.
Thank you, again all very valid points.
I know it sounds weird that we didn’t know each others last names but it was something a bit more casual. I could tell you his favourite foods, or worst memory as a kid or favourite country he visited, but for some reason last names never came up for either of us. I am not sure why. I guess I realized how weird it was once I saw it.
That sounds really naked, I’m sorry. I hope time and talking it through makes your path more clear.
The thing about people… a lot can be:
she is an incredible person
And have that wild side to them.
I'd say, if you're enjoying what's going on… keep rolling with it.
Why smother a flame that is working and you two mutually like it? (You're enjoying it, right?).
Saying:
Hey, I don't want to ruin this by sexting too much.
Can cause a withdrawal and actually break something.
Instead, if that is working and you're genuinely enjoying it… keep that thriving (cause its working).
Don't say: I want to remove the fun bits and focus on building a relationship.
Instead say: I want to keep the fun bits, meanwhile adding to our relationship.
Add the layers as you go, don't remove what's not proven to be broken.
Thanks, appreciate you response. Glad you're doing better these days 🙂