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Hi all ^_^ my name is Alice! I, ‘m very happy to have you in my room, don’t be shy, let’s have a great time! <3, 18 y.o.
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Live! Live Sex Chat rooms Hi all ^_^ my name is Alice! I, ‘m very happy to have you in my room, don’t be shy, let’s have a great time! <3
Date: April 18, 2023
I’ve broken up with him twice now over him being controlling
So what are you waiting for? Three strikes, he's out!
Exactly. Have your elegant party when he’s back from deployment!
I’d say this is too much, often if you make something so serious the other person will respond more seriously. I think the best way to go about it is to say “hey thanks for sending I’m drowning in work at the moment so might not be able to read too much until the end of the semester but can’t wait to read more when I have the headspace!”
Have you asked your best friend how she would feel about it? I would start there. If she's supportive, she could put in a good word for you.
My ex used to like tickling or poking me even when I told him I didn’t like it. He didn’t “get it” until I said directly to him: “You are knowingly doing something to my body that I don’t want you to do.” He acted as though that was dramatic but I said “I’m not exaggerating, that’s what’s happening here. It is no different than if it were a ‘worse’ act, you are putting your desires to touch me the way you want to over my right to choose how and when I’m touched.” I recommend being direct and clear like that. He doesn’t get to just keep groping you whenever he wants. He needs to stop now.
Stop calling her. Cut that off, for real – the clarity you seek you already got via those pics and videos.
No sane woman in a committed relationship accidentally falls into another man’s bed, and especially doesn’t allow it to be recorded and put on Snapchat. Nope, it’s done. Sorry to say it, but self-respect at this point is the only option.
b ” …my bf came over to bring me sawdust (I have chickens)”
Sawdust will kill chickens – post is likely fake –
It’s not that I’m in bad health just that I have a couple of disabilities. They’re manageable enough and don’t require constant hospital treatment or anything. Trust me we’ve taken that side of things into account. It’s more the when of my staying than the if at this point.
Hey, if you think Bob is a sociopath then why are you friends with him and getting caught up in his petty, immature, drama?
Stop lying for him, clear that conscience, and move on.
In future, if you see this happening then don’t get involved. Don’t be a sounding board, back away from the parties involved, and have nothing to do with it.
Best of luck to you two…..been with my wife for 31 years, married for 30. We were pen pals and lived together from day one after she got off the plane to come meet me. It's doable as long as you work at it.
OP I also want you to consider this, an alpha is a being that exudes leadership and makes decisions that benefits their entire pack. If you look at alpha wolves, alpha lions, or alpha gorillas they’re typically leading the pack and taking charge, they’re also making decisions that benefit all the members of their pack. Now I want you to think about a time where he has led you properly. When has he made a decision that’s benefitted your and your family? This isn’t an alpha male, he’s beta because in his own insecurities he attacks others that are weaker and more frail than he is. Consider these things as you go about life and think about whether someone might be a compatible partner for you.
I want to ask him if we can just talk again sober
This is a dumpster fire. YOU and your life are a dumpster fire. These things happen in your life because you invite them in. You surround yourself with the type of people you are and you are so trashy. This is something out of Jerry Springer. For God’s sake you have a kid. Do better. Stop dating assholes and get your shit together. Go to therapy to figure out why your life is one big chaotic mess. Your kid deserves to be raised with good examples, you are not being a good example nor are you bringing good examples around them. If you act so horribly when you drink and can’t control yourself, well then it’s time to stop drinking, full stop, no ifs ands or buts about it. For fuck’s sake you’re 34 and he is 40. Both of you need to act your fucking age. You’ve only been with him for 6 months, you should still be in the honeymoon phase and this should be the peak of the relationship. You’re making your kid’s childhood a revolving door of crazy strangers coming and going. What is wrong with you? Your boyfriend is very abusive and you should dump him, but if you don’t fix your shit you’ll end up with another guy just like him and just like all the ones before him. I know for a fact you don’t have a roster of good men in your dating history, you’ve told me all I need to know to make an educated guess on that. Hide your important documents from him. See if you can go home sooner and leave him there that way you can get rid of all his shit and change the locks before he gets back. If you are truly in danger call the police. Contact the embassy should you lose your passport. But for the love of God get some therapy and stop dating until you have your shit fully together.
Spoiler alert – he’s in his mid 30s. His Brian was fully developed a decade ago and he’s been in the full real world for over a decade.
He has 100% not only grown into who he is currently – and he’s decided to stick with it in the face of the rest of the world. (Secondary spoiler – this usually means he’s surrounded himself with people just like him.)
You don’t change a grown ass man in his 30s – you accept your not his mom and go find someone who knows how to act like a good, human, adult.
Btw while I’ve definitely rooted for some people in movies to die – him rooting for the man to kill the woman when he’s passing by and thus has zero context of what’s happening in the movie is disturbing as fuck. I’d be concerned as hell dating a man who sees no problem with instantly rooting for a man strangling a woman. It seems like a default “she had it coming” mindset.
What is actually the problem?
Staying isn’t an option. That’s not what I need help on. I need support and advice on a RO and charging him while being afraid.
I'm not seeing that she cheated. She's clearly a terrible mother and a low-class human, but OP says in the post they don't online together and says in the comments that she's already talking to divorce lawyers. They're clearly separated.
Sounds like she doesn't have access to marital funds if she's having to call OP for money, so he should talk to a lawyer about that. It can be painted as financial abuse in court depending on how it all came about.
that's exactly what he's doing, the bare minimum to keep you around. i promise it can be so much better than this, just most likely not with him. don't settle for breadcrumbs.
I'm very sorry, but if he really wanted to be married to and have kids with you, he would already. The fact that he did not strongly suggests he does not, no matter what he is telling you.
He is 48 years old. He has already been married once, he knows how it's done. He already has a peri-pubescent child, so he know how that's done, too.
He knows that marriage and family are important to you, he knows that you've upended your life for him. Self-evidently, these things do not matter to him, or he would be taking concrete steps to get married, which he is not doing.
TL;DR: I'm very sorry, but the sunk cost fallacy applies here.