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Could he possibly still be married to someone else?
I know a shocking number of people (both men and women) that separate from their spouses but never deal with an actual divorce and just continue on dating like it’s never going to come up again.
My g’s I just took a quick glance at this thread and OP you’re losing more support than a man’s hair follicles in his 30s, chill out.
He was speaking to you inappropriately, you didn’t shut him down. Even after he put his hand on your back, you didn’t shut him down. Your boyfriend (for his sake i hope now ex boyfriend) did that. You are the person responsible for setting boundaries with your ex, NOT him. Your boyfriend was the one who was hit first, he defended himself, and you rushed to your exes side, not thinking about your partner for 20 minutes. You not only betrayed him on his birthday, you embarrassed him in front of his friends and everyone there, you humiliated him and showed him in front of everyone that you care more for your ex than your own partner. Mistakes get made, yes, but this wasn’t a mistake. This was blatant ignorance and insensitivity. My heart breaks for your boyfriend and I truly hope he has the strength to end the relationship for good.
I am an adult now and he only just turned 22. He really does love me but just like what you said since we are a LDR I have no other choice but to send him nudes to feel like I can keep him sexually satisfied.
As many people don't. I'd recommend RAINN as a good resource to learn more about coercion and consent. If your partner had been agonizing over sexual trauma would you ignore her for 2 hours and then think that was a good time to initiate sex?
if u go thru with this you will 100% get fired. not telling you not to
Sometimes people just ghost for no reason. I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s possible he realized that he didn’t want to make things work long distance, or he lost interest, or just found someone new to pursue, it could be anything but the best thing to do is to move on and not focus on it. Try not to take it personally or blame yourself. Best of luck!
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There's no time limit to the actual marriage happening, but the idea of it? Knowing that someone is your person? Hell yes. some people don't want to get married and that's their prerogative, but if you can't answer whether you want to be with someone long term after 2 years, your answer is no.
Expections expectations, the relationship killer. ?♂️
If you're done having children, why should it matter?
Reciprocate that energy with another gym bro and make him jealous. Then break up with him publicly at the gym ? I doubt that chick even wants to give him the time of day.
You both need to focus on your own issues before even considering another relationship.
And is okay to let go and admit that things didn’t work out and that there needs to be time taken for one self.
Yep! ?
Haha he wants a 3 way 100%
Wonderfully put, and very true.
My advice to you is to punch him in the mouth and then ask the doctor for the “wife stich”, where he stitches up his mouth a bit ” for good measure” ,so it easier for him to shut to fuck up.
Don't let anyone shame you for making the best life decisions for you and the then-fetus. You did the absolute best thing you could've done in that situation.
He doesn't think about anyone but himself. He doesn't think about what it would've been like for you. He doesn't think about what a potential baby would have had to go through.
If he brings this up all the time now, it's not going to get better. You've only been together for 4 months, and I get it's very hot to give up on a relationship. But it's for the best. You're not going to be happy with this man a few years from now.
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yeah, people were saying to break up with her and I just wanted to start over with a new post.
There was like one person who brought up a “break-up”, the rest didn't
Can you please offer me some advice to have her back on new years?
Tbh, I think you and her need some time to reflect on what you actually want out of this relationship, reflect on your communication skills, and you definitely need to work on your insecurities.
She had a long way to regain your trust. I’m not sure she can ever regain it fully. She gave another guy the the fantasies she should have shared with you. I’d at least start the process. Talk to a lawyer. Look into your finances. Delegate who pays for what. Separate but online in the same house due to finances. You deserve better
I know guys arent very good at communicating what they want especially if its a situation like this where he might feel very demasculated and embarrassed, so put yourself in his shoes, pretend it was you who got kicked out and a female gay friend followed you, you fell asleep and then this “friend” pulled down your dress and groped you, how would you want your husband to react? Would you be fine if he wanted to keep her around just because they used to be best friends? Id assume not considering they are not your friend anymore they would be your assaulter, keeping them in the friend group would just give him justification for his actions and he could possibly do it to someone else and that would be on you since you knew about his behaviour and didnt report it.
I didn't receive any advice whatsoever. Now stop lying and help me out or go
Her surgery was in august and she has gone ghost since September. I know she is also going through a divorce. She also did say once to me that she was sorry that she hasn’t been responding but has a lot going on with kids, recovery, life and that she was fine just dealing with a lot and always isolate herself.
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Lol why was this downvoted?
Shock of shocks! The man who never wanted the kid in the first place isn't father of the year! It's pretty clear you two shouldn't have stayed together and it's exceedingly clear that he only married you because he felt he had to.
Dude… Even if you didn't get your dick wet, you DID cheat on her.
You reached out to an ex, sent her a sentimental song on IG and she came TO YOUR HOUSE when you didn't think your girlfriend would be around. Let me guess, you didn't mention to your ex that you had a new gf, right?
Stevie Wonder can see what you were up to.
Ummm didn't read anything..but time to move on and forward …
There is nothing funny about making jokes about this and there is nothing cute about not trusting your partner.
You are young and don't wabt 10 years later pushing 40 to find out about how you don't want to be with someone with terrible ethics and character. You only invested a short amount of Time. Enjoy learning this now!
Incarceration does NOT stop the desire of pedophilia. She will still have the sexual desire for children after prison as many many other offenders do. It does nothing to prevent recidivism. What stops it is intensive therapy and even medication. Getting to root problem of why the person feels the sexual urge for children. It maybe likely that OP partner was sexually assaulted as a child.
“You're kinda slow, but I love that about you ❤”
Bro just get healthy again.
I’m calling a lot of people bozo now. It’s like my new thing.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Hey, we've all been there. It hurts, and it'll hurt for a while. The best revenge, is to online your best life. Maybe one day he'll see you again and think 'damn, shouldn't have let her go', but you don't actually need to be validated that way. Dumbass home boy doesn't know what he let go.
I'm sorry what women?
View this one as a starter gf.
This experience will help you to identify the characteristics you'd like in a long-term relationship.
This one seems damaged. Definitely not a keeper.
Get yo money right and dip. Frfr
Small claims court
OMG!! Yes!! Even get sister to dress as the devil or something!!
Maybe he’s manic, did he ever show signs of depression or mania?
It’s called manipulation.And he is garbage.
He knows you will self-defense yourself and then plays the victim.
You can either end it or wait until things are out of control.
Awww. See what a clear line of communication does! Your relationship is going to prosper should you continue to be open with one another. Bravo! Happy to see a great update!
I know you've said in other comments that your leveling up was for you and you have no expectations of him. Thing is, that doesn't matter to him.
When your husband looks at you now, what he sees is someone who identified her own self-imposed limitations, then figured out how to work around and through them. He sees someone who stopped making excuses and started executing on her potential.
It is much easier for him to attack you, to call you a failure, and to withdraw support from you … than it is to do the scary work of admitting he's threatened by your achievement because he suspects, deep down, he'd never be able to do likewise.
People who attack other people's life improvements are usually doing so as a result of their own unhappiness with their own failures. This is what's going on here. You can't “fix” this and you can't “make” him happy, or happy for you.
You can ask whether it's best to stay a partnership with someone who does not want the best for you and does not invest in your success like it's his own. Give the man some time to show you whether he loves you enough to let you thrive.
yo maybe he’s got a wife
You’re really overthinking this, and it will drive you crazy. You have to have a serious conversation with her about what she wants out of a relationship. If she’s still vague/unsure/changes the subject, then you have to decide if you’re okay with that being your relationship indefinitely.
To me personally, it seems to me that she’s unsure and is stringing you along for attention or until there’s a reason for a permanent break up.
Sorry to be a downer. Only way to know is ask her what she sees the future of the relationship to be like. If it’s not clear but you want clarity, both young and have plenty of time to find someone else on the same page as you.
The guy has been unethical because he was unsure of a huge life decision while having no stability for the last 4 years?
I can’t believe he would bring up your crotch smelling once in a while when his literal hands and beard are constantly smeared in eu du sáck.
The smelly kid pulled the ol' “I know you are but what am I.” with the crotch deflection.
I second this. I broke up with my ex, and shortly after my grandpa passed away. He hounded me constantly, came to my house the day we found him even though I told him not to. He ended up ruining the service because he texted me non-stop and he was hiding in my backyard when I got home.
My example is more extreme, I know lol. But still, she's grieving and you're the last thing on her mind, so don't try and push your way in.
Well what is your question? If years of this hasn’t been enough for you already, not sure what will
You should confront him for sure.
But what is this about:
I get people get lonely I do too but I just want to breakdown.
You are married, why would either one of you be “lonely”?
Immediately tell your husband you've been inappropriate with your teacher and are actively cheating on him with plans of hooking up soon.
I guess it started after I moved away 🙁
Come on. Also, at 40 years old, midlife crisis probably, it’s common as well. Either way, I think you should move on. Good luck.