You don’t seem to actually love each other, you are together for convenience. If you loved her you would not have cheated, and when you did, you ruined trust forever. If she forgave you and you got away with it, she deserves the same freedom, and you’re an ass if you get mad about her doing the same. I don’t see either person being happy here, and I would run fast if I was your GF because you’re going find excuses to cheat more after this.
He went on a date with her the same day you broke up? He met her from a previous break you guys were on. I think we agree he was probably talking to her while you guys were back on. Honestly just move on, being constantly on and off again isn’t healthy. You should be upset and vent on how hurt you must feel but let this relationship die.
Love is not enough to sustain a marriage. From reading your previous posts, for all the moments that you have that are good, there seem to be two moments where you two LEGITIMATELY do not like each other.
Being married for only 1-2 years, these feelings should not be there. You’re the breadwinner in the relationship and yet your husband thinks he can talk to you the way he does? You enjoy yelling at your husband? That’s not NORMAL, not even relatively so.
So here’s the real question: Why are you still with this person? You guys have PROBLEMS. If you guys can’t work on the marriage with therapy or couples counseling, there are gonna be plenty of Reddit posts from you asking us “why your husband did this or that”, and we’re all going to keep asking you “why the heck do you put up with each other?”
You don’t seem to actually love each other, you are together for convenience. If you loved her you would not have cheated, and when you did, you ruined trust forever. If she forgave you and you got away with it, she deserves the same freedom, and you’re an ass if you get mad about her doing the same. I don’t see either person being happy here, and I would run fast if I was your GF because you’re going find excuses to cheat more after this.
He went on a date with her the same day you broke up? He met her from a previous break you guys were on. I think we agree he was probably talking to her while you guys were back on. Honestly just move on, being constantly on and off again isn’t healthy. You should be upset and vent on how hurt you must feel but let this relationship die.
Love is not enough to sustain a marriage. From reading your previous posts, for all the moments that you have that are good, there seem to be two moments where you two LEGITIMATELY do not like each other.
Being married for only 1-2 years, these feelings should not be there. You’re the breadwinner in the relationship and yet your husband thinks he can talk to you the way he does? You enjoy yelling at your husband? That’s not NORMAL, not even relatively so.
So here’s the real question: Why are you still with this person? You guys have PROBLEMS. If you guys can’t work on the marriage with therapy or couples counseling, there are gonna be plenty of Reddit posts from you asking us “why your husband did this or that”, and we’re all going to keep asking you “why the heck do you put up with each other?”
I think it's supposed to be that the comment about sharing OP tipped him over the edge.