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Date: October 9, 2022
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Maybe technically you can, but morally, no.
She’s not like that
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Give her the number to the local DV shelter, then wash your hands of her.
The most dangerous time in a woman's life will be when she leaves an abuser, and being involved in helping an abuse victim leave an abuser puts the helper at risk. Are you willing to risk your mental health, and possibly your very life and the lives of everyone you online with to help someone whose response to “yo, he's an abusive psycho” was to lash out at you? You tried to tell her not to get in that bed, but she told you to fuck off, made it, and stayed in it for six years. Someone else can help her get out of bed, preferably a group of people who dedicate time to doing so in the safest possible manner.
I think it’s entirely reasonable for him to want his own place. If you guys have done nothing but fight and aren’t meeting each others needs then getting a lease together is a terrible idea. You may feel blindsided, but people can back out of major and long term financial decisions without being guilted for it. Also, If that environment was so triggering for you, then understand that it was probably triggering for him too. I know that I am incapable of functioning in a messy place. My mom’s a hoarder too and i had to hide in my room just to prevent a meltdown. I don’t blame him for doing the same and finding his escape.
Yes, because there’s no accountability, no remorse. He’ll do it again and again. And you’ll let him.
I’m sorry that all happened. I’m sorry you are having to deal with this with a young baby. But, your husband is a danger to you and your child. He didn’t his you by accident, and he didn’t hit the baby by accident.
He may not have actively intended to hit the baby, but it wasn’t an accident. An accident is slipping on ice, not slamming a door in your wife’s face while she’s holding a baby.
And your husband made a choice to hit you. And it wasn’t an accident.
And once an abuser feels comfortable with physical violence, the violence will continue and will escalate over time. Neither you or your baby deserves that future.
You need to leave. If you have friends or family you can go to, go there. The sooner the better.
You didn’t make him behave this way. He chose to, of his own free will. If you could control him that easily, you probably would have used your powers of control to get him to clean up after himself.
Your husband is abusive. You are in an abusive relationship. And the fact that your husband doesn’t believe he did anything wrong only proves the point that you aren’t safe.
Your wife sounds like someone who is manipulative and dishonest. Threatening suicide if you leave is deeply, deeply harmful. And it sounds like she's made you promises that she either never intended to keep or hasn't been forthright about when her mind has changed. It really doesn't even sound like your desire to leave the marriage is about her transition. It sounds like you were barely compatible at the beginning of your relationship and it's gone downhill since then.
You should leave because you want to leave. If you genuinely think she'll harm herself, you can reach out to her family or friends or to a trans support group to see how they can take over supporting her.
What i mean is that it's legal in my Asian country when i was 15 to date a 22yo but we were just friends
I want to come to her job and talk to her after work, is that a bad idea?
Yes bad idea.
Let her sort her shit out on her own, don't force anything.
I really want to know what you are willing to do.
This situation is difficult to understand because, to the outside observer, there is no reason to be dating him and breaking up should be the obvious solution.
There is a reason you haven't done that yet. Do you know what it is?
Yeah. I appreciate the response.
Letting him go so he can find someone who loves him the way he deserves has definitely been spoken about. However, he is stubborn and insists I do that for him already.
Thank you for this. We do have a very similar story. I wish you the best with your situation as well.
Yes this!!! You definitely dodged a bullet with this one.
Why the hell can’t he bring his wife on a combo pre wedding party when the groom and the bride will be there….
I won’t even go to a Saints Game without my wife
What are the qualities?
It does sound like he doesn't want a poly but has been damaged by past relationships and figures it's going to end anyway so may as well be open from the start.
However he can't change his monogomous values and like most guys his girl going with others just tears at him , especially since he required it.
Probably best for both of you if you end it
Then he needs time or therapy to get over his issues.
Hey guys, BF isn’t the monster you’re all making him out to be. He’s given OP an out by saying he “doesn’t want to date anymore until he finds his own place” All she needs to smile politely and nod.
(He’s totally a monster. OP, please just say screw it and move on)
Right, if she was in her 50s and also swinging research/admin roles, sure, but 32 is pretty much fresh out of school for them.
He turns to me and KISSES ME (again, first time thing with us), hugs my waist and goes
Awwww cute!!!
“Our 1 year anniversary, idiot. I’m making reservations.”
Wait what
Having a baby never “fixes” anything. Good luck explaining that to her. It sounds like she does need therapy, and no matter how much you blame yourself for her behavior its not your responsibility.
You would be better off exiting this relationship before things get worse, honestly. Let her have kids with someone who wants them.
For some people. Not everyone
Your SO has a drinking problem. Take it from an ex-alcoholic, your SO 100% has a drinking problem. If she can’t get her shit together which I’m sure she can’t, she’s only going to keep doing this / dragging your through this hell. Break up with her fam.
I mean, I'd give them half of what they need at least, if you can spare it. They raised you, they didn't charge you rent, and they're struggling. I dunno. It's a tough call.
THIS paternity testing is the least of the issues.
He also doesn't see that cursing at me while he's angry is a problem
This is emotional abuse. One should NEVER stand for emotional abuse. It extremely rarely ever gets better.
because “I started the fight, and I push him too far, so what do you expect? Don't fight with me”
This is such a red flag. It's the typical words a abuser (physical and emotional) uses to beat it into their victim that the victim caused them to do it.
A few of his friends have expressed concern that he doesn't treat women well,
Even people NOT in a relationship with him can see it. Typically, outsiders don't see the worst, so if they are horrified for the little they say, it means he is worse than they know.
I've told him to stop calling me a b****, which he has stopped doing
For now, he stopped but not long term. This is the typical pattern in abusers. In the beginning, they abuse, stop apologizing, and then do it again. Each time they do it, it gets worse and worse.
he goes on 4chan a lot
Seriously, the sole reason to leave him.
You need to get therapy because your normal meter is broken, and if you stay the worst, it will get until one day 5 years from now you look back with regret that you didn't take action today.
You weren't rude, you were just fine given the circumstances. When your wife said look, we have company! You could have said no, we don't have company. You have company. Which you didn't tell me about. Which makes her the asshole. She should be asking your forgiveness.
Typo: the word Friend should be spelled ExFriend
Your awesome and dont need that in your life.
I wish the world to you
But she never told me that she was messing with other people. And idk if I believe that she was just trying to get the tickets. I mean, they fucked! I have no idea what they were actually talking about. I cut off everyone I was messing with immediately and she should’ve did the same thing.
This is something we have spoken about and she has been to individual counseling before but seemed to find issue with them or their approach.
*he cheated on you the whole time.