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Nah. She told you something to make things easier and more amicable. It sucks and it feels bad but you guys aren’t together. Divorces suck, people heal and move on differently. One blessing I found was that it helps you move on quicker when someone does that to you. Keep your head up!
Everyone else here is laughing… because well the situation is funny and that's the normal reaction to something like this happening.
Unless she has the world's most expensive bookbag or you straight up cocked and aimed at her bag, this is a major over reaction on her part, and anybody who would seriously get mad at this is either very emotionally unstable or immature.
Do you think dude is asking his male friends what they’re eating?
The fact he wasn’t courageous enough to be honest with you at a VERY important time to do so, tells you quite a bit about exactly who he is. That should be a deal breaker for you.
Guys, be direct. Be truthful. If you like looking at pics, the only answer to your GF is inviting her to scroll with you. I’m a man. I’ve done exactly this and it has always turned out fine. It’s not a secret, she’s welcome into that part of who I am. If the GF can’t deal with it, then great to find that out now than lead some secret life.
My relationship has been fine up until this point.
So this one incident made you feel like his side chick?
Really!
Please say no very hot pictures have been sent or received. Assuming that's the case, then you break up immediately and block her (I mean, do that either way, but it's extra problematic if photos are involved). It sucks, I know, but those three years fucking matter a whole hell of a lot in this scenario
imo, yeah it is. But I also think that just because a man is older doesn't he is a creep/abuser who is going to ruin your life. Like, someone can be the same age as you and still abuse you.
You’re not compatible, I wouldn’t invest more time.
Nah thank god i wasn’t groomed, i just don’t want people to downplay that. You still think that Amy really wants to meet him and you were defending him. I can copy paste your comment if you want to read it again.
I think guy should pay the bill if he invites girl on a date.
She picked a place and asked you on a date, so this is where it gets weird. If she picked a place that is out of your budget she shouldn’t expect you to pay for it. It would be polite of you to pick up the bill if you can, but it’s just weird to me that she is the one asking you on a date and selecting the location and yet wants you to pay.
So you know how you said to her She needs to be careful because if things go sideways she can lose her kid? This is such a dumb situation dude. You're not a teenager. Take a step back. Think with your brain not with your head. You are almost 40 years old. Do not go throwing away everything because of a damsel in distress. You have a crush. You are not in love and neither is she.
If she wants to go ahead and go through with the divorce and see where things go between the two of you after that that is the smart thing to do but you are dangerously close to the f*** around territory of f*** around and find out and you really will not like finding out.
Can he visit you? Why does he live! with his mother and not his wife? Did you two ever on-line together? I think for now you should go back home
Moreover half this comment section is into kinkshaming and victim blaming they CANNOT GIVE YOU GOOD ADVICE. SEEK A PROFESSIONAL!!!!
I know other countries have the same problem, but in this case we are talking about China. What's unique about China (or maybe it's not unique I didn't know US had such a law), the law does not allow you to just simple ditch your parents no matter how bad or racist they are, I'm sure in the US even rural US you can cut of your parents and not get sued, yes? Or am I wrong there? In China there is a law in their constitution about filial piety, if you decide to just go NC and ditch your parents, your parents are allowed to sue you (well that's part of my basic understanding of their law, there might be more to it)
Now. Your partner will be torn that you kept it from them
It's both of our apartment, but she has nobody in this town and nowhere to stay. I atleast have my parents i can stay at/store things at. I'm not a vindictive person, so I'm not going to put her out like that. I got rid of almost everything I had when we moved in together anyways, so it'll be an easy move for me. I don't even have a mattress. I did buy the bed frame though, so hey there's that.
She had to work today, I had today off. She's a welder, she needs a good night sleep before work.
I know she's fucked. But I do care for her. We're breaking up yeah, but it doesn't have to be a vile thing ya know?
Idk…. she's at work and im packing my shit up as we speak, then taking it to my parents.
I was a little too quick to post what was going on in my life, I should've added all the details yes
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I read some of the comments. Here's my opinion. If you don't feel comfortable with her, don't be with her. I would say something like:
“You're a great person, but I don't think we are compatible, and we need to break it off. I wish you the best of luck.”
Will it hurt her? Yes. But HER emotions shouldn't have any control over YOUR emotions.
Also, the fact you think she lie is such a massive redflag, why the fuck would you think of that first ??
the only other date i’ve ever been on was with my (now) ex when i was like 15. so when we were children? i don’t even know how to act right lol but i’ll try! but i think i should take it slow too but wow i’m nervous!
I also see from OP's post history that in the midst of all of this, she is getting totally elective cosmetic surgeries that, of course, have recovery time. These kids are screwed beyond belief.
Real cute how he knocks up a teenager then complains that *his* 20s were stolen…
Block both of them. Someone that loves you would not have done this. You will get over it in time. Find a way to occupy your time, get a hobby, spend time with friends that don’t associate with either of them, make new friends.
?. You're unhinged, keep taking your meds, you clearly need them.
P.s. My husband says hi and no thanks, he doesn't like to put his d***k in places frequented by the likes of you.
(Weak laugh) Good save, buddy.
You're an enabler, just as culpable as the abuser IMO
if this is considered the final straw to you, there was definitely more things bubbling under the surface that were never talked about or pushed aside. been there
That is a MASSIVE omission in your post mate. You didn't cheat, you were raped.
That's not what I said but okay
I'd say it has to do with another women, of corse he wouldn't tell you because if it fizzles out during your 'separation' he knows you wouldn't take him back.
Do what he has asked, even though you have to live! together treat him like a room mate, don't clean up after him, do his washing, cook for him, and only communicate about your son nothing else, not how his day was or yours yada yada,
Start going out with friends for the night, for meals or for drinks, or to watch a movie, so he can get a sense of what life without you is like.
But I'm saying it's someone else and he wants to sleep with them and see if there any there while keeping you on the hook as a foolout
She agrees with your assessment and I wouldn’t trade her for anything. She’s my queen and I’m her gringo!
Tie it up in a condom before flushing
I guess I’m not okay with that. I don’t have plans but I’m thinking of not going because I don’t want to be that push over friend.
Was I meant to keep the day free even though there were no solid plans? Most of my other friends aren’t like this and we will always have something concrete so not sure if I’m wrong to be annoyed at this.
I think your actions were reasonable and hers not, but calling it manipulative based on just this is a stretch.
I get the distinct impression that you are going to continue to let him live! with you without paying a dime.
Says the person that types like they were kicked in the head by a horse. Sure.
one pill a day can make a huge difference. i'm on one pill a day for anxiety and depression, but before i was on those meds i couldn't have a social life (not didn't want to, COULD NOT) and wanted to kill myself.
obviously that's a brain chemical issue, but hormonal issues (which is what thyroid issues are, hormonal) can affect both brain and body. energy, sex drive, and weight maintenance are all very commonly-known trouble spots with thyroid problems. you poking and prodding at your wife about returning to a lifestyle in which she had a crucial factor that she is now missing will not magically give her what she needs to do it. (and that's not even considering the havoc pregnancy hormones must also be wreaking on her body, AND the precious energy it's costing her just to keep up with the household and your toddler. thyroid issues make you feel exhausted ALL THE TIME, even if you lay around and do nothing all day.)
if you're 100% set on her being a sahm, you need to find a different job or career that will give your family the medical benefits necessary to get your wife back on her meds. not only will you probably see your wife bounce back in appearance (which should 100% be the least important factor here – make no mistake), she will feel like a person again, with energy to enjoy life with you and your child. that's worth whatever it takes.
The bar is in hell and these dudes are in a limbo competition with Satan.