Your fiancée is lazy. It may not be the 1950s. The main difference is women work and don’t rely on their partners to pay everything. And those that are stay at home partners still work. By taking care of the house and admin that comes with it. If she’s not doing any of it she’s just being lazy and you’ve allowed her to think she can be.
Its unfortunately late for that. This would be our 4th military move as a couple, my 5th if you count moving in with him the first time. It sucks because I feel like either way ill have to move my kids somewhere because we have virtually no support system here. And like…It seems like so much to go be a single mom or an unhappy wife as my options… not to mention my kids having to so visitation from across the country. It just seems like so much and why I think I just tolerate what I do :/.
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Oh man, let him take her to task over it, and then cut her out for good. You do not need that kind of person in your life, she's like cancer.
Your fiancée is lazy. It may not be the 1950s. The main difference is women work and don’t rely on their partners to pay everything. And those that are stay at home partners still work. By taking care of the house and admin that comes with it. If she’s not doing any of it she’s just being lazy and you’ve allowed her to think she can be.
Its unfortunately late for that. This would be our 4th military move as a couple, my 5th if you count moving in with him the first time. It sucks because I feel like either way ill have to move my kids somewhere because we have virtually no support system here. And like…It seems like so much to go be a single mom or an unhappy wife as my options… not to mention my kids having to so visitation from across the country. It just seems like so much and why I think I just tolerate what I do :/.