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Nah. If anything she’s not being enough. That’s reasonable request and if you told her the whole truth then what do you have to worry about ? You already cheated.. what’s the worst that will happen? She’ll break up with you? Lol
Dude I literally know for a fact she has 1 body. Everyone at our school knows. Stop acting like a know it all
My man, I've been with mine since he started a bar, went bankrupt, lost his bar, lost a family member, moved back home. I supported him throughout and he has supported that support throughout. He has been there for me all the way when I had trouble at work, trouble with my mom, trouble with my health etc.
Don't accept less. You sound like a solid man, please dont accept someone who is so shallow that she blames her world falling apart on you.
What is there to fight for in court?
Twice.
here is probably what happened, she met another guy (why she broke up) and tried dating him for a month and that didn't work out and now she is back to old trusty you as back up plan B
Happens in India as well
I think he did tell part of the truth in there when he said that his roommate still had feelings for him. Because they are in a relationship. Yeah he shouldn't have a girlfriend on the side.
He’s not necessarily becoming less serious about it, he’s just giving into temptation. But the fact that “he feels guilty about it” means he’s still taking his beliefs seriously. He’s probably conflicted between his feelings for him and his sexual desire for her and his religious beliefs.
It’s pretty normal to feel tempted when growing up in such strict religious environment and some of them manage to stay strong and pray away the temptation, but others find themselves with this huge temptation and the “snake” that’s willing to make their desires come to on-line and they just go for it. But then, they’d post for forgiveness and think is all good.
But one thing I can assure you, this guy will be the first one to harshly judge another member of his church for doing the exact same thing his doing. One thing I learned growing up in a similar environment is that those whom sin the most are the first ones to cast the first stone.
Believe me I have been telling myself this lately. It’s very hot when I think back to when we were good of how happy we were. He was my life and I made him the priority and didn’t take care of myself unfortunately.
and I think I never loved someone so much in my entire life
You think??
This is excellent advice, OP. Also
Recognizing that something is broken isn’t breaking it.
is something I'm going to remember.
damn yes you’re right, but it’s still somehow a weird feeling since i’m feeling weak the whole day, can’t really explain this, i think i will still stay at my body type indeed but some areas will be covered better, not even having a eating disorder or something, for example my thighs are thicc but there is still a good gap between my legs when standing but then my waist is pretty small, and proportional it feels weird for me.. not ugly, just, weird xd Thanks! i’m trying to ;-;
Yes!!! It gets so much worse!!! My ex used to say he didn’t believe in divorce. I always said I didn’t want one as my parents were divorced. Apparently the mask starts slipping off at the engagement and gets lost after the wedding. Now stands before you a next level AH that you never knew could possibly exist. THAT’S JUST THE BEGINNING it only gets worse and more dangerous.
Stay safe OP. Glad you got out. DO NOT LOOK BACK
If you know where she lives, google her address. Oftentimes you can discover who resides there.
I wanna know whose agreeing to this because if a guy is like I can’t kiss you and no oral. Very hot pass.
Do you really think his partner, who has been doing housework without complaints so far, suddenly said she is never going to lift a finger doing chores ever again? How realistic is it that someone who is not completely insane would do that? Maybe im wronging him, maybe she is completely insane – but I tend to go more in the direction of him being unhappy of the redistribution of labor, which was probably heavily slanted in his favor so far, and which his gf is now trying to rebalance into a more even distribution, to make up for the childcare she will have to cover.
This is just toxic thinking. If your religion calls virtue to feel shame for something you did happily before putting the faith in, then you're just endorsing religious abuse against yourself and your partner.
This is not an act of love. It's an act of idiocy
She sounds like an anchor dragging you down
Surprisingly, after an incident where my mother tried unsuccessfully to turn our wedding into her own milestone birthday party, they haven't done anything controlling about the actual wedding itself. My mom has tried to influence colors/dresses/etc, but I just don't listen to her. I don't think she's even sure who our vendors are, so I'm not concerned about her changing things last minute. MIL has been less pushy because she doesn't like me and tries to avoid me whenever she can. She knows who the vendors are but their contracts are all with my parents so she has no pull.
I know this is reddit and it's genuinely hot to believe, but the wedding itself is shaping up to be entirely about us, and I think it's because everyone is more concerned about whether I like FIL and if he feels accepted or not than our actual wedding. It's a little sad, but it's how everything is playing out.
You need to grow up and handle your drug use bro…you cannot put this on another human. Learn to deal of don’t do
The thing is that I know this is wrong, and every time we talk about this I come with the same conclusion. But we'll eventually argue about this again.
You are hooked on love and hate. In other words trauma bond.
Now you need to be treated as some drug addict. Right now you don't know what love is anymore. Lovebombing in the beginning wasn't real. You were told lies, put on the pedestal and now you feel that you are nothing. You can't fake being someone else as she faked it, you are not that delusional.
Start by finding and loving yourself, who you really are. Probably someone in between love and hate that you experienced…
I don't really understand if he's tracking me. I used to beg him to spend time with me. I would beg him. He would be busy/need his space/and would barely answer his phone.
It's hard to explain, but I became really busy until I felt completely independent of him. I was so lonely in our relationship that I actually felt less lonely with my friends.
Then, I noticed he appeared at one of my daytime classes when I went with a friend.
Then he said “I never know where you are. It's probably because you on-line in that reality, but if someone asked me, I don't know where you go or what you do. You know I'm always at the office.”
Then he said “I've worked very nude and I don't want to cook. Do you think it's normal that I pay for all our restaurant meals? Why don't you pull your weight more?”
We went from me begging to spend time with him, to seeing each other 5 times a week and he always knows where I am.
As I've said before, I'm confused.
Yea he knew I’m not a casual girl and that was made clear from day 1. I’m annoyed bc he tells me I’m overreacting. I don’t think this is an overreaction I feel like him talking to her in some capacity is disrespectful to what we did.
“Deserves better” is not an indication of OP not being a good boyfriend. It's an indication of the FACT he slept with her mom. She will not be able to have sex with him without knowing the fact of the matter is that her mom and her boyfriend fucked each other.
THAT is what she doesn't deserve. She deserves better than to have in the back of her mind her boyfriend fucking her mom.
As I said, I don't mind because I was initially looking for a hookup anyway. The only thing I find annoying is that he initially asked me a bunch of personal stuff and now it's too much and says it was fine because he asked me…
I'm confused about the whole part of you giving your gf a free pass to cheat on you?
To add the that she seems to be trying to guilt trip you using her sexuality wtf?
This whole situation is a mess, you need to have a long chat and find some common ground or this relationship will implode…
Because I love him, because I know he loves me, because I know I am what he needs and he is what I need. I know couples are not all the same and that we can be happy together with our differences, this life was never said to be a dealbreaker for him before, he knew it
Thank you—this is very true.
How would it belong to both of you if you are the one buying it?
So often people mistake “being comfortable around someone” with “not bothering to treat them with basic courtesy”. Which is what you’re doing here.
You being on your own home, or being in a relationship with someone, doesn’t mean you’re allowed to treat her in ways she CLEARLY finds disrespectful and rude, even if you don’t see it the same way. If you were out in the world, at work or with friends, would you still cut them off mid sentence? Would you still not bother saying please and thank you? I’m guessing not – so why would you make LESS of an effort to show those same courtesies to the woman you supposedly love more than anyone else? She’s not asking you to fucking curtesy every time she walks into a room – she’s asking you to let her finish speaking before you talk over her because maybe, just maybe, she’d like to feel as though you give a shit what she thinks.
Oh and the whole “it’s not that big a deal” approach? Total relationship killer, dude. If your partner tells you something is hurting them and you basically tell them they’re wrong for being upset, you’ll be on the fast track to getting dumped. Learn to value your girlfriend’s opinions, and learn to take her feelings seriously. In short, grow up and act like an adult and not an impatient teenager.
There’s no question here. OP wants validation while ignoring questions about the situation.
Idk why people are acting like this isn’t how it is. With the prevalence of “virginity” most people aren’t going to say they “lost their virginity” after getting head from someone. And losing your virginity as we know comes from having sex. So it’s different then but now they’re the same ?
It sure reads like fiction, and most of the responses are based on hilariously subjective takes. OP sounds like a trashbag if real.
OH fuck off. The cat is the problem. It is attacking OPs bfs cats. So it’s fine for OP to want to keep her cat, but not fine for her bf to want to keep his cats safe?
Sounds like he wants to get laid, but doesn't have any interest in an ongoing romantic relationship with you. Is that something you'd be interested in ?
You've got to talk to him to find out for sure.
OP I’m sorry. This sucks for you. Most people reading this have been in your shoes. Some of us more than once. You can’t avoid the pain. You can move through it though. It hurts and you feel alone and like you will never be happy or fall in love again. It consumes you 24/7. Try to keep yourself busy. It will be hard but you have to force yourself to do things like hobbies, hang with friends, work etc. even if your miserable doing these things. I remember working as a professional in the professional world and taking breaks to cry myself out in the bathroom. It sounds like a cliche but one day it won’t consume you 24/7. Maybe it will be 22/7 and then 20/7 and downwards it will go. It will always hurt but it does become less. One day the sun will shine brighter in your world and you will wake and be ok. You will on-line again and be loved. Take care and go slow. Keep yourself busy
Shift worker here, absolutely have had these days. You can apologize for your shortness with them but you are winding down from your day, you were not going to be actually rude and mean-spirited to anyone you just needed to get home and rest.
You are entitled to the sanctity of your own home.
You did not venture out to someone else's house to be rude to them.
You just wanted to relax within your own residence and when you saw there were guests you chose to go to YOUR OWN room in YOUR OWN HOUSE to rest.
Apologies she felt this was but I support you 100%
I probably am, I do that a lot. I just don’t know how to react tbh
You would be okay if it was just the two of them? The ex? Call me crazy but that wouldn’t fly with me at all.
We do fight about how often we see my family
Honey, think about the ways he's behaved during your relationship.
He was the one who wanted to wait. He was the one who put such importance on being a virgin. He was the one who broke up after finding out you weren't one.
You need to start recognizing red flags and accepting that when someone shows you who they are, you need to believe it.
Yes, you lied, but that doesn't mean you deserve to be treated poorly.
Own your past, own who you are now. You are allowed to not want to have sex, even if you've had it before. You don't owe sex to anyone but yourself. Your pleasure is important. Your needs are important.
A good therapist can help you set healthy boundaries in all of your relationships. You gut told you lying was the right choice, but I actually think it was trying to tell you that telling the truth wouldn't be safe. Let this relationship be the lesson that it needed to be. You've got so much growing to do and now you are free tn grow into whoever you want to be.
You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy, no matter what you've done in your past. ❤️
This made me physically recoil. Has he always been so lacking in empathy?
With all due respect, come back to earth. I am sure you are a wonderful person (empathetic at least based on this post), but he pulled together for him and by himself, not because of you/for you. Stop inserting yourself where you don’t belong and take ownership of your own life.
If I were you, since your lease is up anyway, use that as an opportunity to on-line separately at least until he gets his OCD treated. If anyone can just switch it off, everyone would do that.
There is clearly something going on, whether it is OCD or something else entirely is anyone's guess. But if he's not actively in therapy, it is not being addressed.