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To wake her up i guess:)))
Good for you, now get a lawyer
I couldn’t do it…. I don’t know he just doesn’t sound like a stand up guy
Do it. I just did this to my boyfriend of 3 years for the same reason. He doesn’t deserve closure. No cheater does.
I think you’re being a little harsh? He wants to get them a gift, a luxury watch, which will likely not lose value and can always be sold in the future.
I’d encourage him to give money for the children’s college funds actively.
That's a one Good boyfriend! He looked away! You. Too kind! Nothing wrong with you shouted out her name. She embarrassed herself not you. Drop her. That's not a friend.
Where did you get that from?
Ahh. A culmination of your own poor decisions and lack of soul to own up to said decisions. You blew up your family and your husbands sanity. Now you need to divorce and get you and your kids to safety; you’ve driven the wrong man mad.
Why the fuck would you fuck a 20 year old in the first place?
Stop dating teenagers.
Don’t be so afraid to date an actual adult woman whose brain is done developing.
Why not let the kids know their father is a conniving and immature man? There was another comment about the concern of minor's consent. I think that's an elegant way to address it. “No, we're not playing games. If you want a paternity test, we can ask our son if he consents to that.” Husband needs to grow up.
When y’all hang out say you’re going to go to the gym and if she says no, motivate her to go try your best. If she says no a lot then she’s always going to be insecure of her body and she won’t ride you bc of it. She won’t satisfy you at that point it’s best to just leave unless you’re fine without her riding you forever which seems like you’re not. It seems y’all are sexually incompatible if she won’t try to love her body
I mean the pansexual, the fact of the woman, it's all immaterial. The fact is she was nude in a bathtub with a person that her sexuality would allow her to be freaky with. And didn't tell you about it beforehand to give you the capacity to be involved in the decision making process. The question you asked is very valid, if you were in the same picture with a woman how would she react? And she'd be right to. This is just disrespectful to you as a person and to your relationship.
Exactly why I am asking others for their opinions. That's what this sub is about right?
it's not illegal in Vegas though I remember when it was. A mayor or some other beaurcat decided a certain club was being too touchy feely had them raided. I think it was Crazy Horse but it was a long time ago. There are high end places that DO NOT allow it period. There's also a cool place with the girls in showers. Most of the good places don't want their girls to be known as strippers/sex workers. They are exotic dancers ONLY. They do lap dances but they don't put their hands on anyone's privates and no way are customers allowed to touch boobs, ass or otherwise.
Unless you’ve got an open door policy with your family their actions were grossly inconsiderate. This whole thing was on them, especially since you specifically said you wanted to celebrate with them on a separate date altogether. You might want to install deadbolt locks on your exterior doors that can only be locked and unlocked from the inside.
Relationship therapist.
Sounds like you're abandoning your daughter, forcing her to uproot her entire fucking life, because you chose a man who is so insecure that he's not capable of even living in the same house as a child that he didn't help create.
People and relationships are not static. They evolve and change due to personal growth, circumstances and situations, and they also require ongoing work. The “happily ever after” assumption here, as though once everything is started it’s just going to work forever, is unrealistic to the point of fantastical.
Moreover, you post is very self-centric and only seems interested in the impact on you and you getting what you want in this situation. Other people are allowed to have needs and preferences. Further, people often reassess things based on the experience of the relationship, which they can’t know until they’re actually in it. There is nothing wrong with this person (you indicate in comments that it’s one) deciding this arrangement isn’t for them, being clear about that and then giving you the option of what you want to do.
This is not about “appeasement”, which sounds patronizing and somewhat manipulative, but about showing respect for each of the individuals involved. You either need to commit to the monogamous relationship with that person or accept that the end of things with them. This is presuming of course that you have had a mature conversation about the issues that led to this, taking in to account their needs properly, and not just railroaded them with what you want.
People and relationships are not static. They evolve and change due to personal growth, circumstances and situations, and they also require ongoing work. The “happily ever after” assumption here, as though once everything is started it’s just going to work forever, is unrealistic to the point of fantastical.
Moreover, you post is very self-centric and only seems interested in the impact on you and you getting what you want in this situation. Other people are allowed to have needs and preferences. Further, people often reassess things based on the experience of the relationship, which they can’t know until they’re actually in it. There is nothing wrong with this person (you indicate in comments that it’s one) deciding this arrangement isn’t for them, being clear about that and then giving you the option of what you want to do.
This is not about “appeasement”, which sounds patronizing and somewhat manipulative, but about showing respect for each of the individuals involved. You either need to commit to the monogamous relationship with that person or accept that the end of things with them. This is presuming of course that you have had a mature conversation about the issues that led to this, taking in to account their needs properly, and not just railroaded them with what you want.
If you were in her position, would you want to know?
When you communicate to her that you don’t like these comments she makes, what does she say? She continues to do it, so what’s her explanation for that?
If she isn’t willing to satisfy you sexually, why are you with her?
Thank you, this actually made me cry.
You did cheat. Regardless, just go see a lawyer and get a divorce. This isn't a discussion.
Your gf sounds like a spoiled entitled brat. Why wasn’t she working for 4 years? I hope she was in school or something. I think she jus expects you to buy/do everything for her…cuz you always have. She hasn’t grown up to act like an adult yet.
To be fair, we are nearly twice your age (mid 40’s) and both of us had been married and divorced prior. Didn’t plan on getting married again, cohabitating, or having more kids. So we could afford to take things slowly and on no set timeline.
Unless marriage and kids are off the table for you, you’ve got a bit of a timeline challenge so I can appreciate wanting to move things forward (or end them) as soon as possible.
We had no such pressure.
We finally moved in together year 4 and planned for it to be temporary til I bought another home, but we have really enjoyed living together.
We just took things at a pace we were comfortable with but that doesn’t mean we are “right”. Just right for us.
The fact she never brought this up would worry me but every relationship is different
I somehow doubt this situation is as clear cut as “My boyfriend lets me pay 160 bucks less a month for rent because I make significantly less money, and in return I pay a significantly larger amount than 160 bucks to cover 100% of the groceries.”
The boyfriend may be a dick (especially for not doing chores) but that scenario makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. I don't buy it for a second.
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Not really sure what to do here.
We've (35f and 47m) been married for nearly five years. We talked about kids, it was a deal breaker for me at the beginning and he has a son from a prior marriage, I wanted to be sure kids were possible for us. Over the years, we discussed baby names, he bought baby furniture to prepare, and when I finally got pregnant the timing wasn't great (just got a promotion in a new state we'd have to move for) but we chose, together, to proceed with the pregnancy because we were both getting older and we had the right financial security to get help (au pair/nanny/etc) so we could continue working our respective high stress jobs.
It was not an easy pregnancy, I had HG and vomited nonstop and felt awful. Our already strained bedroom died because I felt sick all the time. His custody battle with his ex ramped up and dragged on. He got a hernia at the gym, meaning his stress release was limited and he felt his age in a very real way. We moved ourselves and our pets across the country when I was eight months pregnant, and had a massive fight somewhere in the middle of a national forest.
From there, things have spiraled. Husband first said that the bedroom had to improve or he was leaving. I agreed with that, I have pain with sex that I have pretty much ignored/avoided and had no support from OBGYNs (which have been consistently male, probably part of the problem) to solve. I'm absolutely willing to work on that. I started therapy to work through any psychological issues making the physical issues worse and my new OBGYN (a woman) was very encouraging that we can address this post-six week checkup.
Then the kicker, he finally confessed that he doesn't want a child. At this point, mind you, I'm 36 weeks into growing a child. He says he never wanted one, that he told me repeatedly throughout our marriage, all of which is not the reality I experienced. It hasn't changed since, even after she was born. I'm now three weeks postpartum and he says that his life is over, that he perceives raising her as a death sentence (he'll be in his sixties when she's graduating hs/college), that he has zero bond with her, zero interest in bonding with her, and only sees her as a burden. Last night he told me he doesn't want to try anything, to commit to anything, beyond staying long enough for me to get an au pair here in a new state for a stressful job where I am all alone.
I'm losing it. This is supposed to be a wonderful, safe time where I can bond with my newborn and he's stolen that from me. I'm sobbing half the day and handling 100% of her care the rest of the time, and outside a few sporadic attempts to interact with her where he loses patience and immediately passes her back to me or watch her while I bathe, he is just angry and resentful to even be in the same room as her. I don't understand. I don't understand what happened to my husband. He keeps saying he loves me but that she makes it impossible for him to stay and work on things — he actually suggested I give her up for adoption so that he might stay to work things out. The things he's saying are incredibly cold and cruel. It's like talking to a stranger.
Relevant info is husband has severe, unmedicated ADHD and PTSD which I've relied on heavily to excuse his behavior. The significant series of stressors has certainly not been easy for him to roll with, and something had to give, I just can't believe that something is blowing up our entire lives together. He indicated a willingness to seek psychiatric help but explicitly without the intention of being in her life going forward. He doesn't want her, our sweet, beautiful little girl. She's so quiet — not colicky, maybe fifteen minutes of crying total in the average day, super easy to soothe and so, so cute. And he feels nothing for her but resentment. The second she makes a noise he loses his temper. She has slept through so much yelling already.
I don't even know what I'm asking here. I feel like I'm being emotionally abused, gaslit, and suffering from so much emotional drain and whiplash right now but up until a few weeks ago, I thought I was married to my soulmate and having a wanted child. I don't want to do this alone (raise a child, on-line in a new state with no support, work a very tough job and come home to an empty house). I don't know how to convince him to stay, or if I even want him to if it's going to be this horrible all the time for him to stay. I don't know how to be a good mom to her when I'm this lost and broken.
Is there any hope? Has a father ever come around and returned to the loving, supportive husband he was, embraced his role as a dad? What do I do here to survive?
I have PTSD and after reading that he’s got unmanaged PTSD, I thought… yep. This sounds like allllll of those stresses she listed piled up, unprocessed. Post-Traumatic-Stress-Disorder is what it sounds like. You cannot process stress in the same way after your trauma. So OP’s husband letting all of that pile up, unprocessed, just clogged his emotional regulation.
The stress of a birth is a clear final trigger imo. His response is clearly PTSD-related, based on how I understand my own PTSD.
That's why his dad wants him to marry a rich girl because he knows his son can't take care of himself lol
They went to the hospital and got her tested and they said themselves it is consistent with SA. They also filed a police report.
You are a decade too old for “monthaversaries” being a huge deal beyond 6 months.
Nothing wrong with doing something special together on the 26th of each month , making it a standing date night, can be a very nice way of avoiding the tendency to start “coasting” and to keep the romantic effort alive but acting like it's …
just as big of an occasion as [your] anniversary
…is a little ridiculous and devalues the bigger milestones.
Get an in person meeting with your boss to see what's going on. It's much harder to ignore and you'll get nonverbal communication that will help you get a better feel for what's going on.
My guess is that he's either holding a grudge for being abandoned or she's seduced him.
Either way, you'll want to update your resume and start sending it applications. Good managers are always in demand.
I know you’re saying you 100% trust her, but it doesn’t sound like you do. Let’s say this guy is trying to sleep with her: if she’s trustworthy, she’ll turn him down and that’ll be that.
I’m not saying you should trust her 100%—you haven’t given us enough to say if she’s been acting inappropriately or has broken your trust in the past—just that if you did, I don’t think there’d be a problem with the hotel.
1)You may need to pause the relationship or you to heal
2) make sure you are seeing a trauma therapist
3) consider changing up your BC
4) talk to your bf usually as long as you are willing to try and at least be intimate we are all good.
I think the worst part is that he did know what he was sending you into, he just didn’t give a shit.
Theft is wrong.
And telling OP to steal money from someone who has THREATE DTO ASSAULT her is RIDICULOUS.
I swear this sub's obsession with “revenge” acts has never been more dangerous.
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Sometimes as guys we are screwed if we move too fast ( that's all we want type comments) but at the same time if we move to slow the think oh he isn't in to me. Find a girl that matches your pace patience is not a bad thing.