Five years ago I caught my husband cheating. It lasted about 4 months. He ended it after I found out. We’ve had a better relationship since then and we have sex often. He's always had a thing for a woman he works with. She's 10 years younger. He got a new phone and his text started to show up on an old iPad I started using again. I haven't told him I know about the messages. She's told him several times that she won't have a relationship with a married man but they continue to flirt with each other. If I tell him I know he'll be furious. I also don't want him to know because I want to be able to stop this if it goes too far because so far she's adamantly refused to meet with him. What should I do? Should I message her or call her and ask her to stop messaging with him?
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