i am in a fairly new relationship- this is the first real relationship ive been in. we’ve been dating for about 2 months, and made it official a few weeks ago.
ive been with quite a few women before, and never really had a problem like this. the only thing different is that i am now in a committed relationship…. i really like her, and we connect really well. im attracted to her, and im consistently aroused during foreplay, but for some reason when it comes to actually having sex i just go soft.
ive really dialled in my life to assure that its not a physical affliction…. its happened twice now and i really just want to make love to her. i dont drink, smoke, and i took 10mg of cialis but still was ‘pushing rope’ as they say.
it feels like a mental block of some sort… all of my ‘pursuits’ before this were lustful. with this girl, i did everything i could to build a solid foundation without sex; now thats its time to escalate things i cant seem to bring myself to it.
i cant be the first to be in this position. is this a phase that ends? can i make it out of this and get on with having a relationship? TIA
edit: i really really appreciate all the positive insight and encouragement, knowing that im not alone here really takes the pressure off. thank you all for your time and sharing your experiences.
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