Moved into hell
Redditors, i need advice. I’m 30f and my boyfriend 27m have been together for almost a year now. We were doing long distance and I decided to take the dive and be the one to move. We typically never fought, argued, yelled at eachother. We felt like the perfect couple. So I quit my job and moved my entire life from beautiful Florida to Ohio for him.
We’ve been in this apartment together for two weeks now and I feel like I’m in hell. It has nothing to do with his living habits, his cleaning habits, etc, those are fine. I feel like he has completely changed. He’s not even close to being the same man I fell in love with. His communication skills are suddenly horrible, he stayed out extremely late last night & ignored my calls. He expects me to wait on him hand and foot but complains about my food. He flips everything I find wrong about his actions right around back to me to make me feel like I’m wrong for even bringing it up.
Basically what I’m asking is, I now feel so trapped. We signed this year lease and I don’t know what to do. I’m still looking for a job and i can’t afford this townhome rent by myself. I want him gone but I’m also struggling with this huge mistake i made that i now have to face. I have to tell my family who didn’t think it was a good idea in the first place that they were right. Every day i want to move back home but it’s expensive. I feel like there’s a boulder on my chest & i can’t move.
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