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Date: October 13, 2022
You should always listen to your inner voice. If it doesn't feel right don't ignore it.
Nah kick him out and let back if in therapy. Don't give up your home.
Morally no? In what universe?
Listen. Just because something has affected you negatively does NOT make it amoral, as much as you may want to think that.
Is she aware of how expensive a 4ct diamond is, especially one that looks as good as moissanite?
It's not you, it's just the general responses sorry if you feel targeted. I'm kinda in a bag headspace about all of this coming down right now.
You haven't told the guy this needs to stop yet?!!!
That's the biggest red flag here. Because you don't actually want this affair to end is what I read from that.
Divorce.
…more like he won’t have to remember 2 different names that are his children. 1 name -done. I can remember that. ? Stay away from that toxic dump of a family. NTA
After you didn't make it to the first dates you two had planned, she might have had the impression you didn't want to, finding excuses and not being interested, so that might be why she isn't checking on you anymore.
BRAVO , self care right now is really important.
Stop has multiple meanings that can't be displayed with text and are purely based on how it is said.
Okay I will get a bit personal here but its not out of context as my story is similar.
A few months back i met my surgeon. We hit it right off and in the months that followed i ended up developing strong feelings for him. It was his character, how smart and calm he is and how good at his job he was. It was also the fact that he stood by my side during my healing process. Nothing happened between us aside some flirting and i am the type to cheat.
My partner knew about this as i dont hide and sneak. I reached a point where i had to make a decision. Leave my partner of 7 years or continue the relationship?
During our lifetimes we will have tempetations and even develop feelings for others feelings are humanly innate. What matters is to keep choosing our person. Love is not a feeling it is a choice.
He has to choose. He can't have you both. I chose my partner because i don't want to envision my life without him nor never seeing his sweet face and hearing his smile.
Recommendation – Break up with him before it's too late and you feel guilty over it.
Reason – He's highly controlling and you two are at different stages in your life, he lacks friends (or seems to) and decides to put it all on you instead of finding a hobby he can do while you're gone. You do not need to ask permission from a man to go hang out with friends. Communicate, don't placate.
Advice – Take a stepback, and read this over as if your best friend had wrote it about her relationship, what would you say?
I'm sorry you're going through this.
This is, unfortunately, typically age that schizophrenic disorders tend to start seriously manifesting themselves.
Not a lot you can do except force them to take their meds in the morning and drive them to their therapist every two weeks.
Thinking it's some kind of hangup she has due to inexperience. Also think the friend had something to do with this getting blown out of proportion. Might be taking advantage because she's actually interested in you. If she approaches you in a few days, run, don't walk, away from her.
I agree with all the posters here. She is not ready for a relationship. I think it would have been fine if she had told you that you were moving too fast, or she wanted consent before each kiss. What doesn't work is that brought a friend with her.
I think let her go. I also don't think when she call you, that you should get back with her. I think if you ultimately want to be with her, either be platonic friends for a year, or let someone else be her first for everything.
Make out in your car my dude. Don’t reinvent the wheel
He’s definitely looking at porn. No one is hacking into someone else’s Reddit account to watch porn. That makes no sense.
His reaction being to double down on the lie and try to gas light you is pretty problematic.
Uuuummmm, no. Not okay. You should provide her a list with expensive things like she does for you. Since she is lying and being a POS girlfriend, don’t buy her a thing until a month after her Birthday and match it to the value of what she’s given you.
No, don’t even do that. Just dump her. She’s a user and you don’t have the job to be a sugar daddy for her. Focus on you and find a real, balanced relationship.
Another chance so she can become somebody she isn’t? Dude. Get out now. You deserve better. It’s not a joke, it’s her kink.
I hope you have discussed this with your husband. You don’t want to cause problems in your marriage over this friendship even completely innocent one that it would be.
That’s not a boyfriend, that’s a prison guard. Do not put up with this.
Do you want to be in a relationship where you can’t trust your partner? I’m asking because you are in a relationship where you can’t trust your partner. Do you think that your feelings are ridiculous? I’m asking because you have been shown time and time again that you are with somebody who is untrustworthy. This is all your call from here. Do you want this in your life?
You don't want to finish it anyways. It's a complete let down and waste of time. Start showing him memes about the last few seasons and he'll just stop making you watch it.
Have you met any of her friends? If the answer is no, I'd say you are the side piece relationship.
I just burst out laughing so thank you
People like to frown on the saying “Drunk words are sober thoughts,” but in this case i think they apply. Tell her you wouldn’t want her to be saddled with a “loser” like yourself, and so that’s why you’re cutting her loose. Steer her to the front door, and close it behind her.
I just want to remind you that as long as you were honest about any birth control you were taking, this isn’t something you did to him and he is just as responsible for the pregnancy as you. You just get to be the one who finds out first and has to break the news.
It is really unfair if he is angry with you and not himself, so if that happens I hope you don’t apologize or feel guilty. Maybe you can practice your mothering skills and tell him to have all the tantrum he needs and let you know when he’s ready to talk like a big boy. I’m just kidding about the big boy part, but you are pregnant and stress isn’t good for you or the baby. If he doesn’t realize that, and reacts in a way that is stressful for you, it would be smart for you to remove yourself until he’s had time to process. For the same reason, you might want to tell him soon so that you aren’t stressing thinking about telling him. And also, it’s a big deal and him freaking out is not a problem, I think a lot of people need time to process surprise pregnancies, but it should be redirected away from you. It may also help to remind him of that and rather than freak out at each other, you can be there for each other.
You got this, it’s going to be ok.
I think another thing to consider is that what you were doing with them was trying to manipulate them, and that your rage was due to them not acquiescing to your manipulation.
It's fine to have opinions about the music and want it to change, but the thing to do is say very directly, “I'm so into doing this thing together, but the music is not my taste. Can we diversify the playlist? Can we alternate who chooses music?”
We get taught that being direct is impolite, but this is a much easier, more polite conversation than yelling at people because you aren't communicating your real feelings with them.
That's because it is, at least not remembering the name of the person they are dating is a plot point in one episode. I believe it was Jerry (but it could have been George) has a gf and they can't remember her name, but she complains about how she used to be bullied in school for her name which was apparently the same as a female body part. So the entire episode they try to guess what her name could be until she finally realizes and breaks up angrily when he can't say her name.
We split our recurring monthly bills by % income. Mortgage, utilities, internet, car insurance. I make 60% of our total income so I pay 60% of these. We don’t keep track of other expenses like groceries and cleaning products or other things for the house. Just whoever gets to it or who it’s more convenient for that day. It ends up being pretty evenly split but we don’t nickel and dime each other over these. Household chores are the same. We don’t have assigned duties it’s just whoever gets to it.
We were young and never thought to discuss. I often regret that.. but yes, he’s on board with my decision. I just feel terrible about it
Broke up with her and never second guess my decision.
Yes but turnoffs are still turnoffs, no matter when the truth is revealed. First date, fiftieth date, whenever. His feelings of being turned off are valid, too ??♀️
Way to completely fail to address the point. I have read the post. I disagree she was shamed or degraded. You think she was. I’m asking where, and you refuse to point it out. Guess the discussion ends there if you can’t be bothered to do the bare minimum of driving the discussion forward.
She offered to pay rent and they said no. It’s selfish of her parents to ask for money when they’re the reason they’re in financial trouble.
I literally did that but for some reason she wasn't having it.
I guess she was just tired of me and this was the “perfect” excuse to end the relationship.
He's trying to put you on the defensive so you'll switch to apologizing and stop asking him questions.
Pick a non-sexual moment and ask to talk with her. Tell her that you perceive her repeated and ongoing requests for non-monogamy as pressure because she is not honoring what you already said no to. Ask her to stop. No jokes, no tricks, no games. Just no.
Good riddance buddy move on. Don't listen to the women here you deserve better.
we don’t live together and i want space as in like being left alone if that makes sense. i haven’t told him i’m moody around him cause i’m afraid he’ll think i wanna break up with him.
Get rid of the cats.
First smack your boyfriend for introducing your sister to this inappropriate on every level man. You're not wrong to worry about your sister, she's in a terrible situation. But you're right that even though she's not truly grownup she is legally an adult so there's not a lot you can do. Hopefully she'll figure it out as she sees that this guy is making no moves to get a divorce. Try to not be so deeply involved in what he's doing with his family. It's no one's business but his and his wife's whether she works or not and no one but them truly knows the situation inside their own family. Going NC would just reenforce what this guy's probably already telling her, that she needs him because she has no one else. Keep the door open so that when she does finally gain the maturity to see what's going on she has a place to escape to.
Being alone is much better than being in abusive relationship even if it's scary at first.
You'll probably learn to love yourself a lot more if you'll be able to dress how you want and post whatever you want without you loved ones insulting you.
The problem with the nickname is you may call him that, but everyone he knew before you will likely still use his old name so you will be triggered. So, definitely therapy.
I don’t know how to help you navigate this but I’d by lying if I said you’re not my role model right now. I think you could teach a lesson of determination and naked work and I applaud you for bettering yourself!
Nope. Nobody is a judge here and this isn't about a verdict to give about who is in their rights and who is not.
This isn't AITA.
I have never worked or attended school where you needed a marriage certificate to prove that you had close ties to your partner and might be needed to support them.
You wouldn’t necessarily qualify for FMLA in the states but that hardly applies to Danish folks.
That is a grossly selfish, tone deaf and insensitive ask. Is he always stupid or just when it comes to waving his dick in his recovering wife's face? I hate to say it but you may have dodged a bullet. I can imagine him asking for a bj while you're in labor.
Damn, true.
Okay, thank you for your input. I will try my best to get a job soon
Oh! My! God! I hope he was arrested for that.
Confusing her and trying to convince her that she is doing something wrong, and planting a seed that she just confused if he was cheating and she believed it while turning it around on her would absolutely be Gaslighting.
Gaslighting has nothing to with agreement, lol. It's about manipulation and convincing someone something isn't true when it in fact is.
Sounds like a hobosexual. Take off your rose colored glasses now and see all those red flags for what they really are. Freeze your credit, change all your passwords, and serve him with a 30 day notice. I guarantee he'll be moved in and “engaged” to someone else before the 30 days is up.
Sounds like you've been played… Whether you deserve it or not she's clearly upset with you and she is taking it out on you by playing with your mind. Look what you did sucked… you get it and she gets it The question becomes when are you going to do about strengthening this marriage you have…. Right now it seems like she's messing with you to what end I don't know… But you guys clearly need therapy
Please listen to your gut.
You know something is very wrong here.
I find it weird, that it was supposed- again- to be a group of people. And a genre he KNOWS she doesn't like!
And AGAIN… tadaaaa… it's only the two of them. He should have gone home at once. As this was the second time that happened!
That's a tricky situation, making it look as if it was OPs fault for being neglectful of her boyfriend.
Concessions go both ways. And having a partner with clearly defined likes and dislikes makes it quite easy to exclude them from things one doesn't want them to attend.
I don’t want him messing up .
You're not in charge of his behavior; he is. All you're allowed is to have boundaries which he can either accept or ignore.
Your boundary is no trip with his guy friends to Thailand.
He can accept that, and you can continue dating with no problems OR he can ignore that and you can continue dating and have problems OR you can enforce your boundary and stop dating him.
That's it. Those are your choices. Period.