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Date: October 23, 2022
Can you get a room with 2 queen beds instead? Maybe she worries that he'll freak out if he's alone in a room.
Personally if my dad started dating someone with an age gap closer to me than him I would question it too. Specially at 13. I don’t know any 13 year olds who don’t have some type of attitude.
It's best if you – as a child – stay out of the games these adults are playing.
Take your dad for a ride. By himself.
Sit down at a restaurant. Look in his eyes. Tell him what you feel good about him. Tell him you want him as a father in your life and that's why you are even talking with him. Tell him you want a one-on-one relationship where he can confidently tell you something without worrying if it will make to anyone else in th world. Tell him that that's how you want him to be also but also similar to him you will not breach other's confidence either.
In short, everyone has their personal boundaries and at least your boundaries will not be trampled upon. And you won't trample others. This has to be very clear befor the next point.
Tell him that you feel Lilly and Lillianna are too close. Specially when shortened. So ask him to share about why it's ao important for he and his new wife to name their daughter so close.
How do you feel about his wife? She reached out to you on FB. Do you feel that you two can have a decent relationship as step mom and step daughter?
If you are not sure then may be you need to work on some aspects of your relationship with both of them.
I don't know but it's highly likely your mom and grandma are also not following personal boundaries.
One tale tell sign is when one person hints or speaks badly about other person behind them. Whenever that happens then just stop. Say something like “I know you may be mad or angry or miffed at the absent person. But it's not fair for us to talk bad about them behind their back. We should not assume why they said or did xyz. We should flatly ask them, without making them angry. So they can be comfortable in telling their motives truthfully”.
People don't change their behavior because someone else says so. They change when they realize it is necessary or better for them. So, be patient. But persist.
Eventually you will lead these adults to a better place. As good as it can get.
Good luck.
Yeah, she's trying to keep you dangling incase her affair with the ex doesn't work out.
She's been, at a bare minimum, emotionally cheating for a year but more than likely they'd been fucking during that time. Best case, you happened to catch them the very first time in a year that she had arranged to have sex with him. Totally believable…
Of course you can’t grasp it, you aren’t a predator and pedophile.
Yep, she needs to focus on getting her son the professional help he needs. Putting his well-being on YOU is a silly choice when he needs real doctors and therapy and she only wants a quick fix that isn’t a fix at all. Her son has deep issues he needs to work on, and you are not his emotional support animal.
Hi. I realize I’m a little late here but I thought I’d chime in anyway. I’m a little less than two years sober myself. I didn’t accomplish this with AA, just did it on my own, and in fact have a less than favorable view of that program.
Fwiw, I don’t believe that no one should drink or that anyone who drinks is an alcoholic, but I do see alcoholism in more people than I did before. Most of them don’t have serious problems like I did, but I do see signs of dependency where I once did not. But I digress.
The point I want to make is this: I’m often asked if staying sober is difficult. My reply is that staying off the booze is the easy part. It’s confronting all the shit you used the booze to hide from that difficult. It sounds like your BF hasn’t confronted all of his shit yet and has just found something new to hide behind. Religion especially is a great shield because you can accept ITS truths instead of searching and struggling to find your own.
Anyway, it seems to me that he has deeper issues to deal with and is nowhere near ready to do that yet. Sadly, he may never be. I would suggest you move on – you don’t wanna get dragged around while he struggles to finds himself, or worse, fails to. Good luck.
She apparently couldn’t be in the same room as me cause it hurt too much. And has been out of it so Ik she didn’t want too. But thought it was for the best in her mind
The fact that he tried using the whole “it'll bring us closer” bullshit is a huge red flag. It tells me he's manipulative and will twist feelings to get what he wants which is to just bang other women.
I'm just assuming you are his side piece and he is trying to not be seen in public with you so that his wife/gf doesn't find out.