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BUILD UP FOR SQUIRT [Multi Goal]
Date: March 21, 2023
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Cheating is cheating. Doesn't matter if it's with the same sex. And she hides it from you. Just wait until you have kids and she tells you she's turned gay and wants to move in with her girlfriend and take the kids with her. I assume you didn't sign up for a poly relationship so why should you accept it.
Does it feel right for you that you‘re only doing this because he‘s pressuring you into it? Is this the type of person you want to be in a relationship with?
Look, this is a classic case of misaligned values.
You wanted some R&R.
She wanted some pleasantries.
I think there's compromise to he had here and in future situations.
If it were me, I'd take ten seconds to explain myself.
I'd be like, “Hey nice to see you. Look, not to be rude, but I've got a splitting headache and just need to lay down for a bit. I'd usually hang out with you guys, but it's been killing me all day, so sorry.”
That way, you at least acknowledged the situation in a polite and respectful way.
I don't know either.
Just don’t date him ??♀️
To respond to your update, it sounds like you're both fighting over very immature things. And mostly communication issues.
The question, “who would you kill” is always a trick question when it involves people you know. Others only ask it to start drama, and answering it makes you look bad, even if you have an objectively reasonable answer. How would you feel if you overheard your boyfriend joking about how he would kill you for your best friend because he's known you for less time? Probably not great. Keep in mind how others might feel if they heard you say something about them.
On the same token, your boyfriend should not be making fun of you to his friends (or anyone). He, presumably, knew you could overhear, and that's a shitty move, even if he thought he was just bonding with his bros over some harmless jokes. If they hurt you, they're not harmless. Him ignoring you for the most part also sucks. But if he hadn't seen his friends in a while, maybe he got caught up in catching up with them. If he continues to ignore you at social outings, it's a problem.
The driving thing. You absolutely should not offer something you don't want someone to take you up on. That's silly. You were testing him, it sounds like, and ended up putting yourself in a serious situation (if you'd been pulled over, a DUI can make it impossible to get certain jobs, not to mention the higher risk of getting into an accident). I wouldn't bring it up at all, unless you're going to say, “If I offer for you to let me drive back alone after drinking, say no. I don't actually mean it and I'm not safe to drive.” You said he could leave, so he did. Unless you were visbily unsafe to drive, your boyfriend didn't do anything wrong here.
These miscommunications hint at incompatibility. Like I said before, it is possible to work on communicating if you want to make this work. Be mindful of what you both say to and about each other.