Ah ok yes you’re right. However equally if you reread the post, she did also specify that at the time she told him fingering hurt her too, so assumed he knew this meant it was not enjoyable. Which is a reasonable assumption. So really this is all unfair and over the top.
I don’t think anyone would change their mind if the genders were reversed !
A bitter ex would give a much more transparent, obvious reason for why he's a shitbag. Believe me.
The point is that love takes many different forms, and some of those forms can be selfish and painful
Ah ok yes you’re right. However equally if you reread the post, she did also specify that at the time she told him fingering hurt her too, so assumed he knew this meant it was not enjoyable. Which is a reasonable assumption. So really this is all unfair and over the top.
I don’t think anyone would change their mind if the genders were reversed !