He's very controlling about YOUR behavior; he also is unsatisfying with his constant talking. I do think you should put some distance. Obviously, you may be thinking about more than that. That's ok.
I’m just starting to get uncomfy. His brother is at my school too and I feel like he soemtimes secretly films me. Like – why is he this pressed over one date? I just want to let it go
He's very controlling about YOUR behavior; he also is unsatisfying with his constant talking. I do think you should put some distance. Obviously, you may be thinking about more than that. That's ok.
I’m just starting to get uncomfy. His brother is at my school too and I feel like he soemtimes secretly films me. Like – why is he this pressed over one date? I just want to let it go
Is there another reason you want to delay your wedding? It seems like you are taking this excuse and running with it.